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stinkymalinki · 26/09/2007 13:23

My darling boy's birthday today

We gave him a Fisher Price Little People garage as his main present, which he loves, as well as loads of Bob the Builder trucks and Thomas the tank engine bits.

He's currently having a nap, then we're having a little birthday tea later.

A good day SM x

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RedtartanLass · 10/12/2007 15:10

Just a quickie, thought I'd have a wee read and catch up on the gossip,and what great news YORKIE COngratulations.

Glad everybody is well, and LOs keeping us all on our toes. MawBroon keeps me up-to-date with all the news as I don't come on MNet very much now. RL keeps getting in the way!

ELF1981 · 12/12/2007 16:02

Oooh, I think I may be getting better. had yesterday and today off work sick. Yesterday I could not walk and was sick every five mins, so the CM picked Evelyn up for me in the morning - worth her weight in gold that woman!

mawbroonGotRunOverByAReindeer · 13/12/2007 20:56

That sounds horrendous Elf. I hope you are feeling a bit better today.

I don't feel great tbh, but it's just general tiredness and feeling a bit crappy, nothing specific. I hope I'm better by Saturday when I am going to the MN Scottish Christmas meet up. Very exciting There are around 15 going IIRC and I have met 5 or 6 before.

We are at my parents for a couple of days, and Johnny has been having a whale of a time. I have spent a lot of time playing with him today, wheras at home he would be told that Mummy was busy and he would have to do it himself. I didn't bother taking the travel cot here, instead I brought a bed rail so he's been in the big boy bed last night and this afternoon for his nap. I went in to check him earlier and thought he had disappeared until I found him at the bottom of the bed completely under the covers

stinkymalinki · 14/12/2007 19:32

Huge congratulations Yokefleet (and Mr Yokefleet)

We got back from Paris today. Have had a lovely time (nobody does Christmas like Disney, even down to fake snow!), but i'm glad to be home so we can get on with our own christmas - decorations are going up tomorrow! SM x

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stinkymalinki · 15/12/2007 20:42

Yay! Tree up (even if i did cop out, and go with the fibre optic tree without decorations in the end, definitely a good plan given the high level of interest Joey has shown in it already), and i'm beginning to feel more festive.

Hope everyone else's Christmas plans are going ok? Take care, SM x

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Yokefleet · 16/12/2007 16:59

Thank you RTL!!! Good to see you on the board again xxx

SM Sounds like you had a fab time in Paris xxx

ELF Hope you are feeling better soon.

MB How did the MN meetup go? and I hope you are feeling better too.

All pressies etc wrapped here now thankfully as I am feeling rubbish at the moment with nausea/indigestion and tiredness! I had forgotten about how I felt last time round!

I saw a MW on Tuesday who has put me at 10 weeks pg but they didn't take into account my irregular periods so I think I am probably only between 6-8 weeks but she is coming out to me on the 29th for the booking appointment and then she will arrange the dating scan after that. So we will soon find out I guess!

ponto · 16/12/2007 22:01

Congratulations Yokefleet! I can sympathise with your feelings of sickness as I've been feeling horrible the last few weeks, thankfully things seem to be easing off a bit now (I'm 11 weeks). Having my dating scan on Tuesday.

I'm really not ready for Alice to give up her nap yet as I need that time to have a rest myself! She has got through to 5 o'clock on a couple of occasions with no nap, when we've been out, but then has ended up falling asleep briefly on the way home and being miserable until we can get her to bed. That happened yesterday so today I insisted she went to bed at 2 and she slept for 2.5 hours! Managed to get the Christmas lights up outside in that time.

What are all the los getting for Christmas? I was going to get Alice an Aquadraw but she played with a friend's the other day and gave up after 2 minutes as it would only draw in one colour! I'm getting her some dressing up clothes as she loves pretending to be a fairy or ballerina, but she and dd1 between them already have a huge amount of toys so I can't think of much else to buy her. I know she won't notice, but I feel mean not getting her a big Christmas present. Though to be honest, if I bought her a big bag of dolly mixtures she'd be happy for days!

mawbroonGotRunOverByAReindeer · 16/12/2007 23:24

I have had the longest lie ever today since before Johnny was born!! How come on one of the very few days that dh has been on Johnny duty, Johnny slept until 8am when he wakes at 6am every other day when it's me getting up...

