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November 2012 - all the babies have arrived

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StuntNun · 12/12/2012 23:16

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ChunkyTurkeywiththetrimmings · 20/12/2012 16:27

Thanks VQ.

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PetiteRaleuse · 20/12/2012 16:55

Lane, I believe reflux startsto steadily improvefrom around 3 months and by 6 months and at weaning time most babies have it sussed.

YellowWellies · 20/12/2012 16:57

Thanks for that PR hopefully things progress quickly!

pikz · 20/12/2012 17:21

Oh no bryozoan. What does it do? You ok?

PetiteRaleuse · 20/12/2012 17:55

Severe cases go on longer, maybe up to a year or 18 months, but I think you'll see progress each month.

Bryzoan · 20/12/2012 18:13

Thanks all. The harness keeps his hips in the optimal position for development (knees out to the sides) he has to wear it for 6 weeks full time, then gradually less until night time only from 11 weeks, off at 20 weeks. It stands a 95% chance of success.

I am sad, but pleased it has been caught early as the harness isn't that bad (certainly compared to what dd went through) and prognosis is good when caught early. Of 54 babies in clinic today 3 had to have harnesses fitted despite having passed thr clicky hips physical check (though all were referred because of risk factirs - breech / twins
/ family history).

Interestingly being prem (which dd was) is also a risk factor but they don't scan for that. If I could go back in time but keep the knowledge I have now I would have asked for an ultrasound then, and definitely raised flags about her asymmetric leg length and creases. It us likely she had it from birth but things like our sling and exersaucer will have
made it worse. Also if I had known the signs we could have got treatment earlier - health visitor didn't spot it, and refused my request
for physio (which would have picked it up) when she wasn't weight
bearing at 1.

I just think that the physical checks aren't adequate for borderline cases and parental knowledge is so important - as not all hvs and even gps have sufficient knowledge and awareness.

Sorry - hip rant over. Hope all those with tummy trouble are doing ok. G had a little earlier in the week and so I've cut down dairy as an experiment and he is more settled and bringing back fewer feeds which is good news. Haven't totally relinquished emergency chocolate though - needed it today!

ShellyBobbs · 20/12/2012 18:18

Bryzoan What a shame, fingers crossed it will do the trick x

Builders took 6 hours in total, but did clean up :)

sweetpea1112 · 20/12/2012 18:25

Bry sorry to hear about your little one. You sound as though you are very clued up though and hopefully it has been picked up early enough to prevent long term problems.

I was actually born with clicky hips but it waa thought to be due to my breech/forceps birth so not hereditary. After reading your story though I will be speaking to my GP about it in a bit more detail at my 6 week check.

Bryzoan · 20/12/2012 18:52

Sweetpea, do. Your little one really should have a 6 wk ultrasound according to guidelines, even though in all likelihood all will be fine. If you meet any resistance let me know and I'll dig out the link.

glendathegoodwitch · 20/12/2012 19:17

Evening ladies

bryzoan hope the harness works quickly xx

We went to lakeside today which was really quiet surprisingly!! Got loads of bits for the kids including a Raa Raa lion for Dottie (we sing the song when she goes nuts for food lol) we also had up sushi for lunch - yum and Dottie was a star only waking up for a feed when we got back to the car!!!
She's slept loads today do I bet I'm gonna have a crap night!!!

ValiumQueen · 20/12/2012 19:48

J is not a happy boy post jags. Nurse said no calpol for 6 hours as it can affect absorption or something. No temp but clearly in pain. In bed with tit in mouth waking intermittently to scream. Anyone elses baby not been ok after jags?

ChunkyTurkeywiththetrimmings · 20/12/2012 19:55

Shelley your post on the other thread is something I find epitomises life with a newborn &/or kids, you never get to go when you want without having to endure them crying constantly which takes all the fun out of it or when you do, you have an audience.

Something that really pisses me off with my DH however unreasonably but I shan't be asking anyone on AIBU is that he'll come in from work, say something like "I need a poo, haven't had one today" then disappear upstairs for 20mins!! hello!! Welcome to my world!!! Hmm

Think its growth spurt hell in the Chunky household. A is currently admonishing my 'good' non-mastitis boob very vocally & with flailing arms despite having exhausted my bad boob a mere hour or so ago (with the start of this feed on it too). I have spent about 4hrs feeding today & its only 8pm. I usually feed for maybe 3hrs in 24hrs... Good job I've done my Xmas shopping!! Hmm

KissysUnderTheMisteltoe · 20/12/2012 20:05

Haha chunky my DP does exactly the same thing and it really annoys me, why do men take so long over having a poo?!

