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January 2009 - "This is halloween, this is halloween, babies wake in the dead of night..."

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VerySpookyLennipillar · 21/10/2009 21:36

A homage to the Nightmare Before Christmas song. DH obsessed with that film, we all (DD included) have to watch it on Christmas Eve.

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stripeywoollenhat · 01/12/2009 23:50

i don't speak german so that might not be what it means, of course...

hackneyzoo · 02/12/2009 08:46

Oh Lenni, I love the toby tiger snow suit, can't find it in 12-18 though. DD has a gorgeous dress from there go very cheaply off ebay!

How is C Stripey? Its spectacular, the coverage achieved by the vomit of a small child. Hope she is feeling better today.

Have a day of exam moderation in town today, so better get my arse into gear..

tinkerbellstinkerbells · 02/12/2009 08:52

mm - sorry for poorlies and ds stresses

good luck dog

esmes pressys sound great i have gone mad for brackens bday and xmas getting vouchers from others

xmas getting - wodden hammer and bench,elc my first shops and wooden postbox
bday - tiger small wheelybug,busy gears,elc whizz around garage and click clack caterpillar

off to jolly babies

tinkerbellstinkerbells · 02/12/2009 08:53

bRACKEN HAS BEEN SITTING UP IN COT FOR AGES IS STANDING UP NOW SO LOWERING COT BASE SAT

sorry for bold in a hurry

she is pulling up on everything now

120cmsOfSnow · 02/12/2009 09:23

yuckity yuck yuck stripey! No, I think they probably didn't have one of those .

moosemama · 02/12/2009 09:44

Oh dear Stripey. Is she ok this morning?

treedelivery · 02/12/2009 12:28

Hope C is better Stripey?

How is the household moose?

Just burnt the lamb I was cooking fro H. SHe loves flting about with a bit of meat in her fist, and knawing on the bone . Didn't even thinktill looked up and couldn't see back door for smoke. Bugger.

Got the pictures!! Very very lovely. They all have little bits that I think, hmm, could be better/nicer - but they are lovely and I am a miserable perfectionist. Might need to save up for bigger one oH in her gown, one we have shows lovely detail but is too tiny really.
dd1's Christmas present is HUGE It is in a flat wide wood frame too. SHe will love it, moo is huge in it Will take pics and put them on FB so you can see The Moo. A vital part of my happy home

treedelivery · 02/12/2009 13:04

Is HKZ at hospital today or tomorrow? Or have I made it all up infact?

moosemama · 02/12/2009 13:09

Hi Tree

Not great, have pulled a muscle coughing and voice has totally gone (something which the boys totally took advantage of this morning, whilst finding it all highly amusing ).

Have to go to the PTA Santa's Grotto and Christmas Craft thing tonight after picking up ds2 from school at 3.10 then ds1 from Chess Club at 4.15. I could so do without it. I'm such a humbug. Every year I think to myself I will make an effort and try to enjoy all this stuff while they are still littlies, but something always seem to come along and stress me out or put me in a bad mood. I think the problem is me to be honest, I need a mindset overhaul.

What was dd1's present again? I seem to have lost my brain along with my voice. If anyone sees it anywhere, please could you chuck it back in my direction.

moosemama · 02/12/2009 13:13

I think little J has some more tests tomorrow then the biopsy on the 9th.

(Now that's weird, I can remember that, but couldn't recall my own mother's phone number this morning! )

treedelivery · 02/12/2009 13:22

Can't help you on the brain front, as my own is addled, but dd1 has a HUGE [A2-ish] framed print of her holding her precious moo up to the camera lens. I link into it later. Off to hv for weigh in

hackneyzoo · 02/12/2009 14:36

Moose, have fun at santa's grotto (Am not looking forward to having to do this sort of thing when they get to school age) I think its ok to be a humbug, there's no point in forcing yourself to enjoy stuff you know you don't like other than doing it for the sakeof the kids I guess. I hate all the build up and OTTness about Christmas...it's just ONE day FFS! Mind you I am scrouge x100!

