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belgina · 14/02/2010 19:14

Right, new thread...

Sorry about the title

Cocktail anyone?

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SpangleMaker · 07/03/2010 10:45

Wow! What a lot to catch up on!

Dandy we will miss you very much. I always enjoy your posts. You've brought a lot to this thread both in entertainment value and support to others. I hope your RL problem can be resolved and that you have plenty of support from family and friends.

Jael I'm glad you came on to apologise to Dandy. I know it's upsetting for you but try to learn from the experience - sometimes when we're used to being the ones who are hurt we can be blind to the fact we can hurt others. I say this from past experience.

Fi that has to be the top name checking post of the thread! I would have to print out the the thread and use a highlighter and write notes in the margin to perform such a feat.

hinny it sounds as if your friend's family is handling their loss with such grace it makes it seem all the more poignant. Keep coming here to offload or distract yourself as you need to - we're all here for you.

llare I hope H will turn out like your DS1! What did you buy? I need some new work clothes but am stuck for inspiration, though I did buy this dress the other day. I think it looks a bit nicer in RL than in the picture.

Well, I am wallowing a bit this morning. I'm just so tired after back to back colds, H not sleeping, me not sleeping (when H was). DH let me have a lie in but I couldn't sleep for the sound of H whinging and grumbling - the perils of a small house. I really, really need to recuperate somehow - some long baths, early nights and healthy food are required, I think. Fortunately, H starts nursery soon - 2 settling in sessions this week, then 3 days from next week. I'm alternately (I will miss him) and (I need a break).

workingladywithBOOBs I've been panicking a bit over the last couple of months about how H will be when he's at nursery as he currently (still) eats very little and BFs several times a day. But it turns out he was absolutely fine when I left him with DH last week - he point blank refused any milk but was quite happy and not even too frantic when I arrived home at about 4pm, after last feeding him at 5.30am.

I went out for a meal last night with NCT mums, leaving DH to do bedtime alone with no boobs . Again H refused his milk but went to sleep fine, only a little later than normal. He was hungry when he woke in the night but since he normally wakes and comfort feeds it didn't make any difference to me.

I'm a bit but thinking back to last night - we all got carried away talking about childbirth and funny/gruesome moments thereof - and then moved on to pre-labour and during-labour poos, funniest bits being one mum having her pre-labour clear out in her friend's caravan loo, and another mum who remembers, during 2nd stage, the mw raising her head from the business end and shouting 'STOOL!!' The diners at the next table were giving us some looks!

Right, I'm rambling, better go and see if I can get us all organised for a nice walk in the sun.

belgina · 07/03/2010 11:17

Morning all,

Goh, I last logged on around 11 and thought I wouldn't have too much catching up to do, possible non, but boy was I wrong! Lovely and sunny here today too. Time for some more outdoor drying.

fi What an absolutely amazing catch up. I will have to join Spangle and say that I'd have to print out the thread and highlight things as well to get it that accurate. Your mega NC made me realise that I've missed out some bits over the last few days that I hadn't even noticed . Glad to hear you're all germ free now. Liked the Essex girl jokes. Have a nice day in Bristol too.

Singing I hope you're OK. It sounds like you're all going through a hard time. Come on here to off load as much as you like

spangle Glad to hear the boobless days went ok. It's funny how BF babies happily wait for their boobs mums to arrive, no matter how long. Both my dds seem to be like that. C does take the bottle, but never finishes it and last week usually only had about 3oz EBM when she'd normally have had 2-3 bfs in that space of time. BTW love the dress you bought. It's lovely. Also glad that you had a great night. Sounded like good fun.

younger Hope you'll be able to distract yourself from hunger over the next couple of days. Slap anyone who decides to purposely decides to eat a big piece of cake in front of you (my DH would do that)

ses O walking with the baby walker?! Amazing. C still hasn't mastered crawling or pulling up to standing yet. She does roll around though.

febes ses Great news about the sleeping. C will do it too one day... Actually she only does 3 & 5.30-6 nowadays, so not too bad.

