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November 2012 - GTbaby is back! Hooray hooray!

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StuntNun · 01/04/2013 17:48

And she only missed 10,000 posts!

Previous thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/postnatal_clubs/1717592-November-2012-Were-ready-for-Spring-any-time-now-please

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StuntNun · 05/04/2013 00:02

Did he throw the bottle at you or throw the milk over you? Either way that's a very strange thing to do. Please stay safe. Is there any way you can get away from the flat? I would be worried about him getting in and being angry at you for locking him out.

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ChasingDaisy · 05/04/2013 00:03

The actual bottle stunt. Got me just above the eye. He won't be able to get into the building and my front door has four locks on it. Any sign of him trying to get in and I will call the police. He knows this too.

ChasingDaisy · 05/04/2013 00:18

Going to attempt sleep now.

LuisGarcia · 05/04/2013 00:34

I am throwing affectionate shit at your door.

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StuntNun · 05/04/2013 00:50

That's shit Chasing, he's an arsehole yeah I'm sure you already noticed that.

When is Horsey due back from France?

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LuisGarcia · 05/04/2013 01:13

Apropos of nothing

He always says it won't happen again and it always does.

Change the locks while he's out. Leave asap.

YellowWellies · 05/04/2013 01:31

Chasing sending quiche power to you! Don't view this as the start of your life alone - that's what he wants you to think. It's the first day of the rest of your life. And the biggest barrier to you having a happy loving relationship will be leaving! Seriously a neighbour of mine murdered his wife last month and then killed himself - he left it to their five year old to discover her Mum's body. Anyone who commits DV is scum. Time to go babe.

After two nights of shit sleep due to illness I'm wide awake - excited about tomorrow I guess - the bear has been asleep since 8.40. I'm such a Muppet Envy

TheDetective · 05/04/2013 01:33

Oh fuck fuckity fuck. O woke. DP did not despite baby monitor next to his fucking ear went in. Pissed off cry. Turns out the nappy which has been on just 4 pissing hours has leaked. All though clothes swaddle comfort blanket and cot. It was on properly, bits pointing correctly and was not full.

Not a happy bunny. DP had to be dragged up to strip cot which he saw no need to as ' it's not too bad' even though it was plus it would be left for 5 days after today full change, feed offered and 3oz reluctantly taken.

Now wide awake, hiccuping and twatting both him and me in the face with his imaginary orchestra.

To add insult to injury DP has sweated beyond what you could ever imagine on my pillow. Cunt. No one messes with my pillow. It's getting thrown out. Angry

Looks like a good night in store for me then. DP wouldn't make cot back up and there is no point putting him in without a swaddle. :(

TheDetective · 05/04/2013 01:36

YW it's not tomorrow. It's today!!! Grin

It was 5 years ago yesterday (4th) that I moved in to this, my first bought home. And moved to this town. Feeling nostalgic. It's been a fast 5 years!

PurplePidjin · 05/04/2013 01:41

Clarella caffeine means colic here. I can have caramac or white chocolate

Daisies you can't legally change the locks. You can take a photo and call 101. You need this logged so that when he's being smarmy later on, he's refused all but supervised contact. Violence to mum is classed as emotional abuse of the child, and how do you know he won't go for O next time?

LuisGarcia · 05/04/2013 01:47

PP We're still on for later, right? Ferry we're aiming for lands at 10:30.

TheDetective · 05/04/2013 01:55

Thank fuck for giant blankets. O swaddled. And settled. Hmmmm. How long for?!

LuisGarcia · 05/04/2013 01:57

6 Hours, minimum. I guarantee it. Go to sleep

TheDetective · 05/04/2013 02:01

Haha! Wishful thinking! I'm up in 4!

LuisGarcia · 05/04/2013 02:03

No, 6. Blame me if I'm wrong, but go.

PurplePidjin · 05/04/2013 02:10

Stil on, Luis, I'll aim to be early then :o

LuisGarcia · 05/04/2013 02:15

No no no don't be early! I meant don't be mad if we land at 11:15 instead!!

PurplePidjin · 05/04/2013 02:25

After today's drama i need to get him out and about!

Izzybuzzybuzzybees · 05/04/2013 02:40

:( that is all

Sophiathesnowfairy · 05/04/2013 02:58
Sad

What the fuck am I doing here on the graveyard shift. Haven't been here for about 10 weeks.

My mummy translator says pain. Cold or teeth. Judging by snot and drivel and current state of rest family.

Have just gone straight in for kill with Calpol. Sleeping in arms. Do it go for transfer? Hmm

Lily311 · 05/04/2013 03:04

Oh no Chasing, i am so sorry. If you need to get out, you are welcome here,xx

First feed here, better than last night. So far.

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StuntNun · 05/04/2013 03:17

Skipped the dream feed and J has gone until now for his first feed of the night. Why oh why couldn't I sleep I was still wideawake at 1 a.m. Aaaargh! I'm going to be wrecked tomorrow.

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GTbaby · 05/04/2013 04:33

Oh oh wide awake. Just fed LO. He knocked out as soon as the bottle finished...After giving me the cutest smile Grin

Brain hurts. DH now is ill with tummy bug I had yesterday. But obviously is more ill then I was n can't move. Wink I shouldn't complain. Least he is still going to work.

Right. Must try n sleep.

Kyzordz · 05/04/2013 04:45

LO woke coughing. Is now giggling fuck knows what at and grinning like a fool at me when

Kyzordz · 05/04/2013 04:47

Oops!

... When I look at him. So I am going to sleep and hoping he follows suit. Shit night here but due to abcess, not LO.