AH, beautiful and I second that you have gorgeous children - proud mummy you must be!
Amber, poppy, HH, and anyone else wondering about christening/naming ceremonies - we feel the same way about the church thing so we're having a naming ceremony and IMO I think you can make it just as special. It's about the people you invite and the sentiment behind it - we're having Alex's legal guardians and two of our closest friends making pledges to him about the role they will play in his life.
The ceremony for us, and obviously this is intensely personal, is also a way of us saying thank you to all the amazing friends who held our hands and dried our tears during the hellish five years that we tried for Alex. We couldn't have got through it without them and we want to tell them that.
poppy, doesn't surprise me about the christening/school thing - in some areas of the country it's pay or pray if you want to get into a good school!
paro, I was thinking the same thing about some people disappearing - e.g. the green fairy? Where did she go?
Oh, and your dress is gorgeous - but I love Monsoon dresses!