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April 2015 - The babies are arriving thick and fast

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TheBooMonster · 01/04/2015 21:39

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LIG1979 · 19/04/2015 07:14

Glad it is not just me tiny. Cutting dd down to 2 days rather than 3 in June but wondering whether I should keep her in. But really wanted to spend more time with her whilst off and the extra money will be nice. Hopefully by then I will have figured out what I am doing with 2!

londonlivvy · 19/04/2015 07:21

I'm terrified at the thought of dh going back to work! DD goes to the childminder two mornings a week, that's it. DH won't be home til 645 at the earliest. and we have no family nearby who could help. Well, technically my sister could, but she won't, so no point dwelling on that.

ah well. I'm sure I'll muddle through somehow.

cinnamongreyhound · 19/04/2015 07:47

I had a moment of panic before I went out without dh to take ds2 to school on Friday Londonlivvy. I managed fine, ds2 didn't kick off and I was back safe and sound but I think you have that support if you need it so it makes you feel better. I have up to 10 children at a time when working and have had two of my own for over 4 years so it seems daft to worry about going out with 2 for actually a very short space of time. I think I just feel vulnerable and was worried ds2 could feel that but actually he's been really good. I have 11 more days off so guess I'd better suck it up Wink, you'll manage don't worry!! It won't always be easy but you will cope. I found the hardest time was evening 4/5- bedtime but again you'll get through Flowers

FiRaffe · 19/04/2015 09:59

I feel for you with 2(or more!). I'm worrying about DH going back to work and it'll just be us! DS is much happier since he lost his cord and enormous clip, so hopefully we can have a good few days and i'll feel more confident

TinyTear · 19/04/2015 10:21

LIG, DD is paid up for full time until start of September (we pay annually to save money) and then we will again as when I go back to work I will need full time again... But I will pick her up earlier than 5pm while on maternity leave

londonlivvy · 19/04/2015 13:48

yes cinnamon everyone says 5-7 is the trickiest part of the day. lots of multi tasking ahead I think. ah well

proud moment today as dd2 above birth weight on day 5!! means all these endless hours of feeding are at least achieving something.

TinyTear · 19/04/2015 15:12

Yay livvy, it was day 14 for us!! Go boobs Grin

cinnamongreyhound · 19/04/2015 18:59

Excellent news! Sam was weighed on day 6 and was 20g under birth weight, will probably weigh him again tomorrow at hospital which will be day 10 so we'll see. Dh thinks he'll be a couple of 100 up!

SquattingNeville · 19/04/2015 20:35

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PenguinPoser · 20/04/2015 00:04

I have lots of respect for those of you juggling more than one child!
Londonlivvy I find if I get up and ready before dh leaves for work then it makes things easier, not sure if you could do the same? Well done on the weight gain too! Took us 19 days to exceed birth weight and dd is still under 7lb bless her. It's worrying me a bit but hv doesn't seem too worried as she is gaining and otherwise fine.

FiRaffe · 20/04/2015 06:06

You're doing a great job Penguin and all your tips are invaluable. I think when DH goes back next week i'll try and get up with him otherwise i'll spend all day in my pjs as I don't know how to juggle everything yet!

SquattingNeville · 20/04/2015 07:09

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LittleGreyCatwithapinkcollar · 20/04/2015 11:45

Here's my birth story:

Contractions began at about 7pm on Saturday 11th and ramped up over night, getting to every 3 mins, then dying down at about 7am to about every 10-15 - a pattern that continued every night then day until Wednesday 15th (by which time I was shattered as I hadn't slept apart from in between them since Sat am!). I was booked for a midwife visit and stretch and sweep on Wednesday. When they came at about midday I was examined by the midwife and the student midwife, who both told me I was at least 4cm.

Contractions kept getting stronger throughout the afternoon and back to 3 every 10 mins or so, and I eventually went to the hospital at about 9:30pm, only to be told I was only 3cm dilated and should really go home. Once home they were immediately stronger and more frequent, and I howled and wailed through the next few hours with my DH, Mum and Sis - my Dad went for a nap! The main issue was that baby was back to back (having not been at midday) so there was no let up from the pain in between contractions which after 4-5 days with no sleep I found really hard to deal with!