Tree, your pics sound lovely, is there a link somewhere? I'd really like to get some family shots done, a friend whos a photographer did some lovely ones of DD when she was a newborn, tis nice to have a record.

J has some tests at GOS tomorrow then biopsy next wed. Feeling a lot calmer about it, will feel much better when biopsy is odne and all results are back so we can get a firm diagnosis.

I believe I just had a shopping accident. I accidently found myself in GAP on the way back from moderation and before I knew it I was queuing up with a rather nice jumper and pair of trousers, It had 30% off Now I have to hide it from DH as we are soooooo skint and I feel hugely guilty...but haven't had any new clothes in soooo long and it is a timeless classic etc...

Anymore ideas on where to find a nice snowsuit for DS? All this lovely ones I find are either sold out or for girls

120cmsOfSnow · 02/12/2009 16:13

hi HZ.. which gap? I want a shopping incident too .
have you tried tk max for a cheap snow suit?

tinkerbellstinkerbells · 02/12/2009 16:37

mm - sorry for lost voice!!

hackney - luv shopping incidents

have put bits in local paper go into it fri are on net @ mo hoping they sell
want to get new coat,bag and boots

hackneyzoo · 02/12/2009 17:16

120...i had to changes buses at Angel...eek...I can not resist temptation! TK MAx is a good idea, think there's one up the road in Dalston or is it matalan, can't remeber.

Tink, good luck with the selling, I managed to sell the jumperoo for more than I paid for it. Which reminds me, I meant to post this on here ages ago, but when we first took J to the Pead and he got referred to the physio she told us how bad Jumperoos and door bouncers were for young babies and thier spines as the bouncing causes compression and jarring. Eek, J spent many a happy hour 5 mins or so jarring away, made me feel rather guilty, so thought I should pass that on for future knowledge and all that.

moosemama · 02/12/2009 17:55

Well, survived the grotty grotto experience, just - and it really was grotty.

On previous years you got to decorate a biscuit with icing and sweets, make a decoration and do 1 other craft thing before seeing Father Christmas. This year you could make a paper robin which involved gluing 4 pieces of precut coloured paper onto a piece of card and adding some googly eyes and that was it. Ds2 didn't want to do it as he was too shy to sit at the table and ds1 was probably too old for it but did it anyway.

FC was the grandad of one of ds2's closest friends and tbh was totally rubbish. He didn't have the patter downpat, didn't know what to say to the boys (who were just stood there shy and speechless) and to cap it all the PTA helper's toddler was running in and out of the grotto trashing the decorations, yelling and screaming and bumping into my boys while FC was trying to speak to them. (Proper one boy/3 year old wrecking crew on a mission he was too!) £9.00 I paid for that and I bet the gifts are rubbish as well. BAH HUMBUG!

Twas better last year for me. We didn't have to go because ds2 was in hospital, so the teachers wrapped up some lego kits for the boys instead.

Sorry for the grump, but am also that because half the class was out at an interschool basketball match this afternoon, the remaining students were allowed to 'play' on the computers (dressed it up as ICT, but basically it was free play on a computer). Ds1 went on the Dr Who site at the insistence of some other boys from his class and frightened himself. I am really cross. I don't let him watch Dr Who and certainly wouldn't let him access stuff about in on the internet. From what he has told me, there was little or no supervision involved.

And b r e a t h e ...

HKZ, you definitely deserve a shopping accident. You are waaay overdue for a treat. Will try and have a scout about for snowsuits later this evening if I get a chance.

I have heard that about door bouncers and baby walkers (the sit in and walk kind) etc as well.

120cmsOfSnow · 02/12/2009 21:37

HZ there is one in leyton but I'd go to the one in wood green. tis better... if you can face wood green .

I am soooo tired. H is a real little minx at the moment really playing up to L and between them they are driving me absolutely nuts all day and all night with their escapades. Need super nanny in to sort me out. Mistyped that as super nappy first time round

Any of you into crumpets should try this recipe. Its absolutely superb if you use 500g flour, half the recommended salt, and make sure the water/milk mix is on the warm side. I've made them four times in the last couple of weeks as we all devour them in a day or so (each batch makes about 20; you can make four at a time using a big pan!). And you don't need the crumpet rings at all. They are really fun to make too. They keep in a bag in the bread bin and are fab with nutella or butter and marmite! Mmmmm.

