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December 2011 - the one where we do the Twist and Shout

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ifyourehoppyandyouknowit · 11/05/2014 22:27

New thread.

these babies are nearly two and a half

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Aethelfleda · 12/08/2014 18:16

Evening! Hope it settles down mopsy, and if not then ring your dr to chat about it. Like you say, niggles are one of those something or nothing things. Hope it's not a gallbladder ache, but if it is they wouldn't do much when you're pg anyway...

Nearly hol time (week inna cottage in the peaks). Need to pack but it's all too hectic! Might have a stab at it later...

TheOnlySeven · 12/08/2014 20:31

aethel holiday sounds lovely. Will you still be around? Otherwise you might miss our next thread arrival, I'm 35 weeks tomorrow, never made it to 36!

Awful day here, DS had one of his meltdowns and hit DH, all because I told him to get up and get his own drink off the table rather than bossing me around :(

mopsytop · 12/08/2014 20:36

Oooh seven ... miniseven4 might soon be here...

Where in peak district aethel? Looooovvvee the peak district!

Aethelfleda · 12/08/2014 21:09

Um.... Somewhere near Chesterfield... I don't actually know cos our mates booked it! Blush My geography is terrible!

There is some limited wi-fi and no phone signal apparently, so I'm not sure about the thread access. Will pack my new-baby-pompoms just in case!

DS is Shock asleep IN HIS BED..... That's after a day at nursery running round like a loon, with no nap and followed by fosh and chips. Bonus points for DH who put him up to bed and got him to stay in it!!!

mopsytop · 12/08/2014 21:13

If you're into that sort of thing, a visit to Crich tram museum is fun. You can take short trips on different trams. Fun for the little 'uns. Chatsworth is also always worth a visit-you don't need to pay to go in necessarily (although I quite like visiting the house); the petting zoo is free I think and lovely walking round about. I like Hardwick Hall also but littles might be a bit bored ...

mopsytop · 12/08/2014 21:15

Plus there's a fab farm shop near Chatsworth (meat etc from the estate), yummy cheeses, local beers etc. Nice for a holiday treat Smile

NorthernChinchilla · 12/08/2014 22:37

Oooh, my Nan (and therefore Dad) are from Chesterfield, spent loads of my childhood there. The town centre itself has improved so much, it's now really, really attractive with a lovely market. The signal is indeed ropey round there. One thing I think you'd love aethel is the Blue John Cavern, and the Speedwell one next door as it were, fantastic trips- have a look on t'internet. Bet you're now going to tell me you're all claustrophobic!

Glad to hear that you/DD are still hanging on in there seven, but can't believe she'll most likely make an appearance in the next week Sorry to hear about today though Sad; how is your DS getting on generally?

And I thought Andy was 'the lanky Fatima Whitbread lookalike' figgy Wink?!

Our house is still a tip, the list of jobs is enooooooooormous, and I'm pretty knackered. Gotta love that holiday relaxation... Did manage to get a wonderful video of DS dancing to the song at the end of Minions Despicable Me, complete with waving hands and wiggling bottom Grin!

And I saw you on the thread a few days ago PTP, but being away and travelling so much meant I missed catching up- how are you doing?

Aethelfleda · 14/08/2014 09:02

Hello? Thread? Are yoooou there?

mopsytop · 14/08/2014 09:08

Was just wondering where everyone was. have been having more sparks in my eyes. might be low bp but maybe as ring midwives triage to check. but don't want to be hypochondriac

mopsytop · 14/08/2014 12:19

Well decided maybe I should just ring midwife to be on safe side, went and saw her and BP is significantly higher than it was for my booking in appt. So have to go and have it checked again tomorrow. If still high will have to be referred to hospital for monitoring. Hope is normal tomorrow and is just a blip as if you're monitored (as I was last time and I was also on labetalol) you have to have a consultant led birth and I was hoping for the birthing pool this time around ...

mopsytop · 14/08/2014 12:20

And also monitoring is a pain, takes up so much time. I mean obvs if I need it I will happily go, I want my baby to be safe after all but I'm hoping the high bp just a blip.

