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Pregnancy post mc: Totally Grads Part 11!

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digitalgirl · 23/11/2011 15:56

Welcoming all those pregnant after miscarriage who need hand-holding, a place to moan, share happy news or just lurk.

It will happen for us this time.

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Biscuitsandtea · 05/12/2011 08:21

Yay Izzy!!!! That's great news and a lovely name!

And a mighty efficient labour if I might say so!

Enjoy your newborn snuggles Smile

Biscuitsandtea · 05/12/2011 08:24

And happy due date Blackkat Xmas Smile

Blackkat · 05/12/2011 08:41

izzy so pleased to hear your lovely news, Grin Grin congratulations to you and the family on the arrival of Catherine. Hope you are less sore soon. It's heartwarming to know of the happy end to your journey Smile. Thanks to you too for the support you have offered so many of us during our time here. I remember the support and advice you offered me during the darkest days after my mc, thank you ((hugs)) x x

bigmac hope to hear news from you soon x x

laylasmummy09 · 05/12/2011 08:47

Wow izzy that's lovely news for a monday morning congratulations so fast too I hope there's no snow in jan incase our lo turns up like that Smile
Happy due date blakkat
Have a lovely day everyone Xmas Smile

Daisybell1 · 05/12/2011 09:13

Morning all, still lurking and keeping up with all your news. Loving Owl's list and can I add?

Girls poo up their fronts, not back - you will need cotton buds to get it out of their tummy buttons

Girls do secret wees too when their nappy comes off

However much you rile against pink it takes over your life and you then find yourself planning a patchwork quilt made from fabric covered in pink hearts and cupcakes... Hmm

Kindles are indeed marvellous, and if you get an Audible subscription it will play audio books too

Babies toenails are supposed to look like they're ingrowing (that would have saved me an embarrassing call to the health visitor)

Drugs are marvellous Grin as are c sections

And finally two big ones

However anxious you are about being a mum, however worried about having one flavour and not the other, they get here and its all fine, in fact, better than fine, its lovely

And however anxious you feel, and however unreasonable you think those feelings are, there will be support for you here. You lot put up with my particular brand of mentalling so well. I recently reread your messages after pip arrived and realised I hadn't thanked you all. I honestly wouldn't have got through it all without you, so THANK YOU xxx

Blackkat · 05/12/2011 09:16

daisy sniffle, too many hormones for me to be reading that x

Daisybell1 · 05/12/2011 09:17

And woo hoo to Izzy and still lurking for bigmac

Oh and a final tip - if you send oh out with baby to find out what looking after them is really like, they will come back saying its easy as they will have had shop assistants running round after them all day Angry

KatAndKit · 05/12/2011 09:19

Congrats Izzy! A very lovely name and what a quick labour! Enjoy the cuddles :) :)

Daisybell1 · 05/12/2011 09:32

Passes tissues to BlackKat - have a mint aero Grin

Blackkat · 05/12/2011 09:34

Don't mind if I do, thanks x

LAF77 · 05/12/2011 12:15

Congrats izzy I hope my labour is as fast as that!

I've updated the list. Hope I didn't make any mistakes, but hopefully, we can fix it soon with an announcement from bigmac and blackkat

Monday 5th December

Bigmacandhappymeal - baby#1 40+6 weeks EDD 29th November
Blackkat - baby#1 40+0 wks EDD 5th December
Minnie74 -baby#1 39+0 wks EDD 12th December
Harassedandherbug - baby #4 37+2 wks EDD 22 December
Dooscooby - baby#1 37+2 wks EDD 22 December
Youremindmeofthebabe - baby#2 35+6 wks EDD 5th Jan
Sunchild77 - baby#3 35+5 wks EDD 6th Jan - Elcs at 39 wks
Freezingmyarseoff baby#2 35+2 EDD 7th Jan
Milkyways - baby#2 35+1 wks EDD 8th January
Laylasmummy - 33+2 wks EDD 21 Jan
Purpletoes - 30+5 weeks baby #1 EDD 8th Feb
Stitchinline - baby#1 27+5 wks EDD 29 February
Shellshock7 - baby#1 27+3 wks EDD 4 March
LAF77 - 24+5 wks EDD 21 March
LILI80 - 24+5 wks EDD 21 March
Biscuitsandtea - baby#2 23+6 wks EDD 27 March
KatAndKit - baby #1 21+5 EDD 11th April 2012
Digitalgirl - baby#2 21+0 wks EDD 16 April

