Friz, we have lots of 'actually', 'in fact', and 'of course' from DD as well. All words that suit her royal bossiness very well indeed! On the plus side, she seems to be easing off slightly on bossing DS, and is learning how to be more diplomatic as she does it.
So today, DD had a pirate telescope (baking paper tube), and DS had a little plastic knife ('sword') and a pirate hat on...and DD wanted all three props. So she said "Oooooh, Eli, look at those lovely vegetables and fruit...mmm, wouldn't you love to cut them up? That would actually be sooo much fun!" And DS says "ok", and DD says "Well, you should take that pirate hat and sword off of course, if you are going to be a vegetable man, because a vegetable man never ever wears a pirate hat!"...and so DS took them off, and DD looks at me and says "Oh, Eli didn't want to be a pirate anymore". Brat. I'm not sure its a great improvement, but as DS was then quite happy playing with vegetables, I decided I'd go on with my biscuit and glass of milk and not interfere!
So whats the birthday order for these kids? I can never remember. DS is 9th - family party in the park on the 8th for us.