Sorry to hear about your aunt hales, hope the rest of the family are okay.
O had a fit because he wanted to keep his shorts that were covered in pistachio ice cream on for bed.
He actually rarely tantrums but when he does gets so stuck in it all I could do was hold him till he fell asleep still weeping a bit. Dh and I changed him after in his sleep but I feel 
His end of term concert was onFriday though, and he was the one getting most involved of all of his class. I could see him hand - dancing from where we were on the balcony and afterwards he said he could see us and looked dead pleased. This is ds1 who was our poor nigh on wordless2 year old, he's changed so fast!