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June 2008: the One Show (almost)

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Essie3 · 28/04/2009 09:41

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bitofadramaqueen · 16/06/2009 20:30

Oh, neenz can you send me a fb message to remind me about the shop and I can cut and paste the details on computer at work tomorrow? Home pc is a bit temperamental at the mo.

AliandHerScallywag · 16/06/2009 21:10

I am having a sentimental moment. Thanks.

FiveGoMadInDorset · 16/06/2009 21:16

Rolf I would check with MW or ask to get an appointment with a consultant, if you are serious and want to go for number 5 then I would insist on regular scans and consultant checks.

Sorry about the early wakings, Sebastian lasted until 6.25 this morning which was lovely but we did keep him up later for the last 2 nights.

I am afraid if I was in that position then I would take the MAP aswell. Can't imagine what they are feeling, but, and I know this sounds awful, they do have a child so would probably feel more for them if they were childless.

We have finally put in for listed building planning consent on our conversion which is great so working hard putiing budgets together, we can also take the pillar out of our kitchen, hooray, so we have a kitchen lady coming tomorrow to plan.

vivaGlasvegas · 16/06/2009 21:18

poppy e isn't the baby, Babywhinegums brings up the rear on 7th July, with babydramaqueen and my C on 6th July! we're all June frauds!

Essie another plea for bunting instructions here...

sponge flying to Scotland in March will be fine if you and DH are both flying, Bill will be 5 months ish, yes? If you're flying into Glasgow, we could probably lend you our infant seat for your visit - so long as C has actually grown out of it by then!

abdnhiker · 16/06/2009 21:21

Rolf DS1 is all better and fingers crossed, the rest of us don't seem to have it. No idea about the risks of another child though - you could try another thread although sometimes I feel like you hear all worst-case stories. The fear of something going wrong is definitely a deterrant for us when we think about having another. I know that's probably overly pessimistic, but I feel so blessed as it is, it almost feels greedy to want another child.

My lovely DH used to say that for Fraser my womb was secondhand - it made me laugh but it's a weird notion and it made a couple friends uncomfortable.

DS1 has learned how to lie and is telling complete whoppers constantly. It's sort of funny, but all this discussion about telling the truth and calling him on everything is exhausting.

sponge I'm off to bed so no time to listen now - will try to find a time later this week!

going can I ask why you want your coil out? I've even gone to the surgery to get it out only to be talked out of it by the doctor. It's not that I want another kid, but I've had annoying side effects (oh this is so TMI, but basically it's caused lots of discharge, totally healthy, but annoying!) and I keep thinking that I want it out. But then I don't want to go on the mini-pill either...

I vote for BDQs thread title....

vivaGlasvegas · 16/06/2009 21:21

Ali I cried. That is fabulous, Peter will love it when he's able to read it! You've inspired me to do something similar for Charlotte's birthday.

abdnhiker · 16/06/2009 21:25

Ali Happy birthday to Peter! What a lovely post! And I thought of you today as I went for a run. My pelvic floor wasn't really up for it though. I'm hoping if I keep running it'll get back into shape (anyone know if this is true or do I have an excuse to lie on the sofa? It's a serious question as if I'm going to keep running I need to invest in running shoes and money's tight at the moment).

AliandHerScallywag · 16/06/2009 21:28

Right. Enough of that. Feel better having got it out of my system.

Amber interesting about the -ve pg test etc. Fingers crossed it isn't just your thyroid messing you about. Your MIL sounds like a PIA BTW. (How many 3 letter acronyms in that sentence?)

Essie Hope birthday celebrations were fun.

Rolf I must have missed Thea's birth story last year. Hope you find some helpful information out. Impressed that you are considering number 5. Have you tried the "how many children will you have quiz" that a couple of us have done on FB? Would be interested to see your answer.

Going are you thinking about TTC? How is the glandular fever ATM?

Deb are you back home yet?

PenguinProject · 16/06/2009 21:30

I am so p'd off, just wrote a huge post and then lost wi-fi connection. So I tried again and the same happened. Grrrr. Is BT wi fi connection really as good as the adverts make out? Because Sky may be cheap but it's really annoying me atm.

