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Sept 08: The End of an Amazing year

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Pacita · 20/07/2009 10:23

Here we are: the thread that will see our LO's first birhtday...

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CarrieBo · 01/09/2009 14:55

House update:
extensive research has shown that there are no other houses in the running for us. One half of the divorcing pair of vendors has agreed to our terms (they pay for structural survey, and provided that's clear, they take off the cost of the wiring, plumbing and chimney from the the purchase price) so we're waiting to hear back from the other vendor. Here's hoping the survey doesn't show up any nasties.

Ikea, i will mostly be buying meatballs and dime bar cake, probably one of those washing up brushes with sucker on the end, certainly some stuff that I didn't even know I needed until I got there, and will be browsing tv stands/wardrobes for the new house

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 01/09/2009 16:42

Happy Birthday A

CarrieBo - most structural issues can be sorted, there aren't many houses pulled down because they are unsafe, so as long as the seller is willing to pay for any work needed it should be ok. Fingers crossed for you.

I can't believe this time year we were popping or getting ready to pop. It's amazing isn't it?

Our convo's probably went something like this:

Did I have a show? No it was a lot of cervical mucus.

Did I have a contraction? No, it was a BH.

Have my waters broke? No, you've pissed yourself!

he he

Meglet · 01/09/2009 17:24

carrie I am currently using the green sucker ikea wash brush and....rummages... I have a black one and another green one in the cupboard, I'm hooked on them . You can never have too many sucker brushes.

Debs75 · 01/09/2009 17:48

Carrie Love the Dime cake so please have a slice for me, I can't afford the calories

Pacita · 01/09/2009 18:57

Hello ladies, I've been away from you due to being on so called holidays (the disastrous story of which is told below).

First of all, happy birhtday to babies and grannies alike. I won't be there until the 30th of September!

Ok, so the story is as follows. Two tired parents (the one from full time looking after one (yes I know it's just one!) demon, the other after much stress at work, are looking forward to holidays, the sun, the sea and dumping smallies with doting grandparents. Cut to the day before the trip to Greece (where, in addition, a BIG FAT Greek wedding awaits us, as DP's cousin is finally tying the knot) and zoom in on the thermomether inside smallie's ear. It reads 39.1 degrees.

We decide to go anyway, as we put it down to teething, nothing serious, blah, blah and we firmly adopt a holiday mode denial stance. Oh how wrong that was. We took two airplanes, to Athens, then Thessaloniki. Arrived very late at night with a feverish baby. We slept (f**k all) at DP's sister, only to have to leave FAST in the morning to attend the wedding close to Petros' town in the evening. Before driving there we had to find and purchase a car seat AND fit it (never underestimate the skill involved in fitting those things) while the baby, still feverish, wilted under relentless greek sun. We arrived to the town, and I was beginning to think that it was a bit too much to go to the wedding, as DS was clearly not well despite paracetamol, water and food, but after all this, I felt bad to not take him to see all the Greek relatives who had been awaiting him for months. To cut a long story short, I ended up going home without so much as greeting the bride, bubs with a temperature of 40. We took him to hospital the next morning as temperature was not going down. The diagnosed a viral infection but gave him antibiotics because a blood test revealed that his defences were very low. We went home, his temperature went down, he went back a bit to his former self. Then during the night (3 AM) he wakes up SCREAMING and covered in hives. We spend three hours walking up and down till he drops off, exhausted. We go back to the hospital in te morning where they tell us this is an allergic reaction to the antibiotic. They give him cortisone and antihistamine, and prescribe a new antibiotic. Further analysis reveals that white blood cells are low due to infection and we are instructed to not leave the house, not expose him to people, of course, NOT go to the beach.

He is now a lot better - not so ourselves, but we have finally turned a corner. If things keep improving, we are told that in two days we can go back to normality, and perhaps make it to the beach on the weekend.

So much for the much awaited holidays! And the weather is still warm and lovely, while we sit in the terrace on a fifth floor... At least, we do have the grand parents who are so sweet and a huge help.

What happened in X-factor? Was DGsis on????

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Hopefully · 01/09/2009 19:58

Happy birthday to the birthday babies!

Am having my first night away from T tonight - picking up my parents' camper van, so have come to their house, leaving DP with T, then he will leave T with my sister tomorrow morning while I drive back. Every five minutes I feel slightly like I have forgotten something crucial, and then realise it's the baby...

Urgh, am trying to meet a 9:30am deadline, and have written... ermm... 350 of the 1,700 needed. Hmmmm.

digitalgirl · 01/09/2009 21:14

pacita bloody hell, poor little D. We all thought it was teething too. Hope he makes a speedy recovery (they nearly always do) and you get a day on the beach before the holiday is over.

hopefully good luck with that

carriebo hope they agree

debs 11-12 hours! I wish ds would get that much sleep.

He slept a little better last night and was in a very good mood all day today. Bedtime was also a lot less of a battle, perhaps he prefers it when I go to work.

Happy Birthday to debithescot's baby!!

DebiTheScot · 01/09/2009 21:19

pacita poor D, hope he gets better soon, sounds horrid.

Had a good birthday day today. Got the cake finished this morning (after going to 2 shops before getting the icing) then went to my Aunts in London for the day. DS2 got some nice presents and he seems to like the bee Wheeley Bug that we gave him. Also likes the Cozy Coupee car my best friend and brother clubbed together to get him.
And he liked the cake- there's photos of it on my profile. I was quite proud of myself.

foxytocin · 01/09/2009 21:27

Happy Birthday Babies! It still feels like an age before dd has her birthday as it is at the end of the month.

