Morning.."MASSIVE MASSIVE RANT AHEAD"
Please please tell me if i am being unreasonable... i get 8 hours child free time a week.. two 4 hour sessions... i try and use this time sensibly.. ie getting house tidy, getting nice dinners done, but also a bit of me time going to the gym and being on the comp ...
as you know we have been having massive sleep issues with the girls.. tess woke up at 10pm last night and didn't go down til after 1.. added to the last goodness knows when so obviously i'm knackered...
Anyway (sorry being very long winded).. "d"h said to me last night (when he came back from the pub) that i had better catch up today when i don't have the girls.. said i would try but i wanted to go to the gym etc.. now bearing in mind, he was out last friday night, footie and a night out stay over on sat, too tired sun or mon to get up with the girls... he said "well don't complain to me if you are tired then"...
He is basically saying that my 8 hours off a week are for me to catch up on sleep as i should be on duty for every wake up and every morning get up... he said "i have a job you know"..
Now this really doesn't seem right to me??? so upset that he excepts me to do so much just because he works.. i could go out and try and get a really good job ( hard out there but know if i forced myself i could) but it would mean leaving the house at an ungodly hour and not getting back til late and i know i would still be responsible for the girls and the house...
Feel like walking out on him ...