Oh ninja, you poor poppet. Having had it with DD I am wincing for you... I did find the abx helped within 24 hours so i am Brooking No Argument its miles better tomorrow. You can't be putting up with it any longer than that. The end. But well done you that she's over her birth weight already.
Bonjour hawthers, 
for surviving 9 hours in the car, and hopefully it'll warm up pronto. And if not, there's always the vino.
too, there is no doubt M will be the brighter part, hope its ok. I'm so glad you didn't come, both babies have hand foot and mouth, B definitely, he's blisters on fingers and his tongue, they're both utterly, utterly miserable. S is less obviously HF&M, in fact he's been so hideously inconsolable I nearly took him to a&e/ out of hours doctor last night at 1am. He saw the gp today, just ? viral, ? HF&M. All three ill is just awful, tears all round at mine, leaving a hysterical baby is wrong but unavoidable with two people and three Lo's. Thank goodness I'm immune and well but totally exhausted and a bit of a mess
biscuits I'd do whichever you think right. I wouldnt worry about same as ds1, by the time they're old enough to question that they're old enough to understand you had a different option in your new church and wanted to celebrate his birth, and sort out his godparents just like his brother but chose this way for him.
Crap, B had finally gone to sleep but now both up and distressed. Best go
Brooking all round for a pain free journey and lovely holiday for the jaggy family , speedy recovery for ninja and biscuits , sun for hawthers, and a bearable day for too and family at the funeral. And for my poor babies and DD to feel better soon.