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June mummies '05 thread 11 - the one with the Zoo!

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katzg · 02/07/2006 21:14

new thread for all

got excited because i have ordered my days out vouchers from tesco, £10 of clubcard vouchers = £40 of days out vouchers which can be used to gain entry to london zoo

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tribpot · 03/09/2006 20:18

No news from 2Happy today? Hope all well.

muma3 · 03/09/2006 21:02

me and dp have gone our seperate ways . after 3 weeks of begging him to spend time with me and talk our problems through he has left .

sorry i havent posted recently , i will be around just may not talk

dont know what to do now. i have told dd1 and she is very understanding. she says we will be fine on our own and says she will help me more (awww) feel like shit and have the biggest headache ever , just cooking something to eat as i havent eaten for god knows how long . feel ill . lost really

hope evry one is doing better then me

giddy1 · 03/09/2006 21:16

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tribpot · 03/09/2006 21:18

So sorry to hear your news, muma3. Let us know if we can do anything to help, take care xxx

giddy1 · 03/09/2006 21:24

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sfxmum · 03/09/2006 21:25

so sorry muma, talk and rant if/when you want to take care of yourself lots of hugs

2Happy · 03/09/2006 21:28

Oh muma, I'm so sorry. Big ((((hugs)))) to you.

((irrelevant, all things considered, but ds still crap and now developed a rash))

sfxmum · 03/09/2006 21:40

just something, 2happy i heard that apparently its common or at least not unusual for children to develop a mild form of one of the diseases they are being immunised for. guess your GP would be the next call. hope he recovers soon take care

sfxmum · 03/09/2006 21:49

sorry that came out wrong, did not mean to worry you could well be just a rash. dd used to just be out of sorts after her earlier jabs too.

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katzg · 04/09/2006 08:23

morning all - i take a few days off of mumsnet and you all chat for England!

Muma - so sorry to hear your news, please let us know if we can help at all.

UKi - Welcome back, wheer abouts in Oz are you? we're hoping to get down under next year.

Private parts in our house are simply called girl bits and boy bits.

Well good news on the job front, i got the new one at work and now have a further 2 year contract.

Well i'd better go DD2 has just come in sans pj top weraing sunglasses and jabbing 19 to the dozen in what sounds like japanese!

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sfxmum · 04/09/2006 09:06

good morning all

congratulations katz

am at home this morning while a suited up dh goes for a job interview, he is nervous because he wants it. i am trying to get him out the doors without baby porridge marks

off to work later
muma hope you ate and got some rest,guess your girls are off to school this week, take care
take care all

tribpot · 04/09/2006 10:12

2happy, I'd take ds to the GP if I were you, they won't mind. Hope little one is feeling better soon.

katz - great news, well done you!

eastyorksmum · 04/09/2006 14:53

hiya lets see if this works lol

eastyorksmum · 04/09/2006 15:15

Right in on my hubies lab top, Pc playing up with me grrrrr.

Anyway hi mums hugssss sorry i havnt been around lately, we went on haven hols near scarborough, and it rained all the time lol but took william swimming twice and there was a soft paly area for him to play in, say how do you walk on them balls things, i could nt do it.

We all came back with cold, hubbies just had it, and at the moment william has got avery bad cold, hes having vey high temps, and hes not sleeping well poor babe.

eastyorksmum · 04/09/2006 15:17

I can see all our babies are walking now, or nearly and if there chattering a much as william i think there all about the same.

Im so happy for all our expecting junies good luck and keep well, good luck with all the scans.

Muma3 im so sorry to hear about whats happened please belive we are all here to help you, and Giddy is alovely person and a great listener and where did the fat and ugly come from lady im just teling her off. It will take some time hunny but feel free to talk to us hugss.

I can see you all are well, and i think were all having sleeping probs at the moment, i know im tired all the time.