At 2am DH insisted on ringing labour ward back and telling them I couldn't cope anymore (he was right - I think it was me begging him to sever my spine to make the pain stop that gave me away...). I was re-examined at 2:20am and found to now be 6cm and told I could have pain relief. I was adamant on the way in I was having an epidural asap, but the midwife moved me to a delivery room and gave me the gas and air tube and immediately I felt like I could manage again, especially when I got on a bigger birthing ball and she gave DH a lesson in rubbing my back effectively to help!

Over the next couple of hours we filled in paper work and discussed pain relief etc in between contractions, and just after I had explained that I thought I could cope with gas and air for now, by waters exploded all over the floor and I felt like I'd be pushing very soon! Waters were green so the (amazing) midwife got me straight on the monitor to check on baby. We were struggling to pick up her heart beat properly due to her position so unfortunately I had to lie on the bed (which wasn't how I had planned to give birth) and DH had to firmly hold the monitor on me. The midwife called for a back up team who stood in the corner of the room while I delivered (luckily she came out quickly - from waters going to delivery took about 14 mins - 5 contractions as the midwife managed to manipulate her position so she wasn't back to back for delivery) and as soon as she'd pinked and screamed the team all left without saying a word - I was so impressed that everyone stayed so calm but they were so fully prepared in case anything went wrong that I felt safe, making delivery much easier. I was also lucky to get away with a small 1st degree labial graze and not a lot else!

Baby came straight up for skin to skin (and pooing on my tummy) after my Mum cut her cord and I had the injection for the third stage, which took another 15 or so mins.

Overall it was amazing! I feel like I was really very well looked after by everyone at the hospital and they did an amazing job, and 4 days on, I am starting to think I could do it all again at some point!

IvegotaCaveTroll · 20/04/2015 20:15

Lovely story LittleGreyCat x

PenguinPoser · 21/04/2015 01:44

Pleased it went well littlegreycat it's amazing how our bodies immediately forget the trauma and think oh yeah actually could do that again!!

skyra13 · 21/04/2015 19:43

My Stats
name: Skyra
age: 27
First Baby

Baby Stats
Name: Freya
Gestation at birth: 40+6
Delivery Method: Vaginal Birth
birth time: 6.48pm
Birth weight: 6lb 9oz
Birthday: 11/4/2015
days to return to birth weight: 7

My Birth Story

So for me I can Say I did not enjoy my birth and plan on not doing it again for a good while!! lol I went in open minded with a rough birth plan but with the idea of going with the flow nothing I wanted to happen happened!

So went for routine Midwife appointment on at 40+4 my BP was at 100/150 so was sent to the hospital. Was hoping it would go down and I could go home and things start naturally but no.
At hospital Consultants told me I would be staying and need to go on medication as BP was not stable and that I will not be leaving hospital until I had had the baby.

DH left me that night and on the Friday morning they decided to induce me had the pessary I was loosing so much plug at the time that I ended up having it replaced 4 times. This brought on contractions every 10 min so painful they gave me pathdine but It did not really work at all for me.

In the morning after many checks I was at 2cm they decided to send me to labour ward and to start me on drip.

With how much pain and how tired I was i decided to take the epidural even though I hate needles he has trouble getting It in I think I had about 6 to 10 puncher holes in my back! Trying to keep still having horrible contractions is hard thank god for gas and air!

4 hours later on drip I was 10 cm! 2 hours later I started pushing was told If I don't push her out doctors will have to help Pushed her out in an hour!

Once on postnatal ward her blood sugar was low so she was sent to neonatal for monitoring I expressed and they topped it up with formula, After 6 days in Hospital we were aloud home!

She is now 12 days old and love her to bits currently napping on my chest me and DH love her!

My DH stayed with me the whole time and slept on the floor on a mattress he put up with a lot!

Lauren82000 · 22/04/2015 05:23

My birth story.

Birthdate: 21/4/15 @ 2.02pm
Little girl- still unnamed
Weight: 6lb 11oz
Where: Unplanned home birth (aka no pain relief)??
Time taken: From first contraction to baby 11 hours

Contractions woke me up at 3am, mild to medium in strength around every 10 mins. This continued all morning, some closer together and mild some further apart and strong enough to make my eyes water. I was supervising DH building DD's new bed which took about 45mins around 1pm I had the urge to go to the loo for a poo. I really struggled to wipe my bum ?? as all of a sudden I was having strong contractions that had me whimpering every 3 mins. I eventually managed to get sorted and made it to my bed where I bit my pillow with the next 2 contractions. Meanwhile DH was tidying up our mess and rearranging furniture in DDs room blissfully unaware of how I was doing other than the odd grunt from me.

