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Oct 2007; This little piggie had loads of roast beef and ^This^ little piggie would have none of it!

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Dalrymps · 04/09/2008 12:59

Psst over here!

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Stefka · 18/10/2008 08:16

Thanks Floria - hope you feel better soon!

LisaLessLumpy · 18/10/2008 20:24

Hope your party went well Mine, can we see a picture of the cake?

alicet · 19/10/2008 16:57

OK so haven't even had a chance to catch up. Very busy this week as on a course at the end of the week and as usual have left all preparation to last minute. So if I disappear for a while I am still about and will catch up next weekend if not before...

Hope you're all well and happy birthday to those los who turn 1 this week... xxx

WhiteWineAndJaffaCakes · 19/10/2008 17:16

Apricot - exams are for financial services diploma, only got one more to sit probably in April. It's the second stage out of three levels of qualification.

Am not too worried about exam - have to wait until 12 Dec though for results . Am starting to stress a bit about work in general though. My boss doesn't keep track of my hours, which is good, only the number of clients I go and see, which isn't good! We get given leads from this vast database but only about half have phone numbers - then you've got to phone about 8 or 9 times on average before you actually get a human being, and then there's no guarantee that they'll want to see you. It's really really time consuming and at the moment I'm only getting a couple a week and I need to be doing 4. I've no idea how I'm going to generate 4 appointments plus do all the paperwork in 20 hours a week - it's not like I'm twiddling my thumbs at the moment. I've got a meeting with my boss in the morning but at this rate I can see me not getting past my 6 month probation. I'm already starting to think about other job options in my head - not a good sign!

J2O - how is Shannon now?

Stefka - glad the interview went better than you think, even if you didn't get the job. At least you now know you can do a good interview. Fingers crossed something crops up soon. (Your sil is a real nightmare btw.)

FT - difficult one about the mil. I would say I think it depends what effect the change in routine has on Alex. If he's not the slightest bit bothered whether he eats an egg buttie or your salmon/veg/dessert then as annoying as it is I would let it pass. I know if I'm seeing a client after work and dh has to get Anya her tea I know she just grazes on picnic-type food rather than have a hot meal, but she doesn't seem to mind, although she'll probably have more milk to compensate, so I just let it go as I don't want to undermine him. If Alex is suffering from being in a wet/dirty nappy though then you may have to be a bit firmer. Although a few hours in a wet disposable shouldn't be bad - no different to going overnight for a few hours? - maybe cover him in Sudocrem and put him in a disposable before he goes out with mil as a preventative measure? Pick your battles would be my advice - insists she change him if he is dirty. (Have just read other posts now and I think I've just repeated what others have said!)

Alice - lol at the 4 pages of instructions

LES - quite frankly if the daughter wants to have a wake of her own then you're probably better of that way - at least she won't be spoiling the proper one.

Mine - fancy dress sounds wonderful! How did it go?

Stefka · 19/10/2008 19:39

Well I survived our very little party. A few people cancelled so in the end it was just my brother and SIL and my parents. Had a few digs from the SIL who went on about how busy her house is going to be for her DD's party and how she will be sending out hand made cards to make sure everyone has good notice etc etc. I am so dreading that party.

I didn't exactly make a cake - I chopped up a chocolate log to make a one shape and covered it in butter icing then decorated it. I was pleased with myself considering how crap I am in the kitchen! Most importantly Dareh had a great time.

Hope your week isn't too mental Alice.

12th December for results! That would drive me nuts WWJC! What is it you do btw? I was trying to figure it out from what you said but couldn't.

J2O · 19/10/2008 20:17

just posting so i don't lose you all, we have been away for the weekend and only just got in. Shannon is still ill and we where awake all Frinight with her doing the grunting again and Rich got up at 5.20 with her this morning, am going to look up the grunting as soon as i've had a bath.

the only things i can remember after skimming..

stefka-not suprised you where pissed off, but glad party turned out ok

LES-what a shitty situation for you is there anyway you can take a back seat with it all? or maybe be supportive to them both... but then you run the risk of seeming to be two-faced-its a tough one, i feel for you {{hugs}}

right off for bath, love to all xxxx

J2O · 19/10/2008 20:18

p.s Stefka lol at your cake, Rich made Shannon a number 1 doing that kind of cake too

strawberrylace · 19/10/2008 21:17

hello everyone!
Floria - hope you are feeling better soon; and J20 - hope Shannon is better soon as well
Stefka - glad you survived your party, and your cake sounds yummy - i didn't do anything creative at all for DS's birthday cake! Remember, when it's your SIL's party, you can always use DS as an excuse to leave early - ie, "he's not feeling well at the moment, we've been up all night, so unfortunately we can't stay long - soooo sorry as you know we would love to stay longer..." all said with a very sincere smile on your face.....
I managed to persuade DH to go to Ikea today so we could get some storage things and a bed for DS so we can move him into his own room. Though he's a bit small for the bed yet, I only get one chance a year to get DH to Ikea, so have to stock up... Now he is playing on his Xbox as a thank you for being good all day reward!
Hope you are all ok

FloriaTosca · 20/10/2008 15:14

Hi All

Strawberrylace; You got your Dh to go to Ikea! Wow![impressed emoticon]...mine would rather have his teeth pulled.
J20 I really hope you get to the bottom of Shannons problem, this has really gone on too long now hasnt it?
WWAJC;Difficult generating appointments out of thin air. I hope you have actually done better than they expected.
Alice; hope the week flies by...we miss you when you are busy and hope there is some interest in your house asap.

