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Due in October -part 3

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HaggisNeepsTatties · 04/03/2012 18:00

The third instalment as we're a talkative bunch!

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Beeblebear · 14/03/2012 22:02

I'm ashamed at the number of cookies I have eaten today

Angelico · 14/03/2012 22:27

Hey peeps - exhausted wave. Thanks for sympathy. As if work wasn't shit enough been v sore all day - pain in abdomen. Scan moved forward a day till 2moro so hoping all is well. Knackered so sending a wave and hug to all, more 2moro xo

Angelico · 14/03/2012 22:29

ps: funny story mickey :o

Oh and asked Rowan MN to leave us be as can hardly find way to bed at the minute, never mind find thread if it is moved. Maybe in the 2nd Trim when we all have our brains back... Looking forward to being reunited...

FjordMor · 14/03/2012 23:05

Hello everyone. Been feeling very shit the past couple of days; both emotionally & physically. finally saw GP in UK today. Should feel pleased; is sending me with letter to EPU on Mon morning for a scan & nuchal thing. However, I just feel rubbish & cried constantly when I returned. I got no blood pressure taken, not many questions - she didn't even ask how I knew I was pregnant & didn't do a test. I could have been Munchausens or anything. I'm sick of being so big and everyone presuming I'm VERY overweight (even this doc). My mother's a cow & didn't even ask how my appointment went (I'm staying with her) but just started criticising me & asking me to do things as soon as I walked through the door until I told her to fuck off & burst into tears.

However, glad everyone's doing well with chosen hospitals & reassuring scans.

Thanks for listening.

(this is why I haven't been posting - tend to live by 'if you've only got negative things to say or are wallowing in your own problems, don't say anything at all.)

41, 9+3, 1st, miserable old fat bint

FjordMor · 14/03/2012 23:08

P.S. watched 'One born every minute' for the first time and bawled all the way through. Every time one of them was in pain or anything. Might not watch again. Exhausting.

Midgetm · 15/03/2012 00:01

Fjordmor sorry you are feeling so pants, scan is good news though. Maybe someone needed to tell your Mum to fuck off, think of it as a world service. I have learnt something today: watching champions league football when pregnant is in advisable because leaping around suddenly causes immense pain and jumpin up and down means you let out a little bit of wee. I am glad I can share these valuable lessons with you all. Ive only just got off the tube. Knackered. Night night all.

milk · 15/03/2012 07:18

OBEM is a lie! My labour with DS was nothing like what I saw on TV!

Good morning btw :)

Guccigirl79 · 15/03/2012 07:31

Morning ladies
Am hoping for a less queasy day today,wish me luck!!!!

Hope all u lovely ladies get through today in one piece :-)

bella2012 · 15/03/2012 07:58

oh flordmor that sounds crap. Hope you are feeling a bit brighter this morning? How did your mum react? Maybe she will get the message not to mess with a pregnant woman!

I have a day off today and i am so grateful for it. Went to bed ridiculously early last night and don't feel too sick today thank god. Fx for sickness/crying/farting free days all round! Xx

Smorgs · 15/03/2012 08:19

Morning girls - I overslept this morning and didn't have time to go for my blood test. So, so tired.

I also woke up looking like I had been punched in the mouth - my cold sore is enormous! Never had one this bad before. It came on so quickly yesterday afternoon and now looks utterly gross. Anyway does anyone know if it's dangerous to have cold sores while you're pregnant? I've been putting Zovirax on it but suddenly wondered whether that was a good idea?

Beeblebear I ate my own bodyweight in biscuits yesterday.
FjordMor I'm an emotional wreck every other day at the moment and keep snapping at DH poor thing. Sounds like you have a difficult situation though. Stay strong.

Does anyone else want to fast forward a few weeks to the second trimester?!

Smorgs · 15/03/2012 08:20

See - now I've even forgotten how to write in bold?!

milk · 15/03/2012 09:13

So I've told people on Facebook I have morning sickness. The world knows, lol.

GonnaNeedABiggerHouse · 15/03/2012 09:37

Hi Smorgs I'm a bit of a lurker rather than a poster but I'm an expert on coldsores - I get real shockers too!

Zovirax is OK according to doctors. The active ingredient is aciclovir - and whilst packaing is a bit over cautious - I've been told by my GP that it's fine. Having said that - I prefer the Avert electronic cold sore machine from Boots. I had an outbreak a fortnight ago and used the Avert machine and tea tree and I barely noticed the blister stage - straight to scabbing!