The mn meet up last night was really good fun. I met some familiar faces and quite a few new faces too. Being a teetotaller (nearly 3 years now!) I was only tired this morning not hungover. Thank goodness

We haven't got our lights and stuff up yet, but when Johnny goes to Granny's house, he mentions the "bonny lights" umpteen times. We were in the town centre today at the winter wonderland. I carried Johnny in the backpack for a lot of the time. It's like having a portable heater on your back He loved seeing all the lights and stuff, and his favourite seemed to be a horse and carriage ride going up and down Princes Street gardens. He was saying "clip clop clip clop" and running around pretending to be a horse for most of the afternoon. Very cute

ELF1981 · 17/12/2007 14:54

Thought I might fill you in on some of the lovely details about my stay at the hospital this weekend. After having bad headaches since the end of November, this is what happened this weekend.
It started on Saturday morning when I woke up and had a horrible tingling in my face, and my tongue had swelled up so much that I couldn't talk properly, including saying Evelyn's name.
I assumed it was part and parcel of the dead arm I had, coupled with the fact Evelyn had been in our bed the night before (and before, and before, and before) so I had spent a lot of time sleeping hanging off the bed.
I took Evelyn downstairs and we decided to have breakfast and watch Peppa Pig, and during the first episode I was talking to her as I usually do, but totally unable to say what I wanted to say. For example, I would try to say "Silly Daddy Pig fell over!" and it came out as "dilly dilly, ig..."
So we went and woke Ashley up and I told him that I was not able to talk properly, that my head had started to pound again. So he decided we could either go to NHS walk in centre or we could go to the hospital, and based on past experiences at the NHS, we chose the hospital.
By this point I could hardly walk or talk properly, so I was seen quite fast in casualty.
I had to go through the symptoms for what seemed like the tenth time that morning, and the doctor thought it was a severe type of migraine and that can sometimes cause a paralysis down one side. A nurse came and took some blood, and then I lost all feeling in my right hand side - leg, arm, face. I was trying to get the doctors attention, and by the time he came in I was a little hysterical and so he made me lie down and said I would have to have a CT scan, and that although strokes would be rare at my age, it would rule it out as well as some other things. It took me about ten minutes to tell him that Ashley was outside with Evelyn.
So by this point, Ashley decides that it is time to tell my parents what is going off. So then they turned up, at which point I was worse - still unable to move one side, throwing up and generally being sick/ dizzy.
Various bits happened that I cannot remember much of (I remember telling everybody within earshot that if I died, they were to make sure Evelyn was looked after, and that she knew how much I loved her) and everybody left except Ashley, who gave himself the poor job of sitting next to me while I was semi conscious, being prodded and poked at etc. I had the CT scan which was horrific - I was not expecting my temperature to shoot up so much when they put the dye in me, and they then left that bloody needle in my hand "just in case" which was so painful!
I was taken back to the ward next to casualty, where I stayed with Ashley waiting for a doctor to come and discuss the scan with me (I think I had that about three / four?). I had two "thorough" neurological exams - lots of complicated questions and random things to do with my hands - sequences etc to keep up with. Also some complicated sentences, and at eleven thirty when I'd been in there for twelve hours, and I was still suffering, and they wanted to say silly little hippopotamus, I could have cried. By this point they couldn't do anything about the CT scan as it needed to be looked at by a specialist.
Ashley went home at this point, though very worried about what the doctor had said, as they were saying a best case scenario was a severe migraine, worst case I could have had a blood clot / mini stroke. At twenty six, that was not my best news.
At about two in the morning they monitored my heart with those sticky things they stick all over your body (bear in mind they woke me up to do this and stripped me off, I was not a happy bunny) and then at four they woke me up again to move me to a orthopaedic ward as they had some spare beds up there.
I stayed in hospital all Sunday and was told that I may have to have an MRI scan to go with the CT scan (joy) but they seemed to decide against that. I saw more doctors this morning and they told me they were going to release me as I had "hemiplegic migraines" which roughly translates to bad headaches which can cause a temporary paralysis.
I have to go see the nurse tomorrow, whether they will do anything I don't know, but hey, it will be a nice round to my weekend!
So, that was my fab, fab weekend at the hospital (worst thing being that I saw Evelyn for about two hours in total over the weekend, I haven't seen her at all yet today, so I was feeling pretty miserable, and it is not like you can even say I had some nice sleep, seeing as they kept waking me up and it was cold!)

