Hope L is ok, MrsG. DS had a urine infection when he was a baby and it was horrible for him.
Tonight we did controlled crying for the first time. It was horrible :(
She's taken to crying/screaming at bedtime anyway. She cries whether I hold her or put her in the cot. When I hold her she throws herself backwards until I put her down. She did it tonight and it's so hot (29C on my room) that she was getting really sweaty when I was holding her. So I put her in the cot.
She doesn't sleep well at night -- wakes every 2 hours at least and I have to feed her every time. And she should be sleeping through by now. When she has a good sleep she's so much happier.
So this evening, given that she was already crying (and cries herself to sleep every night whether I'm holding her or not, I went for it.
And it was AWFUL!
But she's asleep now (thunder's just started so not sure how long for!). It took about an hour and I almost cried. DH couldn't even be upstairs because it upset him too much. And halfway through I gave in and picked her up because I couldn't bear it, but she carried on screaming so I put her back down.
I'm dreading her waking in the night!