Well, when I got up in the night when C woke, I realised I suddenly had this terrible pain in my left leg and could barely walk. Still the same this morning, though much better after some ibuprofen. No idea what caused it, but I sincerely hope it'll be gone by tomorrow for my first ever shift. I actually have no idea where I'll have to be, so I better phone them to double check what ward I'll be on

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llareggub · 07/03/2010 11:52

Right.

Inspired by fi I am going to attempt a mammoth namecheck to include all the lovely ladies who have made this thread the wonderful source of support, laughter and friendship since (gulp) August 2008. I have very much appreciated you all and have shed tears over the births of your babies and laughed with you in hen nights. I love you all. So, I'd like to say to Dandy that I really hope you do come back some time soon and that things in RL get better soon.

Jael I've read various facebook status updates from you that sometimes make me worry about you. Can you put it behind you now and come back to us and offload when you need to and join in again? I'd love to hear how your DD is doing in her new class. I must say that I think facebook causes more trouble than it is worth sometimes.

Spangle I love that Betty Jackson dress! I bought wide-legged sailor type jeans, a beautiful blue waterfall cardigan to wear at work instead of a cardigan, a blue jersey top and a blue jersey dress. I've looked for links but can't find any; the shop I bought them from is an independent but stocks Great Plains, Noa Noa, Seasalt and White Stuff. I'm really pleased with my purchases!

febes you went out? And got drunk? Lucky girl!

younger I'll be thinking about you over the next few days.

Ses what a fantastic sleep from O! I'm very, very jealous indeed.

Hinny I am sending more hugs your way. There is nothing wrong with being self-indulgent at all. It is what we are all here for, I hope, to listen and support you and to tell bad jokes flippin how is the counselling?

Sausage I'm sorry but you made me laugh with your smugmum story. I have a feeling my NCT group comes across as being full of smugmummies too. We went through a stage of competitive eating with our DCs which I think we've come out of now that we have come to our senses two children to occupy us. I hope you enjoyed the ukele evening last night.

Belgina have you had that chat with the AP and DH yet? Sorry if I've missed it. I did enjoy hearing you write about your induction and the HR person being the worst public speaker ever. It was always the job that no one ever wanted to do when I worked in HR. Your public speaker probably drew the short straw! Hope all goes well on the front line, so to speak. Do you think it might make you broody?

Blimey. I'm running out of steam. My fingers are hurting. Muddled, pula, headless and reggiee I will come back to you later; until then I will wave in your direction and hope that you are enjoying the lovely sunny day.

Oooh yes, Tummum! last but not least. Your fb status made me laff. Has DH pulled himself together yet or have you more public humiliation planned?

I had a good run at t'gym but was pretty uncomfortable to find lots of people from work there. I don't want to see them yet. I have 4 more weeks left before I have to talk sensibly with work people!

My exciting news is exciting for me but I totally understand if no one else thinks so. I have an idea in mind that I would like to work as a freelance HR bod as well as work with DH, when I get around to resigning from work. I want to work in a very specific field of organisation and on Friday I went to speak to a social enterprise about me being their freelance HR person. To my surprise and delight they agreed so I now have my first client. They are looking to set up a rehab centre for alcoholics and drug addicts in the long term and in the short term they are running support groups for the families of addicts. I'll be involved with those too, but in another capacity, obviously. I'm thrilled by their enthusiasm and came away from there all fired up.

What I did find that after 2 hours of "working" I was knackered. Hats off to those of you who are back at work already. You must be shattered!

DandyLioness · 07/03/2010 13:14

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pulapancake · 07/03/2010 13:40

Dandy, sorry to lose your virtual friendship, and so sorry to hear how miserable you are ATM. I hope you have some good RL support through this terrible time, and that even though you won't be on MN, your MN/FB friends will be able to support you. Take care.

llareggub · 07/03/2010 14:02

So long folks, and thanks for everything.

I am fed-up of the whole situation now and am taking myself off into the sunshine, the last few weeks of my maternity leave and will consider my involvement in online stuff. I've had enough.

belgina · 07/03/2010 14:04

dandy Good luck and all the best. You'll be sorely missed.

jael Can you see what your outburst has done to the thread? Dandy has made a few good points and I hope that you learn from this whole mess. The most important thing for you to learn from this is to think before you speak (or write)

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belgina · 07/03/2010 14:05

Oh no... llare now too.