38, 8+5, DC4

LondonMrsS · 15/03/2012 10:01

I've started getting my morning sickness in the evenings. Good for work life, not good for sex life.

DameFlatYouLent · 15/03/2012 10:13

Morning all! Just to say, I'm still lurking, but don't really have much to say! Just getting through each day, waiting til 3rd April for scan, hoping to feel better soon...
31, 10+2, DC2

bettybat · 15/03/2012 10:28

Oh my god. Yesterday morning I was sick properly for the first time - had a banana and a coffee and boom! So I thought OK, morning sickness has started. Went out for an appointment, had a bacon sandwich (screw not having bread!), felt iffy all day long - had a really bad headache. Had an omlette, some fruit, lots of water. Then about 8.30 started being sick - and like, massively so. To the point where I was chugging water just to have something to throw up rather than wrecking my throat and stomach with the violent retching. I was sick maybe 9 times. Finally stopped about midnight, was OK through night and gingerly drinking water this morning.

My friend emailed me about a 24hr stomach bug she had yesterday so I have no idea if it was MS or a bug - but if it was MS, I will die tonight :( I definitely got the impression my body was trying to eject something, the way I would get water down myself straight after the last time, and it would come straight back up.

Smorgs · 15/03/2012 11:58

bettybat that's awful, I hope you start feeling better soon. If your friend has a stomach bug then I think it's likely to be that? Try not to worry too much.

GonnaNeedABiggerHouse Thanks for the advice - I don't normally get them this bad so think I'll just continue with the Zovirax.

londonlivvy · 15/03/2012 13:01

Hurrah - today I don't feel sick. YAY. Maybe bettybat got all my sickness for me? Sorry... hope you're feeling better. And hope everyone's having a reasonable quease-free day. Sunshine is definitely boosting my morale!

Cwest hopefully good news now you've seen midwife?

Fjordmor that sounds stressful - ugh. I'd say don't worry re moaning though - we all have our bad days (and it makes me feel better not to be the only moaner!).

Fjordmor and Milk I watched One Born every minute too. Bad idea. I had gruesome nightmares all night. Man I have an active imagination at the moment!!

milk We've told a few close friends but not family and to be honest I'm quite enjoying the peace and quiet. Once the news is out I'll be hassled with well-meaning advice from my sisters and told in no uncertain words to get married pronto by my parents (we are engaged and due to get married next June). After being told that next year was a long time and I'd be very old etc etc, I said to mum that we might not wait til next year to start trying for a family and she said, with horror, "AN UNWED MOTHER?". I tried to remind her it's not 1954 and he's hardly going to do a runner given he's a) devoted and b) buying a house with me, but she'll definitely be applying pressure for us to scoot to the registry office. Sigh.

36,7+2,#1

sarahpip · 15/03/2012 14:34

I haven't watched one born every minute yet - far too frightening!!

I was wondering how much weight everyone has put on? Due to frightful nausea but no sickness, I have been chomping through an inordinate amount of food. I have tried to be good, but sometimes cheese on toast or chocolate is the only thing that will do. Consequently I have already put on 8lb at wk 10, and am worried I am going to be a heffalump. I wonder if anyone has experienced the same, and if anyone knows if it's possible to try and loose weight in trimester 2, when we are 'supposed' to be feeling less sick and have more energy?

36, 10wk, # 1

Angelico · 15/03/2012 15:48

Hey all sorry to read and run, just so tired! Bean grand at scan, waving right arm madly - amazing the difference in a fortnight, looks like something vaguely human rather than unidentifiable white mass! Got swabs taken to check for infection after achiness.

Just watched Marley and me and howled inconsolably. Bah, hormones! Take care ladies, especially all those who are sick / bloated / constipated / shattered

ps: Livvy your mum isn't by any chance Irish is she?! Wink

Fjordmor I suspect the fuck off was well earned - you dish it girl! x

Guccigirl79 · 15/03/2012 17:32

Hey everyone!!

Had quite a good day (touch wood) am even hoping to go out for dinner with bf - get me!!!

Hope all you lovely lot have had a good day & you're not too bloated & farty!!!