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:

Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz
Malteser1981 with son Eli born 18 December, 8lb 6oz
Zayja with daughter Winona born 19 December, 7lbs 11oz
Sparklyrainbow with son Alex born 28th December, 9lb 7oz
GoodLuckBear with son James born 25th December, 8lb
BunnyBaby with son Daniel George born 5th January 2011, 10lb 1oz
AlbaDeTamble - with son born 10th Jan 2011, 8lbs 10oz
Gilda - with son Ren born 10th Jan 2011, 8lb 4oz
WestYorkshireGirl - with daughter Hester Rose born 14th Jan 2011, 6lb 4oz
Redheadgal - with daughter Cecily Anne born 13th Jan 2011, 8lbs 13oz
Toomuchteaching - with daughter Jemima born 17th Jan 2011, 8lb1/4oz
Dorcas111 - with daughter born 4th February 2011 8lbs 5oz
Clareanna - with son Tobias born 10th February 7lbs 10oz
Muser - with daughter born 15th February 6lbs 12oz
Ba8y1 ? with son born Tuesday 15th February, 8lbs 11oz
Lotta123 - with baby born Monday 21st February
Magic8ballhastheanswers - Identical twin girls, born 27th February 6lb8 & 5lb15
Northerngoldilocks - with son born Wednesday 16th March, 9lb 6oz
Stuffedmk - with son Thomas, born Wednesday 23rd March
Hopefully - with son, born 29th March 7lb 12oz
Lia - with daughter, born 1st April 8lb 11oz
PenguinsMummy - with daughter Clodagh
VivClicquot - with daughter, Phoebe, born Thursday 28 April, 7lb 5oz
Ivysedai - with son, born Tuesday May 2nd 3.83KG
Loopymumsy - with daughter, born Thursday 12th May, 7lb 15oz
Caribou - with son, Caleb, born Saturday 28 May, 9lb 1oz
LittleMiss - with son- born Wednesday 1st June 7lb 1oz
appleblossoms - with son Malachi, born Wednesday 15th June, 9lb 4oz
crochetcircle - with daughter born Sunday 26th June, 8lb 4oz.
urbanlolly - with daughter born Tuesday 19th July, 8lb 3oz.
Nickster - with son Corey born Tuesday 2nd August
Tiggersreturn - with sons born Saturday 13th August, 5lb 2oz and 3lb 13oz
Owlbooty - With son Robin born 18th August 8lb 13oz
PrettyVacant - baby girl born Tuesday 23rd August
OrangeGloss ? with son, Huw born Thursday 1st September
Wombat - baby born Sunday 11th September
Emoo - baby girl born 13 September
PinkFondantFancy - with daughter Persephone Amelia, born 16 September
ALovelyBunchofCoconuts - with son Thomas James, born 22nd September 8lb 12 oz
MamaPower - with daughter, born 24th September
Daisybell - with daughter Philippa Alice, born 26th September
Velvetcu ? with daughter Eva Lily, born 18th October
Tunnocksteacake ? with daughter Esther Joy, born 19th October
Hotnspicyonions - with son Max Lewis, born 28th October
Hils74 with son Archie Dylan, born born 28th October
MummyAbroad - with son Max, born 1st November
IreneHeron - with son Joe, born 3rd November.
Katherine2008 - with son Teddy, born 5th November
CEP - with son Alexander George, born 10th November
Collie with son Isaac Thomas, born 21 November 8lb 7oz
LaraMi - details TBC
Wombatinwaiting - with son Jack Albert born 29th November 8lb 8oz
Izzy - with daughter Catherine Hope, born 4th December

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October
Dachs with her babies Alexander and Felicia who left the world asleep on 21st May
Magic8ballhastheanswers who leaves behind her beautiful little girl, spiderbabies and DH. Blessed are those of us that had the privilege of knowing you.