[cry] I will miss MN so much. I will miss everyone on our cosy little thread.

And TBH I'm too. It shouldn't be like this

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flippinegg · 07/03/2010 14:12
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youngerthanspringtime · 07/03/2010 14:19

. very, very .

SpangleMaker · 07/03/2010 14:32

I don't want to say any more about the whole matter other than this: Dandy I am sorry that this horrible situation started off with your really lovely comment about H. It seems so wrong.

FiByTheIcySea · 07/03/2010 15:33

I'm & about all of this too belgina makes me feel sick to my stomach and my eyes are welling up. (It did cross my mind to leave too I have to admit but I didn't want this thread to go.. so decided to mammoth NC instead)

essenceofSES · 07/03/2010 16:15

Well I feel like namechanging now to SESisanostrich as I just want to stick my head in the sand and carry on. I don't want to lose any of my lovely "imaginary/virtual" friends and so I want to carry on as we were. Anyone who chooses to leave, it makes me v and I wish you well and hope you stay in touch on FB.

On a brighter note, our roast chicken is in the oven together with roast potatoes, parsnips and carrots I like the 3 of us to sit down together on a Sunday and have a meal around 4.30/5pm.

It has been such a beautiful day here. V cold though so I'm also going to light the fire soon.

youngerthanspringtime · 07/03/2010 16:20

Ses, I'm so of your roast dinner.

I'm starving.

essenceofSES · 07/03/2010 16:32

oops! sorry younger [thoughtless emoticon]
Errr... enjoy your Bovril?!

febes · 07/03/2010 16:37

Ses Hi Yum sounding dinner. I too like to have a family meal on a Sunday afternoon and have a chicken that was ready to go but DH has decided to have a BBQ He is out tending to it now. We are all sitting inside as it is sodding cold out there . Have just been for a walk up to town and the sunshine is brilliant but its bitterly cold.

We went to a party last night of one of my BFs and we took DHs homebrew vodka . This kiwi chap was there and we got to talking about where we were from and he went to school in the town I lived for the 3 years before I came to the UK. I mentioned the school I taught at and he said...'You probably taught me' Now I am 33 and when I started teaching I was 21. My first class would now be 21 themselves. I am sure this bloke wasn't 21 as all the other people at the party were in their early 30s. Rude bugger! As we were leaving his beanie came off to revel a bald head so me and my BF and DH all had a chuckle at his expense.

Am a bit delicate today. I had to go for a nap.

Loobylou36 · 07/03/2010 16:39

hello everyone

sorry I haven't been on for a while

Matilda is brushing the floor with her new toothbrush

thought I'd better buy her one as she now has 3 teeth!! Nothing for 10 months then 3 within 3 days!!

hope I haven't missed too much?

febes · 07/03/2010 16:41

Looby Hi. Well done M on the 3 new teeth!!!

youngerthanspringtime · 07/03/2010 16:44

Febes and at the Kiwi chap. love the sound of a bbq though.

Ses, no worries . bovril, btw, actually isn't that bad.

looby, has been quite a night/morning of posts.

Loobylou36 · 07/03/2010 16:45

It appears I have missed a lot just reading through this page

lare dandy please don't go

I sometimes wish MN and FB had never been invented but I would have missed out on so much really helpful advice and support from all my imaginary friends on here

Loobylou36 · 07/03/2010 16:55

Sorry to ask but when do you all brush your LO's teeth? After every meal? Sorry to be thick but need some advice

Matilda falls asleep on her bottle at night so I've got no chance of brushing them then.

youngerthanspringtime · 07/03/2010 17:21

Looby, i 'brush' H's teeth twice a day along with the other 2 DD's: once in the morning and last thing at night though she does have a BF after brishing at night.

runningmonkey · 07/03/2010 18:06

How about we start a new thread, consign this one to history and start over?

pulapancake · 07/03/2010 18:13

Good idea running- I still feel very in the pit of my stomach, but it may help.

Time for DC's bath. see you ladies later.

runningmonkey · 07/03/2010 18:16

here