Littlepurpleprincess Yes! Mine has been away snowboarding all week, he left 2 hours after we got the BFP, and I ended up having a massive go at him because he was texting to tell me he had had a good day on the slopes, and asking my day had been, but nothing else - no "how are you feeling", no acknowledgement of this terrifying (to me) new development! Told him he needed to show more consideration and courtesy as while he was off having a great time I was left at home dealing with this, feeling crap and not able to talk to anyone (he has told his best mate who he is away with so he can chat about it anytime). The next day a massive bunch of roses got delivered to me at work... think he got the message, lol. I do feel sorry for him though because I'm a bit hormonal and apt to fly off the handle at the smallest thing at the moment and he is bearing the brunt of that.
He is lovely, and he does care, and he was asking me if I was OK, he just didn't realise that I needed a bit more than that at the moment. Then he put something on Facebook about looking forward to not aching, and I had a go at him about that too - he's off having a holiday, doing his hobby, and he is moaning about it on a public forum. Men
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So I feel your pain! And it sounds like you are suffering and need him to acknowledge that and cut you a little slack. I don't think men do that naturally, they need training, lol
I've just been for a Saturday morning swim, it was exhausting... Feel shattered and it was meant to energise me! 
Congrast elvislives, wow, you must be on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster! Why are you worried about abnormalities? You wouldn't have a scan until 10-12 weeks anyway so you won;t be delaying anything by being away. Enjoy your honeymoon - it's lovely that your 1st DC will be sharing it with you 
Congrats bungomama, I'll be 37 when I'm due so also freaking out a bit, especially as this is our first and ideally I'd like 2. crosses fingers for twins!