Can you tell I've had enough of babies ?

If anyone is stuck for Christmas pressies for friends with new babies, and fancies giving a baby massage poster, I will discount for my lovely antenatal buddies !

What are all the babies getting? I can't think of anything for H as tbh we already have so much crap stuff.

120cmsOfSnow · 02/12/2009 21:41

Just realised the time! HZ good luck for tomorrow, and let me know if you fancy meeting up later in the week.

Right off for my first chunk of 2 hour sleep before the toddler gets up. Night all!

stripeywoollenhat · 02/12/2009 22:05

evening all - god, moose, that grotto sounds absolutely shite, i'd be so annoyed. have to say, i am not looking forward to the whole grotto thing, i still remember my little sister howling on some strange bearded guy's knee... although c seems to like everybody, so maybe we won't have that issue

hkz, glad to hear of shopping accidents. am wishing you the best for j's tests

isee from dog's fb updates that she's still feeling rubbish. dog, if you are reading, i really hope you feel better soon

so, c is a bit off today - no more vomiting but a bit whingey and now sleeping pretty restlessly, could be a long night i guess. thankfully, dp is back tomorrow [phew emoticon]. my whole family shit continues unabated - thanks for all your kind thoughts: i don't have the energy to talk about it, really. crap tv and tea for me, i think....

moosemama · 02/12/2009 23:05

All the best for tomorrow HKZ. Sorry didn't get chance to look for snowsuits as was only reminded this evening that its my neice's 21st birthday on Saturday.

Not only had I not bought her a present, but there is no way I'm going to be up to facing the shops before then, so have been searching online for a reasonably priced, not too twee gift that I could have personalised and delivered by Saturday! (Gift has to be personalised or the little darling will sell it as fast as we can give it to her. ) Anyway, bought her a silver compact/mirror and it should be here on Friday.

Sorry to hear C is poorly, Stripey. You really don't need any more stress at the moment. Take care of yourself.

Also

Get well soon Dog - we miss you!

Right, must dash, screaming baby.

tinkerbellstinkerbells · 03/12/2009 09:17

good lukc hkz

mm - sorry for bad grotto
dh took dd1 into one a few weeks ago said it was really nice and she really enjoyed it!!

hkz - u did well with jumperoo - dd2 has only gone into activity centre, dont have a jumperoo and she didnt get on with door bouncer

stripeywoollenhat · 03/12/2009 12:23

right, it's time we got through this thread or we aren't going to manage a christmas themed/birthday themed one!

stripeywoollenhat · 03/12/2009 12:31

having a rubbish day - fucked up the mortgage payment and c is really not right, very clingy and crying a lot. no temperature, her appetite is more or less okay (she's eating, though not with gusto), she's not as lively as usual but is playing in between tears and needing to bury her head in my shoulder. i think it's a terrible poo/teeth/cold conjunction, but obviously am worrying anyway.

moose, rubbish to have to buy a present for someone who'll just sell it

stripeywoollenhat · 03/12/2009 13:26

also, hkz, excellent re jumperoo. ours is collapsed in the living room awaiting someone (dp, i'd say ) getting around to getting the box out of the attic so we can sell it

moosemama · 03/12/2009 13:33

Poor little C. I hate it when they can't tell you what's wrong.

Yep this particular neice is a bit of a problem really. I love her loads, she was my first ever neice and is lots of fun, but has had it tough in many respects and is the product of her life experiences unfortunately. She's very manipulative and would have the shirt off your back when you weren't looking iykwim. She's also a cleptomaniac, so we have to hide everything be really careful with things while she is around. Its heartbreaking really. There are lots of other issues as well and she has a little boy (8 months older than dd) who she didn't bond with and she seems to really struggle to grasp the whole responsibility/parenting deal. The whole family has tried to help at different times in different ways, but until 'she' wants to sort herself out and is willing to put some effort in, it aint gonna happen. Am cautiously hopeful at the moment, as she is currently employed - which is a positive step for her.