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November 2012 - GTbaby is back! Hooray hooray!

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StuntNun · 01/04/2013 17:48

And she only missed 10,000 posts!

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fruitpastilles · 04/04/2013 22:26

Awe kyz bless him! I think if I left my dp to do bedtime S would just not be put to bed! He's only changed 1 nappy since she's been born and that's only because I made him, so I could say he's done 1!
I left her with him once to go on my cousins hen do, it was an afternoon and night thing, I had to go home in between to give her her last bottle and put her to bed.

ChasingDaisy · 04/04/2013 22:33

Less than three hours for first feed Sad After almost a week of 5/6 hour stretches I really believed we were actually getting somewhere. Stupid fucking me. I'm so disappointed I'm actually crying and I feel really really sick, so O may be about to find out what it is like to br puked on.

TryingtobelessChunkyChick · 04/04/2013 22:57

chasing I had 6 nights of sleeping through from A - bed at 8/9, dream feed at 11/12, waking at 6/7. Then all of a sudden, back to waking at 4.30/5.30 for a feed. It's pants. Don't be disappointed, he'll get there in the end, but its hard at the mo with everything going on, let alone when it feels like you're going backwards. It too shall pass.

CharleeWarlee · 04/04/2013 22:59

Sad I cant keep up with you all!

My house is a shit tip also - drink stains all down the doors, skirting boards and milk drops all over kitchen floor. Along with fanta flavoured carpet courtesy of DD1 this morning....

Just sat down for the day, have 2 mins til bedtime ready for a 9am start with munchkins! x

LuisGarcia · 04/04/2013 23:07

I've never had anyone affectionately shit on my door before. I don't know quite how to respond. Is it more polite to say thank you or to pee on your lawn?

ChasingDaisy · 04/04/2013 23:08

He just threw one of O's bottles at my head.

LuisGarcia · 04/04/2013 23:12

Oh no. Oh Chasing. I'm so sorry.

TryingtobelessChunkyChick · 04/04/2013 23:12

Oh god chasing.:(
I know its irrelevant given your circumstance, but what was the context? Did he just decide to do it? What a twat.

TheDetective · 04/04/2013 23:13

I'm here chasing x

Talk to me. Let me know you are okay.

Please get him out. If you can't ring the police and you want to post a message here and I'll do it.

TryingtobelessChunkyChick · 04/04/2013 23:14

I think peeing on the lawn is the polite response to vomit. If shit is being exchanged, a polite thank you note & a steaming turd is acceptable...

TryingtobelessChunkyChick · 04/04/2013 23:15

^for Luis BTW. Although a steaming turd might have uses for Chasing.

kirrinIsland · 04/04/2013 23:23

I actually laughed out loud at pass's muck spreader Grin and at luis's response.

evil ((hugs)) Hope you're feeling ok.
Ouch pennie hope your sill and the baby are ok. Certainly makes me grateful for a straight forward birth hearing stories like that :(

chasing we've had a few days of better sleep before reverting back to more wakings too. It is so horrendously shit frustrating. But they've done it before so they will do it again hopefully I have found that dramatically lowering my expectations has helped. I assume I will be woken hourly so anything better is an added bonus! This has resulted in me dreading night time but needs must at the moment.

N had her BCG - wasn't too bad, she only cried a little bit. She slept for 2 hours this afternoon, which is good for her but she has been wide awake all evening. A bottle of ebm seems to have knocked her out though, so we'll see how long that lasts.

kirrinIsland · 04/04/2013 23:25

Cross post chasing Are you ok? Is he still there?

Kyzordz · 04/04/2013 23:26

chasing let us know you're ok love. He's a cunt. You deserve so much more. Let det ring police if you need her to x

GTbaby · 04/04/2013 23:26

Chasing are you ok? I only know parts of your history. Really hope all is well. Rather as well as they can be.

TheDetective · 04/04/2013 23:27

I'm still here. X

ChasingDaisy · 04/04/2013 23:28

I'm ok. O was crying and I couldn't settle him back to sleep. He came in to help, said he would take O into the living room, I said not to. He threw full bottle of milk at my face. He's in living room, I'm in bedroom trying to settle O. No police, can't do that again.

TheDetective · 04/04/2013 23:30

:( fucking hell. What an absolute cunt.

You really really need to get out.

TheDetective · 04/04/2013 23:32

I understand about not wanting the police. I do more than you will ever know.

It makes me so angry that we are villified for ringing the police. God o can feel my piss boiling.

You need to plan quickly. It's been what? 2 weeks?

ChasingDaisy · 04/04/2013 23:35

2 weeks tomorrow. He won't be getting back into the flat when he leaves for work tomorrow.

fruitpastilles · 04/04/2013 23:43

Oh my god! Hugs chasing, hope you are ok! What a twat.
Stay safe xxx

TheDetective · 04/04/2013 23:46

I'm worried about you. Arghhhhh.

Damn being so far away fuck you Switzerland'

LuisGarcia · 04/04/2013 23:48

Is there anything we can do to help?

TryingtobelessChunkyChick · 04/04/2013 23:51

Good plan for tomorrow chasing but if you feel more threatened, get O & leave. Just go. Material stuff is replaceable. Stay in a travelodge or something. But leave.

ChasingDaisy · 04/04/2013 23:59

Honestly I'm ok. O is sleeping on me tonight. I need to really face up to life alone now. It's just too big to contemplate.

I won't be letting him back in tomorrow, if he tries to get in I will call the police but it is a very secure building and my neighbour knows what happened w
so they won't let him in.