Yes, HAPPY BIRTHDAY UKIBOY! (Although I guess technically it's past his bed time now!)
I think ds is trying to put me into an early grave. A late nap yesterday afternoon led to a late put-down but the little monkey was awake at 5:30 this morning and refused to go to sleep. I have my appraisal this afternoon - fortunately it's more on the 'objective setting' end of the spectrum than evaluating my performance as I will probably be asleep under the table.
sfx, hope you can make contact with some of your sister's friends. It does sound like she needs help from someone not emotionally involved.
Right, now I have to persuade the small bird who just nearly frightened me to death in the kitchen that he should exit via the door I've opened for him rather than by repeatedly flying into the window. Bloody wildlife!