Hi people! Haven't really caught up so sorry if I have missed something.
Wanted to say Ange you were right and the reverend was very nice. Indeed. I feel strangely calm, ahh.
Liath thank you for the tip. I have to say that I am not entirely ok with taking it, it doesn't really seem too healthy to not have a period at all, and thinking of it I usually drink loads of water as part of my diet, at least a 2 litre bottle full per day, if not more, but haven't really been doing lately.
FOR ALL THOSE WITH BABIES NOT SLEEPING.
Without going into too much detail. The things that spring to mind are
a: fresh air, make sure you get out every day even if just for half an hour. The more fresh air the better.
b: the more they eat the more they sleep. Hungry babies will be awake all night. We each have our opinion and there is mine.If you are unsure then at least give sth along the lines of weetabix/mixed with fruit/ baby cereal before bed followed by milk feed, either formula or if you are still bf then bf. And try to increase the food in their daily meals, all babies are different some will prefer too eat two largish meals, some will prefer to have "little and often". Either way. If you are in doubt in my experience it is relatively hard to over feed a baby.
c: an attempt at a daily routine. Over tired babies are usually ironically awake a lot more at night. All babies are different but the guidelines are 2-3 hours sleep per day, divided into two sleeps one in the morning and one in the afternoon.
ROUTINE - FRESH AIR ? FOOD
I used to laugh when people told me that ?I really should have a routine? in an ?actually we will do whatever we want? way, but I now realise that they were actually right. We live and learn .
I only came on to say thanks to Ange .
Right fingers crossed that the boiler is fixed at the nursery because I cannot cope with the idea of L being home all day again .