Happy birthday Iestyn. Essie, I was furious with you this time last year for going into labour before me when we were due date buddies.

Ali - Your blog made me cry, it is lovely.

Amber - Fingers crossed for a positive result in the next week or so.

Sorry to everyone I've missed. You were all included in the lost post, honest!

Essie3 · 16/06/2009 21:51

Hello everyone - although a warning, Rolf, Amber, Neenz - my coat is on, one more dodgy rhyme and I'm out!

On the IVF story (which I had misunderstood anyway) I hadn't considered the custody issue. But I was all confused because I thought she was halfway through a pg with someone else's baby, in which case aborting without knowing that she would get pg with her own embryo (altho she doesn't know that still, which must be hellish) would be horrific. But I now realise the media were just using the term 'abortion' to make it more dramatic. I fell for it!

Amber the two negs were taken on different days - I think 3 days different - and from different packs. They were Asda pg tests though, and it was early, but I just knew I was pg, and did from the same week I (ahem!) had sex. And I was!

Bunting - now, am I better posting here, or doing something different? I can post here but it might be long.

How about June 2008: Bye Baby Bunting... My baby bunting took over an hour to settle tonight but that was probably because my inlaws had to see him on his actual birthday (why am I so totally unfazed and don't care about birthdays? What is the big deal??) and arranged to come at 5pm. I left work early, phoned my Mum, who said they would all come round about 6 , and I said it wasn't convenient, but was told I was being selfish and it isn't all about me. (I personally think my own baby's first birthday is about me!!) So all four of them arrived at 6.05, as I was trying to feed Iestyn and feed myself, they dawdled around instead of letting me put him in his high chair, I had a strop and was told off big time by my dad, Iestyn was stimulated and taken out of his high chair halfway through his dinner and held on laps with three different people stuffing food at him (we have a rule about eating here- it's done at the table in a high chair) and then he was stimulated loads until 7.05 when I finally managed to take him for his slightly late bath. So now they're all out having a lovely meal in a restaurant and I spent over an hour trying to settle an overstimulated and overtired baby, all on my own.

But I feel better now!

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Essie3 · 16/06/2009 22:05

Bunting.

You will need:
Fabric, including ideally a largely plain fabric for making the lettering so that it stands out.
Tape - the woven type from fabric shops, and it needs to be quite wide
Pins
Bondaweb - in sheets, it's iron on.
An iron
Some sewing ability

First cut your flags into equally sized triangles - you can draw a template on a piece of card. The triangle needs to be the type that has longer sides than the top (I was sh!t at maths). You need an even number.

Onto the WRONG side of the bondaweb, that's the rough side which you MUST NOT touch with a hot iron, draw your letters, or trace from some printed lettering (i.e. type the name on a computer, make it massive, print).

Cut them out, and iron them onto the WRONG side of your lettering fabric (the back). Then cut around each letter. They should, if you've done it right and listened properly be the right way and not mirror image!

Now peel the paper off the back of the letters and iron them onto the right side of your triangles, with the point of the triangle pointing down.

You should now have flags with your child's name on.

Options: 1. leave them as they are (but they might fray) 2. Blanket stitch by hand around the letters in the same colour or a different colour 3. Machine zigzag or satin stitch (solid zigzag) around the letters.
If you are doing 3., the top tip is to put a piece of printer paper eg. an unpaid bill behind the flag and sew through the paper - this gives more stability and control. And GO SLOW. Then tear off the paper.

Now you need to sew your triangles together to have double sided flags. In pairs, pin the right sides of the triangles together i.e. top side of the fabric to top side, flowers to flowers, or letter-flag with flowers etc. Sew them together, following a v: from top down to the point and back up to the top. No need to sew the top together. DON'T sew across the point.

Once that's done, snip the point off each triangle, and turn them the right way out. You can use a pencil to carefully push out the point. You can also iron them to make them lie well.

Finally, the binding tape. I iron my binding in half first, and then pin the flags inside the fold. You should have a row of flags tucked inside the folded tape, with the open tops of the triangles all hidden. This is the trickiest bit. You now need to sew them in place. If you're good with a machine, sew straight along the bottom of the tape. Alternatively zigzag. Or hand stitch. You need to ensure that all the flags are secured and won't flop out.

