LaT ((hugs)) - speaking for myself & mum friends i know - we all go through similar phases, esp the guilt that we've done something to make our DCs not do/do something they way they do.
sometimes it's just luck of the draw (or bad luck i guess). when H wasn't sleeping through until 10.5months i was v stressed about it (and he wasn't my first, T slept through, mostly, from 10weeks!).
she has had a very unsettled time but one day thigns will settle down again and so will she - and she won't remember even a hint of this (you will though!).
just try and get enough sleep, whenever/however.
i know i've got pmt but honestly, dh sometimes really tries my patience! went up to settle the boys, well T mostly, 15minutes later, i hear H crying, go up to find T has emptied all cuddly toys into the cot and woken H - DH, oh i didn't realise what was going on duh, he was in the room next door reading his book.....
hope he goes back to london tomorrow as i think i need the space now!!!
so, what does everyone think about this flu thing then? could be scary....
had brother here from yesterday, nice to see him though he was on the phone with his work lots of the time. helped me sort some stuff out in the shed which has been doing my head in. still needs a serious sort out, but another thing that DH is not so hot on....
anyway, enough ranting, having a glass of white and trying to finish some of my weekend crosswords