I survived our holidays. the DD's loved having a pool at the villa and it was much needed in the Spanish August as you can imagine. I don't like going to hot places in August. I'll happily stay in England. No chance of repeating it next year.

Despite the heat I did enjoy not having to get up and do anything bar feeding myself and the girls.

I go back to work on monday. Sob.

Ponymum · 01/09/2009 21:43

debi The cake looks fab! I showed DH and he said 'that's setting the bar high'! I don't think there's any chance of us coming even close. We were planning on making cupcakes!

Oh, and since the -ve pg test yesterday I do not feel pg at all. But tonight I complained to DH that we have no chocolate in the house. I don't like chocolate (except for when I was pg last time... ).

ninja · 01/09/2009 21:55

fab cake Debi

Sorry to hear about the holiday pacita

Meglet · 01/09/2009 22:08

pacita so sorry to hear how poorly your ds has been, I hope he recovers so you can all make it to the beach in a few days.

ponymum & debi this could all end in a mad competitive cake making frenzy . I have 2 days to decide what I'm doing. I'm thinking Nigella as she's pretty slapdash with a bit of lazyitis - like me .

digitalgirl · 01/09/2009 22:23

So impressive debi loving that you had a bee theme to the whole birthday.

digitalgirl · 01/09/2009 22:25

ponymum hmmmm...pg symptom you say? Are you late?

Debs75 · 01/09/2009 22:39

Digi the 11 hours is with naps as well. Last night she was up for an hour at 4am. We have finally moved her cot base down and she is being a right terror to put in the cot.

pacita hope he is feeling well soon. and hope you get to go to the beach.

Ponymum I have been craving choc all day but I know I'm not pregnant. Just having a stressful day.

Hopefully I feel like that when I go out in the car without Robyn, sometimes I do a double-take when I see the empty car seat

Ponymum · 02/09/2009 10:07

digi The answer is I don't actually know whether I am late or not. I have only had two periods since BF and that gave me a theoretical cycle length of 32 days. Today is cycle day 34. But before DD I used to have totally mad 45 day cycles. So basically I have no idea where I am. I am still waiting for delivery of the book ILTMIMI recommended so I can get myself a bit more clued up. (Why didn't I select the fast delivery option? Grr.)

Also digi, what happened on the X factor? I only caught the very end. Was your dsis on?

becaroo · 02/09/2009 10:21

Ponymum....you can get false negatives you know - I did!!!

becaroo · 02/09/2009 10:27

FOR SALE;

BUSHBABY MICRO BACKPACK - BRAND NEW WITH TAGS!

...We bought this 2 months ago for our 10 month old who has now statred walking and will not go anywhere near it!!!

Grey/charcoal colour. Really light and easy to put on/take off. Handy storage pouch underneath too.

Not used outside at all, only in the house on the few occasions we tried him in it - cue much screaming - still got all tags on, in original box and instructions booklets.

COLLECTION ONLY DUE TO SIZE - SORRY

Cost £80

Asking for £50

becaroo · 02/09/2009 10:27

OOPS - SHOULD BE IN THE FOR SALE SECTION - SORRY!!!! [BLUSH]

AngryWasp · 02/09/2009 11:02

pmsl, Baby Starlight just put on DS' sunglasses, - not very straight I might add.

Pacita Poor you and poor d

ninja · 02/09/2009 16:48

Shame you're not near me Becaroo I might have been interested !!

Meglet · 02/09/2009 20:33

I think I have decided on carrot cake muffins, with a cream cheese topping for dd's birthday. And, obviously, I will get some pink sprinkles .

Was it anyone's birthday today?

Meglet · 02/09/2009 20:35

Just checked and it was Barnpots DS's birthday today. Happy Birthday!

CarrieBo · 02/09/2009 20:48

Evening all.

ponymum keep us posted!!!

pacita you poor thing! Hope you get some beach time!

Ikea - they'd run out of washing up brushes, and when we got there at 8, they announced a new closing time of 9! Cue the fastest eating of meatballs known to man and a mad dash around! I selected the sofa and computer desk I'd like, confirmed my choice of wardrobes and bought a laundry basket, some boxes and some loft storage bags. I'll be back Sadly no catalogues though, but will you still meet me for lunch ponymum?

Today was my friend's funeral. The crematorium was weird (I've never been before) but the 'celebration of life' service afterwards was great (in as much as these things can be). Her 6 year old reduced the whole church to tears though with his little talk which went along the lines of "I loved my mummy coz she was lovely and I loved that and she loved me and I loved her and that was lovely and its a shame she died coz that makes me sad and she was lovely". Bless his little heart. I just keep looking round the house and seeing all the things that she had passed onto me from her kids, as her youngest is a year older than my eldest. Her memory certainly lives on

In housegate scandal, its the woman who won't budge and pay for the structural survey (without it they won't be able to sell to anyone, so now the solicitor is involved) and won't knock money off for the wiring/plumbing/chimney. We thought the man was the tricky one, but actually he wants rid of the house and she doesn't want to move. We've got a viewing on another house tomorrow!!

Bit of an epic day really, glad I'm going out with the girls tomorrow night

Kagey · 02/09/2009 21:12

Happy birthday babies!!!

We have just over two weeks to go for the little birthday bash and have started to send out invites

Carriebo that is so sad, but I like the thought of the celebration of life.