TheOnlySeven · 14/08/2014 12:44

Hope BP was just a blip and is lower tomorrow mopsy.

ifyourehoppyandyouknowit · 14/08/2014 12:54

Hope BP is back to normal mopsy

seven whats this about it being baby time?! That can't be right, surely?!

Hope everyone else is OK. We're all alive, and plodding on with work and life in general. I joined a gym. I've even actually been to this gym, which is better than the last one I joined!

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Aethelfleda · 14/08/2014 12:57
Figster · 14/08/2014 13:47

Yes sorry nothing to report here was away with work Tuesday night drank too much stayed up too late got home yesterday evening shattered!!! Today been on my speed awareness course after getting caught in May ......really good really interesting going to desperately try to change my behaviours!!

Have had to buy ds some new clothes this week he's into 3-4 at sainsburys now they charge you more!!! I do really like their stuff though.

He's obsessed with postman pat at moment he has a van with pat Jess and Ben but he's holding out for a helicopter he's constantly telling us he needs a postman pat helicopter I think I've created a monster.

pluCaChange · 14/08/2014 16:26

Oh,mopsy, take care! And even if monitoring is a pain, just think of the chance of sitting down!

Seven, how are you? Looking forward to your "imminent release"? I'm not sure whetherto wish you delivery soon or not: you do soundvery uncomfortable! (unlike DrFunkes, with her little Braxton Hicks stealth boast Hmm...)

My brother was admitted to hospital this weekend with alcohol poisoning. This follows "incidents" at work dating back to the spring, and a spell in rehab this June.I really don't know what to do about it,or what not to do, either, as we're 3,000 miles apart, and are not very close. Not that we hate each other; we just don't know each other very well, given we haven't lived together since I was about 14/15 and he was 11/12. I've read endless advisories on not being able to change people if they don't want to change, warnings against codependency, etc... and those seem conveniently compatible with our history and the geographical distance, as well as compatible with not-caring and not-helping. Yet I can't sail past this window, either, as then we will never be any closer, and may even grow further apart. Sad DH and I are going to give DM some money to go out and spend time with him, but I'm not sure if that's "personal" enough to let him feel we (I) care. He's alone in the States, and I think that has been the case for longer than it's good to remember. He had two unsuccessful stints at boarding school when he was starting secondary (and our parentswere divorcing at home, so there wasn't much joy to be had there, either), and despite returning to our mother's to get through high school, the period probably left a big break in him somewhere. Sad

More cheerfully, congrats to mrfiggy on the job! Maybe figgyboy will buck up his potty training when he sees more of Daddy?

Fingers and legs crossed for everyone with the potty training. My little creature tells me about number 1s but not number 2, andthat was the worst sticking point when we first tried PT, and why we gave up. There's no window in the foreseeable future, as we're meant to be going away in late August, and thatwill include a 2-3 day absence of me and DH, while the DC stay with PILs, so she will be climbing the walls. Then whenwe come back, we still won't have moved,and there's no WAY I'm having her sneakily crapping in packing boxes! Grin

Oi, those are some really crap stress symptoms! I get stress spots as well (have got some at the moment, with DH's cousins staying - 4 KIDS,including 2 TEENAGERS Shock). I'm hoping to get some time to get back to the Oil Cleansing Method, to clear up my face, and that might help you, too? At the very worst, it makes you massage your face,but at best, it clears out your pores and moisturises your face (without the harsh effect of cleansers). I use the castor oil and avocado oil.

CBeebies presenters... Hmm.... I don't have a real thing for any of them,except flashes of something with Alex. Luckily we don't seemuch real-time TV now,with the iPLayer. Phew.

Rather a long post, and rambling, sorry. I'm typing in a Windows "notepad", which has no hard carriage returns, so I have no idea what I've written in most of my long paragraphs! In addition, the space bar is buggered on our "family" laptop, and my own "baby laptop" was fried by injudicious useof an adaptor inCanada Shock!

TheOnlySeven · 14/08/2014 18:49

Sorry to hear about your brother plu, no advice though I'm afraid other than I doubt there is much you can do for him being so far away.

