For mums 2 be after M/C ... PART 5!

[hewlettsdaughter]

Hi there. I was just wondering how everyone is - Ghosty, Hilary, Bogwoppit and anybody else who is pregnant after a previous miscarriage. There seems to have been a lot of sad news re pregnancies on mumsnet recently. On the one hand, I feel like I don't want to parade being pregnant in front of those who have had an m/c - on the other hand, we need to show that there are some positive stories out there!
I am 16 weeks tomorrow. Feeling ok, over the nausea I felt from about week 7 to week 12 or 13.

Thanks JMG, I cant sleep, I'm so worried, cant even have a drink in case I am still pregnant. I wouldnt be so worried if it wasnt bright red, everything I read says brown blood is fine but bright red is a cause for alarm. shit shit

Bunny - thinking of you petal.

bunny - just saw this, thinking of you today , hope you're ok, let us know
hana
xx

Bunny2 - I had this at about 9/10 weeks. The blood was bright red. Apparently it was either the implantation bleed or else cervical erosion and everything was ok. Thinking of you and I have everything crossed for you.

Bunny only just seen this. Firstly, congratulations Secondly, although i haven't miscarried before, i did have some bleeding prior to Xmas when i was about 11 weeks.

Mine too was bright red and it was the most horrendous experience ever - my midwife was on holiday, my hospital told me to ring PrimeCare (?) someone was meant to ring me back and never did - just left me sat there bleeding.
A few days later everything settled down, i went into my EPU for a scan and it was horrible - they told me before i went in that the sonographer would do the scan then give the results to the consultant who would then talk me through them - my DP wasn't aloud to come in with me and it was heartbreaking, i was sure there was something desperately wrong.

Anyway, am now 25+3 and everything is fine - just wanted to try and reassure you that although red blood isn't a great sign, it doesn't necessarily mean the worst.
Thinking of you today - SC x

bunny, thinking of you x

Oh bunny, I've only just seen this. Hope you manage to get a scan. Thinking of you. jellycat xxx

Bunny, thinking of you and keeping absolutely everything crossed for you. Big Hug xxx

thanks everyone. I only bled a bit then it stopped and have had nothing since. I rang the early preg unit and they told me it is really common at around 6 weeks and not to worry. They were lovely and said I could go in if I was still worried but I am going to wait for my scan tomorrow. It's pretty fraught though, I really cant cope with another miscarriage.

Bunny, I have everuthing crossed for you. Hope that it goes well today

Bunny - am relieved to hear that. Hope the rest of the day (and the wait until the scan) is ok. We are all here if you need us

Thanks Beansprout and Pollingfold. I have an awful headache which I take as a good sign. I'll let you know how my scan goes tomorrow.

bunny, I'll be thinking of you tomorrow then. Fingers crossed. j xxx

that sounds positive bunny...hope you can get through the rest of the day until tomorrow without too much 'worry'
hana

Bunny, only just seen this honey! I too had bleeding at the 6 weeks mark in this pgcy and was told too it is very common at this point. I am thinking of you, hope the scan goes well and keep strong. xxxxx

Bunny2 - only just caught up on this. I will be thinking of you tomorrow. If it is any consolation I have had bright red blood with my successful pregnancies, and this time it was attributed to a cervical erosion. Hope you can rest tonight.

Bunny? How are you? Hope everything is ok, have been thinking of you.

Hi, I had my scan, I was so nervous but they found a heartbeat I am 6 wks now and will have another scan at 8 weeks. I am releived but now dreading the next one.

bunny2 - what brilliant news. The fact they found a heartbeat is excellent. Do try to relax.

Bunny - that's fantastic!! Glad you have another scan soon, although it probably feels like ages away. I know that this is going to feel like a really long few weeks, but just remember that everything is ok, you have a heartbeat, and you must just take each day as it comes, eat well, rest when you can and do what you need to do.

Big hug to you.

Wonderful news bunny

thanks

Great news Bunny!! Delighted for you!!! Doesn't it feel so different when there is a heartbeat there for a chnage!!!

thought I'd come in here for a moan instead of dragging down the Nov thread. Why is this so bloody hard? Everyday I wonder if I am carrying around a dead baby and it is awful. I am scared to become too attached to it dthat upsets me too. I want to love my growing baby but some self-preservation instinct seems to have kicked in and I just dont feel as attached to it as I was when I was carrying ds or my miscarried babies. I hate it, I should be happy to be pregnant but I just want to cry, I am so scared that I will lose this one too.

bunny, I'm sending you a big hug (((()))). I feel very much the same. Everyone I've told thinks I'm just being silly and negative but I'm frightened of getting attached. It must be so difficult for you, I don't know how to make things easier. When is your next scan? Try and focus on that, maybe - small steps. You're still pregnant today. Don't worry about not getting attached just yet - there is plenty of time for that. Just concentrate on getting through each day for now.

jellycat xxx