We share the pain and and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, BarrenBrook, MsJL, BatteryHen, Waterplate, and Boodleboot

shellshock7 · 05/12/2011 14:18

Congrats Izzy sounds like you had a great experience....any news from Bigmac?!

I've gained a coupla days so amended the stats

Monday 5th December

Bigmacandhappymeal - baby#1 40+6 weeks EDD 29th November
Blackkat - baby#1 40+0 wks EDD 5th December
Minnie74 -baby#1 39+0 wks EDD 12th December
Harassedandherbug - baby #4 37+2 wks EDD 22 December
Dooscooby - baby#1 37+2 wks EDD 22 December
Youremindmeofthebabe - baby#2 35+6 wks EDD 5th Jan
Sunchild77 - baby#3 35+5 wks EDD 6th Jan - Elcs at 39 wks
Freezingmyarseoff baby#2 35+2 EDD 7th Jan
Milkyways - baby#2 35+1 wks EDD 8th January
Laylasmummy - 33+2 wks EDD 21 Jan
Purpletoes - 30+5 weeks baby #1 EDD 8th Feb
Stitchinline - baby#1 27+5 wks EDD 29 February
Shellshock7 - baby#1 27+1 wks EDD 4 March
LAF77 - 24+5 wks EDD 21 March
LILI80 - 24+5 wks EDD 21 March
Biscuitsandtea - baby#2 23+6 wks EDD 27 March
KatAndKit - baby #1 21+5 EDD 11th April 2012
Digitalgirl - baby#2 21+0 wks EDD 16 April

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:

Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May, 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August, 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October, 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son Arlen born 16th October, 8lbs
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz
Unbuffy with son James Anthony born 3rd December, 6lb8oz
HappyGirl with daughter Ciara born 10th December, 8lb2oz
Malteser1981 with son Eli born 18 December, 8lb 6oz
Zayja with daughter Winona born 19 December, 7lbs 11oz
Sparklyrainbow with son Alex born 28th December, 9lb 7oz
GoodLuckBear with son James born 25th December, 8lb
BunnyBaby with son Daniel George born 5th January 2011, 10lb 1oz
AlbaDeTamble - with son born 10th Jan 2011, 8lbs 10oz
Gilda - with son Ren born 10th Jan 2011, 8lb 4oz
WestYorkshireGirl - with daughter Hester Rose born 14th Jan 2011, 6lb 4oz
Redheadgal - with daughter Cecily Anne born 13th Jan 2011, 8lbs 13oz
Toomuchteaching - with daughter Jemima born 17th Jan 2011, 8lb1/4oz
Dorcas111 - with daughter born 4th February 2011 8lbs 5oz
Clareanna - with son Tobias born 10th February 7lbs 10oz
Muser - with daughter born 15th February 6lbs 12oz
Ba8y1 ? with son born Tuesday 15th February, 8lbs 11oz
Lotta123 - with baby born Monday 21st February
Magic8ballhastheanswers - Identical twin girls, born 27th February 6lb8 & 5lb15
Northerngoldilocks - with son born Wednesday 16th March, 9lb 6oz
Stuffedmk - with son Thomas, born Wednesday 23rd March
Hopefully - with son, born 29th March 7lb 12oz
Lia - with daughter, born 1st April 8lb 11oz
PenguinsMummy - with daughter Clodagh
VivClicquot - with daughter, Phoebe, born Thursday 28 April, 7lb 5oz
Ivysedai - with son, born Tuesday May 2nd 3.83KG
Loopymumsy - with daughter, born Thursday 12th May, 7lb 15oz
Caribou - with son, Caleb, born Saturday 28 May, 9lb 1oz
LittleMiss - with son- born Wednesday 1st June 7lb 1oz
appleblossoms - with son Malachi, born Wednesday 15th June, 9lb 4oz
crochetcircle - with daughter born Sunday 26th June, 8lb 4oz.
urbanlolly - with daughter born Tuesday 19th July, 8lb 3oz.
Nickster - with son Corey born Tuesday 2nd August
Tiggersreturn - with sons born Saturday 13th August, 5lb 2oz and 3lb 13oz
Owlbooty - With son Robin born 18th August 8lb 13oz
PrettyVacant - baby girl born Tuesday 23rd August
OrangeGloss ? with son, Huw born Thursday 1st September
Wombat - baby born Sunday 11th September
Emoo - baby girl born 13 September
PinkFondantFancy - with daughter Persephone Amelia, born 16 September
ALovelyBunchofCoconuts - with son Thomas James, born 22nd September 8lb 12 oz
MamaPower - with daughter, born 24th September
Daisybell - with daughter Philippa Alice, born 26th September
Velvetcu ? with daughter Eva Lily, born 18th October
Tunnocksteacake ? with daughter Esther Joy, born 19th October
Hotnspicyonions - with son Max Lewis, born 28th October
Hils74 with son Archie Dylan, born born 28th October
MummyAbroad - with son Max, born 1st November
IreneHeron - with son Joe, born 3rd November.
Katherine2008 - with son Teddy, born 5th November
CEP - with son Alexander George, born 10th November
Collie with son Isaac Thomas, born 21 November 8lb 7oz
LaraMi - details TBC
Wombatinwaiting - with son Jack Albert born 29th November 8lb 8oz
Izzy - with daughter Catherine Hope, born 4th December

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October
Dachs with her babies Alexander and Felicia who left the world asleep on 21st May
Magic8ballhastheanswers who leaves behind her beautiful little girl, spiderbabies and DH. Blessed are those of us that had the privilege of knowing you.

We share the pain and and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, BarrenBrook, MsJL, BatteryHen, Waterplate, and Boodleboot

broccolitrees · 05/12/2011 15:34

Hi, can I join you?
I have a 6 year old dd and am abut 7 weeks pregnant. We saw a strong heartbeat on Saturday but I have had several miscarriages in the past so am bricking it at the minute! I haven't had any spotting or bleeding this time but I have a really achey pre-menstrual back which is bothering me at the moment. I know this is probably just stretching and burrowing but it is a bit of a worry. Despite feeling sick and tired, and less anxious since the scan, I still feel like I can't be truly excited about this much longed for baby.

KatAndKit · 05/12/2011 15:40

Hello broccolitrees and congrats on your pregnancy and your first scan. Of course you are welcome to join us, but thought I'd let you know that most posters on here are 20 weeks or more. You will find more people at your stage in the Freak Out Room, which is where we came from before graduating here. However, you are welcome to post here too.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1309049-Freak-Out-Room-For-Those-Newly-Diffed-Up-After-MC-Part-IX?pg=26

broccolitrees · 05/12/2011 16:00

Thanks Kit I will do that and copy and paste post beneath :)

dooscooby · 05/12/2011 16:39

Wow-huge congrats izzy, turbo delivery!
Hope all is well in the land of bigmac - hoping you get to announce your little one soon but have to confess I'm a bit scared of you and blackkat popping - makes it all a bit real eek...

Big waves to daisy and anyone else returning with helpful mum tips, I'll need as much help as I can get I reckon!