I will catch up on everybodies gossip and post shortly (well, after getting Evelyn and chilling out at home for a bit!)

mawbroonGotRunOverByAReindeer · 17/12/2007 15:02

Elf, I'm just on my way out, but couldn't ignore your post.

You have been through the mill you poor thing, I really hope that it's nothing serious and that they can help you get to the bottom of it all.

Thinking about you back later

Yokefleet · 17/12/2007 15:47

OMG Elf, that must have been really scary for you all too, I have never heard of that kind of migrane before. Rest up and we will speak to you soon

Love and hugs to you hunni xxx

mawbroonGotRunOverByAReindeer · 18/12/2007 20:09

Sorry didn't come back on last night. Broadband connection let me down

Elf, I hope you are feeling a bit better today. How did you get on at the nurse today? Did they give you any indication why you might have suffered this at this particular time? I have had migraines with visual disturbances and that was bad enough. I can't imagine how frightening the paralysis must have been for you. Hope you are able to rest up and get back to normal soon.

We converted Johnny's cot bed into a "big boy bed" tonight. We went to Ikea to choose a duvet etc, but he wasn't interested in the slightest!! We have the bed rail up which almost covers the whole of the open side, so I am not expecting him to fall out. I would bet that he won't get up and wander about if he wakes up, but I could be proved wrong of course!

Yokefleet · 19/12/2007 09:12

MB how did the big boy bed go last night?
I am gonna keep the rails on for a while yet as I am so shattered I can't afford to have Thomas wandering around during the afternoon when he should be napping as I need that nap too!!

ELF1981 · 19/12/2007 11:52

Hi all.
I am feeling a little better. Yesterday was a bad day, I ended up having to have the emergency doctor out as my head was terrible and I had sickness again and couldn't keep water down.
The doc said that it is impossible to tell the trigger of these type of migraines, but she thinks its possible that (as the first doc said) a viral infection is playing a small part. She gave me 100 strong painkillers and some anti sickness tablets and has signed me off work, saying that I may be well enough to go back a week on Friday.
Luckily work are being very understanding about it all, but I've been there for nearly five years and never had a sick day before so I think I've worked for these

MB - how did you get on with the big bed?

Yokefleet · 19/12/2007 19:23

Elf just take it steady and I hope that you are back to your normal self soon xxx

Thomas has been a monster today, constantly wanting carrying everywhere, pulling Eleanors hair, pulling my glasses off and throwing loads of tantrums - I am hoping that he wakes in a better mood tomorrow!

DontlookatmynoseImRudolph · 19/12/2007 19:50

ponto don't feel guilty about the present. We aren't getting ds much (just some happyland stuff of ebay) as I know he'll get more than enough other stuff of grandparents.

mb lol at Johnny's long lie in. Ds seems to do that when dh is on duty too. I think it must be a conspiracy.

Elf Sorry you had such a bad weekend. It must've been really scary. Glad your feeling a bit better.

YF I remember desperately needing those daytime naps in the early weeks of pg. I'm so glad ds until that was over before he gave it up. I'm managing ok at the moment but in a week weeks I'll be I wishing he had waited a few more months!

Not much happening here. Ds is sleeping later in the mornings which is nice. I am quite tired at the moment as a couple of weeks ago my car failed it's MOT (quite spectacularly) so we have been intensive car hunting, and doing lots of test driving. Finally found one at the weekend and hope to have it by Friday. I'm quite excited but I'll also be sad to see my old one go. It was my first car, I've had it 8.5 years and it's never let me down despite being ancient.

Yokefleet · 21/12/2007 16:23

Just a quick one ladies, I aren't going to be back on before Christmas now as Paul is off so I just wanted to wish you and yours a lovely Christmas and hope that you get all you desire xxxx

Lots of Love

Hannah & Thomas James xxx
p.s I can't believe that it is the kids 3rd xmas already!!!

mawbroonGotRunOverByAReindeer · 23/12/2007 20:31

How are you doing Elf? Hopefully you are a lot better now.