I'm marginally better todaystill bunged up and coughing but not so violently thank heavens as I've pulled my back intercostal muscles which makes the practise phenomenally uncomfortable and to top it all I'm now attractively decorated with delightful cold sores but poor Alex is worse now and kept me up all night crying out in his sleep, calpol is keeping his temperature down but the poor mite is sneezing rivers, his voice has dropped an octave and he is very clingy (I've not read out loud so much since I was in infants school!)
Hi everyone I havent mentioned...hope all is well.

Stefka · 20/10/2008 15:27

Ha ha - my DH is the same about Ikea. I can sometimes get him there via the meatballs though! I love Ikea - dangerous place though. I always buy loads!

Poor Alex and poor you Floria - I hope you both feel better soon. Ugh Dareh is in the kitchen cupboard again got to go!

crochetdiva · 20/10/2008 18:40

hooray - I have the net back at home ... I've missed you!!

No time to post anything right now, love to all!

p.s. Stefka, your SiL has (as I have already said) her head so far up her own @rse that she can probably lick her own tonsils ...

and anyway, Mairwen didn't get a party ...

muppetgirl · 20/10/2008 18:55

Hi all!

Dh and I were away for the weekend having a dirty night away in a hotel for our 5th wedding anniversary. We were a little less than careful so no 3 may be on the way but we really wouldn't mind if it was.
My bf and her hubbie had the boys so Ollie had a great time as she's a good pianist so he got to hear the piano played properly for the first time in ages I can busk but I'm really not that good.
I had my first ever massage which was lovely and we had dinner in the hotel restaurant.

Happy birthday Eren!!! Mine, that cake is fab I am really going to have to think of a way I can make this 'bat' cake for Henry.

Anyway got to go as I'm running tonight but will be back for a full catch up.

love to all

xxx

Dalrymps · 20/10/2008 20:47

Muppet! We did exactly the same on our 3 year anniversary last wed too! By that I mean we were less than careful oops!

Sorry haven't caught up properly for ages everyone, I will do soon, promise!

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Mine · 20/10/2008 21:06

ooohhhhhh the accidently on purpose route!! I love it

I thought i was PG the other day.... missed period by 3 weeks ...... in fact it never came..........

PG test was negative...

Stefka · 20/10/2008 21:14

Oh Muppet it sounds wonderful - I am very jealous!!!

My period still hasn't returned yet.

Just got the toy we bought last Jan sales which was planned for Dareh's Christmas but he's getting it for his birthday now. I didn't realise it was electric! It only cost a few quid - it was such a bargain! Our house is tiny though so there won't be much driving around in it really. Not sure Dareh will totally get it yet though - he might be a bit young. Think he will like playing with the wheels though! Can't believe that this time last year I was in labour. Scary.

WhiteWineAndJaffaCakes · 21/10/2008 07:29

Well meeting with boss went ok yesterday - he's going to have a word with the woman who allocates leads as he thinks she's giving me rubbish. I did quite well yesterday and I've got 3 appointments this week and 2 next week so things are looking brighter today . Stefka - I'm a financial adviser so doing pensions, investments, etc. I work for an independent firm though so at least I'm not having to sell policies for a bank etc - I don't actually have to get clients to sign up for anything, I just have to see them.

J2O - sorry Shannon still isn't well. No idea what could cause the grunting.

FT - sorry you're still not well and big hugs to poor Alex. Hope you're both better soon. This is an awful time of year for colds and bugs isn't it?

Fingers crossed for all you not so careful people! Am v jealous.

Crochet - good to have you back with us.

Happy birthday for Dareh for today!

J2O · 21/10/2008 07:38

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAREH!!

WWAJC-just out of interest, when you are selling mortgages, how many lenders do you searrch for the best deal?

I am really pi**ed off, Rich stayed last night and he got his car broken into again! They took a digital photo frame that was his grandads birthday present out of the boot and some cash in the ashtray, and also Leonies purse with about £6 in that was shoved down the back of the seat, they couldn't take his sat nav and air compressor as they took that last time!
Its going to cost to get his window replaced again.

Right i'd better get ready to go to college love to all xx

J2O · 21/10/2008 09:08

HAPPY BIRTHDAY EREN!

hope i haven't missed anyone else out!

muppetgirl · 21/10/2008 09:08

H A P P Y
B I R T H D A Y D A R E H !

xxxxx

muppetgirl · 21/10/2008 09:09

hi j20 sorry to hear of the break in

absolute *ankers in my opinion

Dalrymps · 21/10/2008 09:17

Happy Birthday Eren !
Happy Birthday Dareh !

Hope both lo's have a wonderful day!

J20 - sorry to hear about the car break in, thats awful

WWAJC - gld the meeting at work went well

Mine - about your pg scare, sorry it was negative, better luck next time

Well i'm off to feed Dylan, back soon x

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Stefka · 21/10/2008 09:18

Happy Birthday Eren!!

Thank you for the birthday wishes!!

Poor Dareh is not happy because his first tooth has just arrived!!!!

Thank you so much Dalry and to the other person who I can't work out - who are you??? Your gifts were precious to us in this totally crap time. Part of the reason we are in this situation is because DH left his job to go self employed with a so called friend who we have discovered is taking all the work for himself and only using DJH when he needs to. It is nice to be reminded that there are genuine kind and nice people in the world!

Dalrymps · 21/10/2008 09:19

Your welcome Stefka! Hope he enjoys playing with it

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Stefka · 21/10/2008 09:44

He loves it! He wants to know how it works and keeps picking it up to twang the head. It's really a beautiful toy - I haven't seen anything like that in the shops. Wooden toys are so nice. He's also having a grand old time with his little books sent by mystery person.

Dalrymps · 21/10/2008 09:49

Aw what a cutie, glad he's having fun

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