Contractions weren't letting up so struggled downstairs to ring delivery suite. Was on my hands and knees on the couch rapidly redialing the hospital as the line was busy. Managed to get through after what felt like a million tries. I'd been ok until that point but as soon as the mw answered I just sobbed at her and thank god there were tissues on the end table by the end of the couch! I was a snotty mess. Had 4 contractions on the phone to the mw with the urge to push getting stronger then the fifth one was huge and my waters exploded soaking me the couch and my jeans. (I thought I had more time until then) once my waters went I screamed for DH who was still blissfully unaware upstairs. He came running and I basically threw the phone at him as I'd had enough of the mw telling me to breathe when all I could do was shout ow while drowning in my own snot and tears. (He stayed on the phone while they scrambled a mw and paramedics in our direction.) Then I started getting the tell tale burning and yelled 'shit the heads coming' DH had to wrestle my soaked jeans off me while I was mid contraction and couldn't move. They were seconds apart at this point and I heard DH say he could see a bit of white (the head) the next one he said he could see maybe an inch and a half. The next one and her head was almost out, then the next one and it was. He listened to the mw on the phone and pulled her clear a bit and I could feel her burbling against my leg attempting to cry. (Which was very cute) He was just sat there waiting to catch her body, cradling her head when the mw came in and took over. Next push she was out.

DH was absolutely amazing even if he was trying to hold my bum cheeks together so I wouldn't push her out. (I don't think he meant to but that's what he did) He is the worlds biggest worrier but he stayed calm and didn't freak out on me. The mw put her between my legs under me and I thought my nose was going to drip on her. ?? DH then got us both situated on the couch sitting while she jabbed me in the leg and wait out the placenta. (I remember DD1s being much bigger but I was pretty high at the time so who knows. I thought this one was quite small.)

Managed all that with just a few grazes and a slight nick, she said it would be fine without stitches (which was a good job as she couldn't find any in her kit anyway) made me think I must have a wizards sleeve to just pop a baby out so fast. ?? Had some lovely chilled out cuddles on the couch before the onslaught of visitors arrived. Who all sat on the same bit of couch I'd delivered on! ?? (good job it was leather and DH gave it a quick wipe down with a wet wipe.) will need a though cleaning when I feel up to it.

Lauren82000 · 22/04/2015 05:50

Forgot to say I was 39+6.

LIG1979 · 22/04/2015 07:01

wow Lauren - that is quite a birth story.

skyra - glad it was all ok and your little one was allowed home. enjoy!

cinnamongreyhound · 23/04/2015 18:43

Dropped of my tio so marking my place again Smile

FiRaffe · 24/04/2015 04:34

Just remarking my place too

crazytyke · 25/04/2015 02:18

hi everyone

I haven't posted on the antenatal thread but now dd is here I've realised somewhere to post in the middle of the night would be lovely!

I've named changed. . not quite sure why!

DD is my 2nd child, DS is 2yr 1 month

Born on 23rd April by CS after failed induction. still in hospital at the moment but hopefully home tomorrow. mixed feelings about being glad to go home but nervous about dealing with my toddler jumping all over my sore body. does anyone have any tips on dealing with a toddler after a cesarean?!

nice to "meet" you all

FiRaffe · 25/04/2015 05:04

Hi crazytyke - we're mainly still on the antenatal thread supporting those still waiting for their babies. Feel free to pop in there as well, and I think a lot of us still check this thread too

Siarie · 25/04/2015 09:50

I don't have many tips, my body seems to have been designed to be sliced and diced. I'd say take your pain meds and try not to pickup your toddler. But that's not very practical. I think someone blew a stitch holding their toddler so if you have anyone that can come help for a few weeks that would be ideal.

TinyTear · 25/04/2015 10:19

My toddler is older (3y3m) so I told her I couldn't pick her up as I was poorly. Lots of sit down cuddles on the sofa, and holding hands when walking... But mostly bed and sofa time and lots of help from daddy