The big boy bed has been mixed. He has woken during a couple of the nights, sometimes he gets out of the bed and others he sits in the bed crying for me. He got out the other day and was running around howling in the dark and he fell over and hurt himself Naptimes have changed though. He was napping almost every afternoon and there were days where he would fall asleep after crying for a couple of mins in his cot, but now this turns into running around wailing until I go and get him. So, he now seems to be napping every other day, with perhaps a couple of cat naps thrown in if he's really tired.

My sister was meant to be flying up from Heathrow this afternoon and her flight got cancelled. She has been unable to get through to reorganise the flight and it is quite possible that she won't be able to make it all. Hard to believe that the fog is so bad when we are basking in beautiful sunshine here. (Well, obviously not right now at 8.30pm

Just want to say merry christmas to you all in case I'm not back on again before then.

ELF1981 · 26/12/2007 18:24

I hope everybody had a lovely Xmas, mine was really good, aside from Boxing Day which saw me throwing up from four in the morning onwards, and unable to keep water down again. Guess my viral infection hasn't gone yet. DH took Evelyn to my dad's today and left me in bed (its my dads birthday) and spent the day there, and he has now taken her to his dads for their boxing day party. I've seen her for five minutes so far but I didn't get out of bed until half four this afternoon (and I was asleep all that time) so at least she has been entertained. I'm at my dads tonight so that they can help out in the morning when DH goes to work if I am still not feeling well.

Yokefleet · 28/12/2007 19:18

oh Elf I hope that you are feeling better hunni xxx

ELF1981 · 29/12/2007 22:32

my latest thread!
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/1375/446741?ts=1198967508717&msgid=9042643

mawbroon · 30/12/2007 12:47

Oh Elf, broken nights are awful at the best of times, never mind when you are so ill. I really don't know what to suggest regarding Evelyn's sleeping, other than you should be consistent with it. I put Johnny back in a cot because his sleeping went pear shaped after trying the big boy bed. I don't know if going back to a cot would help Evelyn though. It might add insult to injury in her eyes! Could you perhaps change it so that there is no pressure on her to go to sleep, instead saying that she can play with her teddies/read books etc on the condition that she must stay in her bed? At least if she's in her bed quiet, it would relieve the stress of it for you, and in time she might start falling asleep during this time anyway. Is she still napping btw? I have found that over the holidays when Johnny has been here, there and everywhere without a proper naptime, his night sleeping is much much better. I hope you get it sorted soon though. It must be so draining for you all.

Not much doing with us here apart from overeating and lounging about. I haven't dared to stand on the scales for the last week oink oink. Johnny had a great time at Christmas and got some toys that were just perfect for him. He was given a music set with a mouth organ, tambourine, recorder and castanets. At first I thought "oh no, what a bloody racket that's going to be", but he loves it so much that I can't help but laugh. He toots a couple of notes on the moothie then runs around the room laughing his head off. It is sooo cute.

If I'm not on again until next year, I would just like to wish you all a good Hogmany and all the best for 2008.

Yokefleet · 30/12/2007 16:40

Elf, sorry to hear about the sleep problems ontop of your ill health hun xxx If it were me I would probably do the controlled crying but whatever you decide to do I hope something works and quickly for you xxx

I am feeling pretty crap at the minute only had 2 days of sickness today and Xmas day! but had forgotten just how tired I felt last time! The nausea isn't getting any better yet. Had booking appointment yesterday and should have a scan within 3 weeks.

Happy New Year to one and all xxx

mawbroon · 01/01/2008 12:11

Happy New Year to you all. Here's hoping 2008 is a great year for everyone. Trouble free pregnancies and healthy babies for those who are expecting and Elf, I hope you are feeling much better.

We had fun at my brother's Hogmany party, except Johnny was so excited that he didn't go to bed until 10pm We drove home and after getting to bed at 2.15am, I was woken by Johnny at 6.20am. Luckily he came into bed for a feed and then went back to sleep and we got up around 9am which wasn't too bad really.

I have been over eating for a week now and can feel it already in my legs and bum. How come it takes so long to come off, but goes back on in a flash..

ELF1981 · 01/01/2008 13:05

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL
I have been back to the doctors as I was sick yesterday again, the doctor is getting my hospital file because he is not satisfied, and will be calling me back in for further discussions when he has the file. He thinks the file is totally inadequate that was passed to them, as it does not even refer to the CT scan I had!
Hopfully somebody is taking this seriously now and going to help!