Went to hospital to have bloods taken today as mw couldnt find a vein & I thought it was going to be a similar case there,but alas after two attempts we got a vein :) however,I think I may be a right old baby as it really bloody hurt!!!!!

milk · 15/03/2012 19:28

londonlivvy- I said I have told Facebook, not family :P I know each family member will have an opinion on my pregnancy Angry

I can't believe it is 7:30 and I am off to bed Shock My bedtimes are getting earlier and earlier :(

Midgetm · 15/03/2012 19:35

Evening all,

Shattered but happy. Had another scan today (yes that is number 3) and the bean is till alive and kicking. EPU so convinced looking good that they offered to discharge me - which I accepted. I still have extra scans with the consultant but weekly is excessive, even with my rocky history. So may even tell people next week after I go back to St Marys. Blimey its real isn't it?

sarahpip I don't think you are supposed to lose in the 2nd trimester at all - do check with your midwife though if you are concerned.

As for watching OBEM - are you insane? Although I am a little tempted. And Marley and Me? Nearly as bad as Up. I cired last night at the football when Chelsea won, I cried at the hospital and I cried at a song. Mentalist.

So tired after such a late night last night I will be in bed very early tonight...but maybe not quite as early as Milk

YompingJo · 15/03/2012 20:12

Hello all :) Just checking in, not much to say. Totally exhausted after management meeting after school on Monday, leading a trip to the New Forest with 60 kids on Tuesday, Maths parents evening on Wednesday and planning meeting till 6:30 tonight, during which I think I might have eaten my own steadily increasing body weight in cake and chocolate :(. Oh, and we currently have a mock OfSTED monitoring inspection going on. Trying to give a fuck about that, but failing utterly. Hmm

I finally had contact from my midwife - first proper midwife appointment is 2 weeks today and she's going to book my scan. Here's the problem though - we're seeing my family on 8th April, so we want to tell them then, in person, but I want to have had the 12-week scan so we are sure everything is OK (I know it is no guarantee that everything will continue to be OK, but can't imagine the horribleness of telling family, only to have scan afterwards and discover a MMC). So we're thinking we might have to book a private scan if we haven't heard by a week before we see my family (or if we have our scan date and it's after we visit them). I am firmly in the "don't believe in private healthcare" camp too, but it's the only time we're going to be seeing my family in the next few weeks and it makes sense to tell them then, so it also makes sense to be sure before we do. Ah, decisions decisions.

I saw some actual road rage this morning - a cyclist with his arm inside the driver's window of a van, trying to punch the driver. Scary. And today I sounded so pregnant. "What's the word for when you both have different opinions and you're arguing?"...and "Ooh, for that art topic, we could do the thing with the thing, you know, when they use things to look like other things." and "there's that person, you know, that explorer, who went to Africa, or maybe the Amazon, and got attacked by animals, or maybe savages, and died. Or something." If my team haven't guessed by now, they're asleep.

So yeah. That's me with not much to say Blush. Hope everyone is good, sympathy bettybat for the chucking up, sounds like a bug to me, lots of those around at the moment. Hope you feel better today. Sympathy fjordmor for the mother situation, I don't have much time for mine at the moment either as a result of various things that happened last year. Sympathy GonnaNeed... for the coldsore from hell - I have spots from hell, they're like mini bloody volcanoes under my skin, and they won't go away, the same ones keep popping back up again Angry. And sarahpip I'm far too terrified to weigh myself. Just by looking in the mirror at my profile, I've put on at least 100 lbs. I told the midwife today I am a size 12. I think that's no longer true [sobbing uncontrollably emoticon]. Angelico, glad you got good news at scan, I bet that was a relief. everybody else, 1 more day till the weekend!

36 (although feel more like 56 this week), 9 + 4, DC1

HaggisNeepsTatties · 15/03/2012 20:33

Hi everyone - I've been quiet recently. Still lurking just lacking inspiration!
Exhausted, and really suffering from a sore coccyx (which I went to the GP about on monday - not much they can do) He did give me a prescription for Lactulose though which is amazing!
It's taken a couple of days to take effect, but I am now pooing freely - hurrah! (though it is making my farts very smelly!)
Had booking in appointment with midwife yesterday - she was lovely and because it's a small village with one GP surgery I'll most likely see her all the way through my pregnancy.
She's also booked my a consultant appointment because of my previous hysteroscopies.

Hope everyone is doing all right? My brain is mush or I would try and remember what's going on for everyone. Forgive me!

33, 10&1, 1st DC

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