Izzybel, try leaving your DH with DD for the day with a list of chores he needs to get done and see how he gets on
I feel guilty about the state the house is in, but after leaving DD with DH a couple of times, he is fully appreciative of just how much time it takes to do things, especially when having to fit in feeds, meals, snacks, dropping DS off and picking him up from school.
It is quiet here...where is everyone? Am I missing something good on the telly?