thanks everyone.
pebble its not that i feel guilty or anyone makes me feel guilty, its just that i feel im not 'in' with the group. iyswim. but i understsnd what you mean. x
had a quick skim- the most memorable being mrs poo taster! euw yuk! 
at p talking to door knobs. eva can shout talk so loud she drowns the whole room out, including the tv.
scheh can i ask why you want to drop the morning feed and reduce milk? i was always under the impression that milk should still be given at a high amount until 12 months.
i still give twins a morning milk, it can be invaluable when they can hold the bottle themselves and you can get on with getting dressed, making breakfasts etc. i leave mine in their cots while they drink it.
also, i wouldnt personally reduce milk. if i had been making eva a 8oz bottle and she had started to only drink 6oz, then i would go with that, but i wouldnt try to reduce it, if she can still drink 8oz iyswim.
i blame blw for this. i think its becoming more and more like an internalised mantra that babies are mini adults and can eat what we eat. i give eva a cheese sandwich and then neurotically looked up the salt content.
1 piece of bread and 1 diary lee triangle has nearly 3/4's of her daily salt intake- and i put butter on too. from 7-12 months their only supposed to have 1gram. you are all worrying me with your curries chillies stock cubes please stop 