I know where you girls are coming from on the feeding. With DS, as he was on formula from 6 weeks, the whole weaning thing wasn't an issue as he was already weaned off me IYSWIM. this time, I soooo wanted to do the six months thing, but DD is just so hungry and diving in our food. So far she has had tow lots of baby rice yesterday, and then rice and mash today. She's also had various sucks on bits of fruit, but I've not given her any fruit puree yet. she liked banana but it didn't like her.
With DS I started to mix fruit and veg purees in with the baby rice, then slowly reduced the quantity of rice. I've forgotten pretty much everything though, so will get annabel karmels book when I come back from my hols and get going with gusto then. So far we are only giving her wee tastes of stuff.
MIL still bleating about getting her on the bottle (of formula). I haven't told her that even when she is on solids I will still be feeding her myself.