NervousReindeer · 20/12/2012 20:29

Sorry to hear that bryzone enjoy your chocolate tonight xx

We're starting to leave the hellish growth spurt behind thank god, I have been so close to giving up at times and had a bit of a cry one night because I was shattered and fed up but hopefully were through it. I've looked at hospital grade pumps anyone know which is best to go for? I found 1 website that was £45 to rent for 2 weeks trial then £45 per month after that does anyone know if that's a good offer? Ill hopefully get one after Christmas to try when ill have more time to pump even though I wanted good stores for Christmas, think I have about 15iz in the freezer so will give me a couple of hours. LO has been awake since about half 12 today but had 1-2 20mon or so cat naps, ass jus nodding off now so hoping that's my que to go to bed

Hope all the poorly and reflux babies have had better days today and mummies aren't stressed

Bryzoan · 20/12/2012 21:08

Vq - dd was ill after the first jabs - we delayed her second lot a bit to help her build more strength to cope. It was crap but she was ok in the end...

Nervous - I think that was about what I paid - I hired direct from medala - it was a great service and the pump was awesome. We would never have established bf without it.

Bryzoan · 20/12/2012 21:21

Vq - with dd we were told to give calpol straight away... How strange. Hope he feels better soon.

ValiumQueen · 20/12/2012 21:36

bryzoan thank you. How was she ill? He has just woken for a feed and so far so good. No temp. No redness on legs. Done a huge poo. No crying yet. And also, I am curious about your name? What does it mean if anything?

YellowWellies · 20/12/2012 21:46

Nervous I loved my ameda hospital pump. A green one? Not sure of the name. Was amazing. Our hospital lent them out for free - maybe check with your HV?

VQ Jonas was batshit after his jags - wailing, inconsolable, then slept really well for most of the night when we finally gave him calpol. He's absolutely fine today (other than doing 2 poos when he's not due one until tomorrow).

Bryzoan · 20/12/2012 21:48

Vq - she was in pain, then had a high temp and flu like symptoms - lasted about 10 days. Sounds like things are better for you - phew!

The name came from my scuba diving days. Bryzoans are tiny animals that live in communities that look much like seaweed. I was always particularly enamoured with them as effectively a whole city of them lives on an area of what looks like seaweed and is the size of your fingernail.

Evilwater · 20/12/2012 21:52

vq I was told to give calpol when LO had a temp of 38. He was very grumpy all day after the jabs.

For the lady that was interested in buying a medula, I'm selling mine on eBay in a few days.

Please LO go to sleep! Does bed time get better?? It generally takes an hour for LO to settle for the night. He is just making grumpy noises now, please sleep! I need to drive tomorrow. I have to get the cats and dogs presents.
Any tips for settling them?
Evil

Bryzoan · 20/12/2012 21:53

This was the one I hired. Same as we had in our hosp but I had to pay for hire and while hosp gave me details I had to arrange it independently
www.medela.com/UK/en/breastfeeding/products/pumping/symphony-rental.html

horseylady · 20/12/2012 22:16

Bloody fields flooded :( there was a stream running through the field where there shouldn't be on :( and a mini waterfall. The 6 ft deep brook was nearly over too. All animals safely inside. Ds was not that bothered about them.

Went to baby cinema today!! Then been out for a curry!! Ds was very good, spent most of the time wide awake and wriggling. Everyday he does more moving- he's so strong!! We also had some proper full on big massive smiles. It made me late lol as we were having so much fun!!

Think we've come through the growth spurt. Feeding has calmed right down again and he's not eating as huge amounts.

sweetpea1112 · 20/12/2012 22:27

Evening all, checking in for the night shift.

Horsey sounds like you had a lovely day bar the flooding. O is younger than your little one but he is starting to become more fun now too! He has had a few awake periods today and he loves staring at your face, making noises and contorting his face into some wonderful expressions. Have almost convinced ourselves that he smiles at us, but at 22 days old 'tis unlikely Grin

Now trying to settle him for the night. We don't have a bedtime routine as such but he stays in the living room with us until 10 when I will take him to bed with me, give him a feed and a nappy change & attempt to settle to sleep before transferring to moses basket. All done in darkness with low voices & little eye contact. Am thinking of dimming the living room lights at 9pm to signal the transition to night time & introducing a bedtime story as well. Bath wont become a part of the routine at the moment as he is only having one once a week. Any other tips to help encourage night time sleeping and settling would be very much welcome Smile

Oopsy have rambled....

sweetpea1112 · 20/12/2012 22:28