Also - top tip this - ensure your letters are in the correct order. Because Cecily would not have been pleased with Cceily. (Yes, it happened, I had to unpick! )

And you're done!

I will set up an e-mail troubleshooting guide now... or accept money for making some if anyone is really desperate.

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FiveGoMadInDorset · 16/06/2009 22:09

Essie that is horrendous for you and totally selfish on all their parts especially your father.

happy Birthday Iestyn

Essie3 · 16/06/2009 22:15

Thanks Five, I was beginning to worry that I was having some sort of AIBU thing where everyone says YABU...

Iestyn was finally asleep by 9.14 which was when he was actually born. Feeling very strange about it all!

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bitofadramaqueen · 16/06/2009 22:25

Essie, that sounds horrible (not the bunting obviously). I'm a huge fan of birthdays but I would never be so rude!

Sponge, which part of Scotland are you thinking of?

Ali, loved your blog. I've been think about a post on S's actually. Although I rarely have the time to put anything on it. I so wish I'd had the time to at least put a short post on once a week over the last year.

Am off to bed. Here's hoping that when I wake their won't be 3 in the bed...

Ah, before I forget again - whinegums, I thought it might be a stitch up!

I'm really sorry if I've not replied to anyone else I should have done over the last week or so btw, I'm still struggling a bit here!

AliandHerScallywag · 16/06/2009 23:49

Thanks for the nice blog comments everyone. BDQ I feel the same about not posting enough on it. I always admire Aberdeen for managing to keep it fresh. Maybe if I had spent less time on MN and more time blogging it might be a bit more detailed.

Essie sorry you had a crappy evening. Is Tim away ATM?

Rolf · 17/06/2009 02:13

Ali I love your blog and your letter made me all fuzzy. I just did the quiz and apparently I'm going to have 3 children . Sorry, I think I might have sent everyone some crappy facebook stuff (not got the hang of it!). I had an unplanned homebirth with Thea after a v fast labour. It was lovely but we didn't know she was breach until the mw saw her foot. I'd had a scan 3 days previously and she was head down. Anyway, thanks for all the comments and I'll sign off on my uterus now!

If I want another baby I'll have to start speaking to DH again, right?

Essie how annoying for you. I can't stand that thing of eveyone else messing up the routine and mummy being left to deal with the carnage. That's not a good time of day for visitors is it? I'm afraid I sniggered a little bit at the thought of you being told off by your Dad as I pictured you covered in (vegetarian) spag bog (like the picture of Peter on Ali's blog). But I'm definitely on your side . Thanks for the bunting instructions.

5 what sort of kitchen are you having? I love kitchen planning and always post bossy messages on those threads where people ask for kitchen essentials!

ktpie · 17/06/2009 09:07

Morning,

Neenz - his name is Jonathan, yes I am on FB, any easy way of finding you?

Amber - mother in laws! How stupid saying you should go and walk around the block!

Rolf - here we have crawling over and head butting the laptop (probably says something about mummy spending too much time using the laptop) then having a paddy about it.
No idea about the uterus I'm afraid but there must be loads of people on MN who have more info.

The wrongly implanted embryo story is really sad, one of those really horrible decisions for the woman who was given the embryo that she should never have had to make.

goingto - that coil comment made me wince!

Ali - that is really sweet, I love the spag bol eating pics!

Essie - that would have really wound me up when they all left you to settle the baby whilst they went out for a meal. I love the bunting idea and am wondering if I have the time (and energy) to make some before J's birthday. Made a cushion the other week which involved knitting and some tricky sewing, very proud of it and it isn't to be used, or touched.

We weighed J the other day and he is 9.8kg (on our dodgy scales) so feel a bit better about the forward facing seat.

I know I've missed loads of people so hello to you all!
Going to go and find something to snack on!

whinegums · 17/06/2009 10:28

Ali, you made me cry, and I NEVER cry!!! I love the spag bol pics too. You also made me realise how useless I've been at 'documenting' B's antics... I wonder if any of our babies will ever read our posts?? Once something is in cyberspace, it can last forever can't it? Not sure if that's a good thing...