Right, back to wor,k 1 day and 1 hr to go! Bub is a lot less kicky these days but it has taken to really squashing my ribs in the last few days, I finally get what people mean when they say that now!

wombatinwaiting · 05/12/2011 17:21

Hi ladies - vaguely back in the land of the living and just wanted to say thanks soooo much for all your lovely messages and of course all your support over these months - you really are fantastic - have some Thanks and Wine or Brew - as appropriate to your state!

Needless to say it's been an absolute whirlwind - I have been dying to get on to upate you with all the details and I will do this as soon as I can.

In the mean time, a quick update. We only had 3 night in hosp in the end and we're doing v well. Couple of b/feeding issues which I think have now been sorted with an hour's visit from a lactation consultant yesterday - BEST money ever spent - do not hesitate. Jack is adorable Grin and seems to be pretty good so far - only cries when he needs to and even slept 4 hours straight last night Shock

Have uploaded some photos onto my profile at last so have a ganders and I'll be back soon I hope.

izzy - massive congrats on the safe arrival of Catherine Hope - just adore the name xx

Good luck bigmac!

Hope you are all doing well at your various stages -do keep posting!

big kiss and Grin from Jack to you all xx

getawiggleon · 05/12/2011 18:04

Izzy my lovely! Congratulations! Such happy news and a beautiful name, so happy for you. You've been a huge support on these threads and it is so lovely to hear that you've reached the end of your journey (or the start of another one, depending on how you look at it!) Much love xx

digitalgirl · 05/12/2011 23:23

wombat very very cute piccies! So glad to hear all's going well!

izzy huge congrats to you!!! Lovely name too! Can't believe how quick your labour was.

Am 21 weeks today. Finding my sore hips aren't so bad in the morning anymore...but get a bit of mild groin ache if I walk for more than 20-30 minutes. Which is actually more manageable. Hoping with general 'pottering about' and limiting long walks I can keep the worst of the SPD away.

OP posts:
CollieandPup · 06/12/2011 02:11

Izzy congratulations lovely it's just so heartwarming to see so many of you who I've shared this tough journey with get your happy ending. I'd also like to add a thank you to you for all your support during my dark days. You truely deserve this.

Awaits news from bigmac!!

blackkat ohhhh happy dd!! I am mucho excited for you. I just can't wait for you to get your bundle! Xx minnie you too, you're close now too any twinges?

loving life on the otherside.

bigmacandhappymeal · 06/12/2011 07:58

Morning all!

izzy congratulations!! fabulous news and a beautiful name. I'm also delighted to announce the arrival of another little girl :) Our daughter was born yesterday at 2.30pm weighing in at 7lb 11ozs. Over the moon, rather sore and crazily sleep deprived

blackkat happy due date! Each day will feel long but your little one will be here soon

will catch up properly once my feet have hit the ground, but thank you ladies for all your support over the last year xxxxx

KatAndKit · 06/12/2011 08:05

Oooh congratulations bigmac what lovely news! Am so pleased to hear that happymeal has made a safe arrival - I bet she is totally gorgeous and look forward to hearing more news from you. What is her name?

Biscuitsandtea · 06/12/2011 08:13

Congrats Bigmac - more lovely baby news to wake up to Xmas Smile

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 06/12/2011 10:11

Congratulations bigmac - lovely news!!! Grin Grin Grin (and welcome to Team Pink!) Grin

Hope you're not too exhausted and sore, and that you catch up on some sleep (and snuggles!) soon x

And thank you all for your lovely messages of congratulations Smile

cep · 06/12/2011 10:33

hi ladies sorry i've missed so much. wiw and izzy congratulations to you both, i'm so very pleased for both of you. enjoy your cuddles.

things have been so hectic this past week, with bfing (now he's only on boob, no bottles at all, (infact now he won't bloomin well have one at all, hope he does at christmas.)) But now he's had a really bad cold over the weekend, poor thing, coughing and sneezing, blocked nose, listening to him trying to breathe and those little coughs is so horrible. HV coming out again today so will get her to check he's ok.

Will try and check often, watching for news from bigmac and blackkat