I'm doing ok thanks. Loads of pelvic pressure the last couple of days so I don't think it'll be long now. I feel really guilty for wanting her to come now because I know I really shouldn't be wishing her to come this early, but then it's just what my body does so I guess it seems normal if that makes sense? Hard to believe that I could theoretically go overdue and have her at the start of October though!

pluCaChange · 14/08/2014 20:14

We'll stay tuned, seven!

NorthernChinchilla · 14/08/2014 20:25

Come on Octoberbaby! Wink

plu, that is awful news, I'm so sorry. Great that your Mum can go out; would you speak to your brother directly over the phone, or Skype when your Mum was there, just to have that contact with him? He would probably be a bit uncomfortable (as you would too?) and in his case embarrassed, so I'm not surprised you're not rushing into anything. Hope he's got good medical insurance.

Sounds fun figgy, and if I didn't congratulate your DH on the job before, then I am now. DP said the speed awareness course was really good too. He was so naffed off about getting caught- it was because we'd moved to a new area, didn't know the roads and thought he was doing the speed limit. It's ironic as he's the most careful driver I know.

Bugger about the BP mopsy, we should share, mine's that of a corpse. And it's not hypochondriac at all to get these things checked out, it's what the service is for. Broken nail, maybe not, but flashes in front of your eyes, definitely!

Nothing exciting here either, although DP and I have our only weekend at home together in the middle of 3-4 weekends either side taken up with friends, family and work. Feast or famine! Just ploughing through the remaining jobs that result from being away, such fun....

mopsytop · 14/08/2014 20:32

Sorry to hear about your brother plu Sad

pluCaChange · 14/08/2014 20:39

Thanks, all. I think his insurance is sort of running short: only enough for 2 weeks' rehab (he had a similar period in June). We (my mother & I hope to God he doesn't lose his job! The US isa most inhospitable place without insurance...)

pluCaChange · 14/08/2014 20:42

Thanks, all. I think his insurance is sort of running short: only enough for 2 weeks' rehab (he had a similar period in June). We (my mother & I hope to God he doesn't lose his job! The US isa most inhospitable place without insurance...)

OiMissus · 14/08/2014 21:30

What?! I've been here all the time. I was just snoozing.
Sorry to hear about your brother Plu.
Addiction is evil. Whilst he has to make the decisions to stop, and do all the work alone, he's going to need support. Just the knowledge that someone cares will make a difference. Good that your mum can go over. If you can Skype, do. Re establish his sense of family. Get the kids involved, perhaps. Maybe?!?
Ultimately, it's up to him though, and if he chooses not to make the effort battling his demons, there's absolutely nothing that you can do.
Seven - legs crossed mi dear! Not that you have any choice in the matter!
Mopsy - hope the bp comes back down. Fx for that water birth. Smile
Figgy - I too had a messy Tuesday night. And Monday. Shock
Oh god, Tuesday... I was in Germany. I was in the hotel restaurant with 3 of the guys. One of them (imagine Lurch, from the Addams family - or was it the other one? Only older. With a fused neck... Anyway, love him to bits in a colleague-y way, great and wise businessman, gsoh, great drinking partner and all that...) kept being a bit close. I ignored it. As we were talking he kept saying "I like you". I thought it was because of my superb business knowledge and understanding of our market - ie he agrees with my conversation. But then he said, I like your breasts. And I realised that my superb business knowledge was not being noticed at that precise time.
Ha ha ha ha! (He has no idea that me and DH have split up. He was telling me all the good things he had heard about DH. - he's a senior mngr in DH's line of business.)
I ignored it.
If he does it again I'll have to have a word. It's no problem. I don't think he has any intention of doing anything. He's a great guy, really. He was probably just being over-friendly, and complimentary, and inappropriate! He's probably about 53.
ShockShockShock
But hey, someone likes my breasts! It ain't all bad, is it? ShockShockShock Ugh!Confused

mopsytop · 14/08/2014 21:34

OMG Ou, sexual harassment much? How completely, unbelievably inappropriate is that?

mopsytop · 14/08/2014 21:37

There's complimentary and then there's taking about your colleague's breasts. Massive line crossed there.