fyi, some ideas. ive just come across it www.babyledweaning.com
wana smash something
DH had two days off and basically did nothing. he has been going on for weeks about cleaning kitchen floor, he hasn't done it STILL [it has been vacuumed just not mopped]
i've been asking him all week [he said he would do it on day off, but didn't] to do a deep clean of the bath rooms, and he hasn't done it. i do the sinks and toilet as best as i can, but i cant manage to do a a proper deep clean.
i then joke about getting a cleaner and he flips saying 'over my dead body'.the conv then goes like this
"i need help i cant do it myself"
"then dont'
but then u complain the house is a mess
ill do it
but you dont do it, thats the point, ive been waiting weeks for you to do xyz, and you always say on your next day off.
ARGH, IM SO ANGRY AT HIM he doesn't give a shit, and puts off everything. there is a stack of paper on his side of bed which has been there for 6 months [to be cleared on his nxt day off]. i once tried to clear out a bag of his papers [only because his shit was getting pilled up in bags taking up cupboard space i needed... i threaten to do this for a year before i actually did it]. receipts for milk from three years ago, bday card from x, unopened bank statements/credit cards etc just some of my finds]
his whole put it off attitude is winding me up i end up doing EVERYTHING and im saying i cant cope and he thinks that 'tough' is an ok answer.
sorry to offload, just he has upset me so much today. thankfully he has gone on a night shift, which means i can avoid him.
im going to eat a packet of jammie dodgers