So, further success on the sleep front in the Whinegums household. B went down without a peep last night, I heard a slight grizzle at about 9, but he went straight back to sleep until just after 1am. He had a bit of a strop then as I wouldn't feed him or bring him into bed, but settled down again, and did the same thing at about 3. He woke again at 5, when I fed him and brought him into bed. So a major achievement - no feeds (instead of the usual two!) between 7pm and 5am, and the longest sleep I can remember him having. The first half of the evening is going well, just need to get the second half sorted.

Sorry if I'm banging on about this, but I am amazed by it, it's less than a week since we started CC. It also helps me to remember if I write it down here. Neenz, you will be chuffed with another CC success story!

I bought a MASSIVE suitcase yesterday in Debenhams' sale. DP quite disgusted! I told him it's to get B's stuff in, but yes, I will be able to take an extra pair of shoes or two... Viva, I'd buy nappies on holiday, but I'm not sure about the availability in the Maldives. BTW, where did you go on honeymoon [nosey emoticon]?

I have to say, so far I'm pretty impressed with Kiddicare about our broken pushchair - they have arranged for Silver Cross to pick it up tomorrow. Luckily it's the second pushchair, but the one I use most often for trotting around the doors. Won't be doing that today, it's hideous outside though.

Essie, YA definitely NBU. And even if you were being selfish (which I don't think you were) it might not be about you, but it's certainly about Iestyn, so the GPs were well out of order.

Sorry for the me post, going to have to go before I can reply to anyone else as B is squawking.

Amberc · 17/06/2009 10:53

Essie - I know what you mean - Luke never settles when he's been messed about with and is outside of his normal routine. Mark doesn't understand why I get so uptight about his routine but he's not the one up in the night and watching ITV nightscreen with him at 4.15.

Did another preggo test today and another negative so I am pretty sure it's my body being mad. Last month I had a period a week early so maybe it'm making up the difference! Might mention it to the docs though but am having a thyroid blood test on Friday anyway.

Ali - what an enchanting letter - I loved it and it made me feel all emotional. We've done sod all like that for Luke I'm afraid.

Luke is having a lovely time in 'big class' at nursery now. He much prefers it I think. He has more space for running around (oh yes he can move very fast now!) and the big kids like him and are always trying to help him up when he falls over (bless!!!!!)

Any birthdays today?

Essie - you are a domestic goddess - will you marry me?

Amberc · 17/06/2009 10:57

PS - only 29 more posts before we are forcved to pick a name for new thread - I love fecking knackered myself - it certainly represents where I am!

PiggyPenguin · 17/06/2009 12:16

Ali that letter to Peter is just lovely. It did make me smile though with the thank you's to him on eating and drinking his milk. A similar letter to my darling James would have to acknowledge the fact that although he was a pain and would only breastfeed when asleep for four months, and now refuses to eat anything other than a slice of cheese on toast a day, he still makes me happy and I still thank god for giving him to me. (most days...)

Essie fantastic instructions and I will be looking for bindaweb after posting this. i think we will have to set up a bunting site in your honour where we can post photos of the creations you helped us to produce.

Rolf didn't your dh suggest a 5th recently? I would go for it if you want another. I am the last of 6 and loved having a big family (although other 5 were boys and would have really liked at least one sister!) Thats why we have 3, 2 is way too small a family for me but dh is an only child and so 3 is a happy medium for us.

PiggyPenguin · 17/06/2009 12:17

bondaweb even...

pureeandpearls · 17/06/2009 12:39

HI all- MMR yetserday (I sobbed like a baby and so did she) which has created a very clingy baby!!

Essie- thanks for the bunting recipe- have saved it for when I get some time to myself!

Amber- (((hugs))) sounds like you've got an awful lot to deal with at the mo!

Whinegums- fantastic news about CC. Well done. We're jhaving small successes here too.

Ali- I sobbed too and am blatently stealing your idea. I should also get back to blogging now that I have a fancy new website!!

pureeandpearls · 17/06/2009 12:43

new thread with small homage to Essie Sponge ktpie Amber and all the others needing sleep, planning parties etc.

pureeandpearls · 17/06/2009 12:47

Blatant