Re milestones & Henry:
Baby should be able to
1 - Stand holding onto someone or something YES
2 - pull up to standing from sitting YES
3 - object if you try to take a toy away YES LOUDLY!
4 - say "mama" or "dada" indiscriminantly YES
5 - play peekaboo YES
6 - exchange back and forth gestures with you. MAYBE NOT SURE WHAT IT MEANS?
Baby will probably be able to
1 - get into sitting position from stomach YES
2 - play patty cake (clap hands) or wave YES WAVES VAGUELY
3 - pick up tiny object with thumb and forefinger YES
4 - walk holding furniture NO, NEARLY THOUGH
5 - understand no but not always obey it. NO
possibly be able to
1 - stand alone momentarily YES MOMENT-ARILY!
2 - say mama and dada discriminantly NO
3 - point to something to get needs met. NO
and he walked quite a few steps holding my hands today
DS1 was walking on his first birthday, cannot see that H will take that long!
On the other hand, he still can't roll, so if you put him on his back he is like a turtle! stuck
AND, nearly all of these have happened in the last 10 days, so don't give up hope anyone.
plus i believe they are just a guideline, if baby is fine in other respects it's not a big deal, more if they are consistently behind in every department all the time imo.
lucky - ds2 normally has ds1 to watch/entertain him so we don't have such a problem. when ds1 is away (nursery/pre-school) and we are at home, he def needs more mummy attention than otherwise so i know it's tiring.
gingeme - glad eye is improving.
aiming for another early & good night tonight. good luck all