I'm on the far right, with the hatchet-job of a short hair cut!
Amber - the local church near us does baptisms and blessings, where the only difference is in the vows the parents are asked to make. It might be worth looking into. I've copied and pasted the details here (sorry for the length!)
"The Church of Scotland has a ceremony for the thanksgiving for and blessing of a child. It is freely available to all, and a number of parents in XXXXX have participated in it.
Sometimes parents who are not church members and who do not wish, understandably, to make the important promises required of parents at the Sacrament of Baptism (including ?by prayer and example to bring your child up in the life and worship of the church?), yet wish to mark and acknowledge the significant and ?wonder-full? event of the birth of their child in some way that they are comfortable with.
This new ceremony of Thanksgiving and Infant Blessing takes place at morning worship. It follows the same pattern as that for Baptism, except the wording is different, the promise is different, and no water is used. The attraction of this is that nothing is required of the parents in either church commitment or belief, and their desire for a ceremonial recognition that their child?s arrival is important and significant to them, to others and to God, is gladly met and happily acknowledged.
The ceremony begins: ?N and N have had their lives enriched and blessed by the gift of this child N. Today they have come to thank God for his/her presence and the difference he/she has made to their lives. Also, they have invited us as a congregation to share in their joy and on their behalf to ask God?s blessing upon N and upon them, that they may worthily face the challenges and privileges of parenthood in the years ahead.?"