Anyway love to you all hopefully ill be around now, take care yorky xxxxxxx

2Happy · 04/09/2006 15:31

Gach. No sleep, ds cried when I dropped him off this morning (never done that before) and then two people off sick at work. But ds's rash is no worse, and he seems a bit more himself today. I dunno, every time I think I'm doing ok at this parenting lark something happens to remind me that I know nothing. Thank you all for your advice and support, it means a lot. I think I'll see what he's like the rest of today, maybe call HV if he's still poorly. Should go and put another coat of paint on the passageway, but suspect I'll end up cuddled up on the sofa in front of deal or no deal while ds sleeps!
EYM nice to 'see' you, sorry you all got colds, hope the hol wasn't too bad despite that and the rain!
Congrats on the work Katz!

lummox · 04/09/2006 16:51

good to hear that things are at least a little better 2happy. nightmare to be losing sleep at this stage - I am getting knackered enough without any of what you are going through. i would think an afternoon cuddled up on the sofa sounds about perfect.

congrats to katz!

hi to EYM - sorry that you've all been struck down, and i know what you mean about the chattering.

muma3 - sounds really tough. look after yourself.

sfxmum · 04/09/2006 18:42

hi there
i went to work for just over 2hrs today. my office is being painted, should have been done but got there and could not stay just picked up some stuff checked a few things. still need to make up for lost time so probably in at 7am tomorrow. and trhe bloooming server is down so maybe no MN to break monotony

anyway dh was offered the job, starts on the 14th day after i leave mine which means no week away, just a weekend,soon i hope.
its been 2yrs since a holiday, between buying the flat and having a baby just no time or money to spare.
oh well could be worst i just need to go see the sea

sfxmum · 04/09/2006 18:43

rude me meant to say sorry EYM you all got a nasty cold hope it clears up soon.

and little 2happy hope he recovers soon.now off tpo settle mine for the night

muma3 · 04/09/2006 19:08

he has got all his stuff now . as you all know i moved back in may and have a really close friend here .im the other side of town now and have been reeally relieved to have found a good mate.
well he has gone to stay at her house. we are all mutual friends , he friends with her fella etc. i feel like i have noone. have few family , well 1 aunt that is quite close but lives a good 40min drive . not that i drive . havent told many people . i have told a friend of mine from where i lived before and she feels really bad that she doesnt live close anymore. i have been with her today , we met in town and had a ood chat.

he said i have been through this before so i should of known where I wentwrong ??? I went wrong onfg i could of hit him . keeps telling me that he wants to sort things out but hasnt made any effort to coma and see me . said that he had been trying but all i have been shouting at him about is to spend time with me to sort our problems out . then he has the cheek to say that i havent tried . omfgggggggggg

asked him yesterday before he left that maybe we need a break , a week or so apart so he can decide what he wants . the first thing he said? i cant i have my parcels delivered here . my EXP is so caring NOT.....

IM SO ANGRY WITH HIM . i said i never want to see him again and that he is a selfish twat . im not even sure if i should of made any feffort at all , maybe i shouldnt of asked for his time . i was sure wasting mine , he doesnt want to be with me so.......

sfxmum · 04/09/2006 19:47

oh darling i am so sorry you are going through this now, especially with hurtful things being said.
i don't thinks its ever just one persons fault, its quite unfair to seggest that.
for now you have your lovely girls and you have yourself, you strike me as a strong positive woman who has has had a lot to deal with. you will get through this.

and yes feel free to bitch if you want to should you patch things up we will forget all about it and support you. hugs

sfxmum · 04/09/2006 19:49

suggest i meant and a few more spelling errors, less wine more spellcheck

Uki · 05/09/2006 08:11

Hi muma
so sorry to hear your news, it must be very hard, i hope you can find some resolutions to things.
Hi Katz
i used to live in syd, until 2 months ago , but have moved west past blue mountains to a small farm so ds can have some grass, trees and adventures- don't miss the city at all yet. would love to met u if you come.

anyone hear from Mrs W or know what happened to Pink???

bye for now

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katzg · 05/09/2006 08:58

Uki - i am looking at travel grants for work which could bring me to Sydney, which is where my brother is, but we would hopefully do a few days in the Blue mountains too, will keep you posted if i'm sucessful on the money front. but we great to meetup.

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tribpot · 05/09/2006 09:31

Ouch muma3 what a bloody nasty thing to say, and totally untrue as well. Just because you've had other relationships doesn't make you responsible for this one. Very unfair of him to go and move in with your friend, hope he isn't there long.

Uki, MrsW still lurks and posts occasionally. I'll let her know you were asking after her.

Fingers crossed for the travel grant, katz! Aussie meet-up anyone?!