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KiwiPanda · 16/04/2012 09:20

Um sorry about rubbish title Confused

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Rubena · 05/07/2012 22:27

Beans prob nothing from 1 pill. Given your bedroom antics, I'd be more worried about potential numero 3 if not planning on it!

Rubena · 05/07/2012 22:30

I'm convinced my app was not accurate as I'm seriously unfit and I nearly keeled over. Would never be even remotely close to one of you lot running! Will try again with the Endo one tomorrow (maybe)Hmm

SummerLightning · 05/07/2012 22:34

I am by far the fastest I've ever been at running at the mo though beans! I would have thought no harm from one pill either. I found my monsters in the bathroom with the calpol pretending to feed each other calpol! I nearly had a heart attack but they hadn't got it ope.

KiwiPanda · 06/07/2012 08:23

Vag re your London trip I can do pretty much any day in daytime at all though afternoons generally better. Evenings impossible cos DH will be Olympicing 24/7 Sad

I want to try and do a sub -45 10k now. Need to enter some more races as not having one (apart from half marathon which seems ages away) makes me lose focus a bit. Would quite like to see what my 5k time is as I haven't really done a timed one for years.

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SummerLightning · 06/07/2012 09:14

When is your half Kiwi? Are you hoping for a pb? My friend is trying to get me to do another tri. I have signed up for a downhill mountain bike racing weekend and am going on mountain biking holiday for a whole week - EEK -admittedly bought me by DH so think I might be pushing my brownie points somewhat

KiwiPanda · 06/07/2012 09:56

SL even if I walked the entire thing backwards it'll be a PB as I've never done one before (bonus!) but I'm hoping to do it in about 1 hr 40/ 1 hr 45. It's in early October, actually the day before I go back to work (will keep me fretting about something different, anyway...!)

I thought about getting back into tris but running is so easy with time - you can just go from front door and not have to faff around with getting changed/ going to pool/ all that jazz. Also I think I'd only do it if I thought I could beat my Olympic triathlon PB but realistically that would require a lot of swim and bike training as I've hardly done either for years.

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VagolaJahooli · 06/07/2012 10:19

Kiwi, it's not a 10km but there is an 8km race in Amsterdam in October if you fancy doing a sub 36 min 8km. A whole bunch of my girlfriends and I have signed up for it as it is a good distance for them as beginners but wanting to get properly fit. Meaning, most people can get up and do a 5km but to do an 8km you have to train a bit.

Beans not sure about the pill, I think as it's a small amount of hormone and she's a girl anyway it probably isn't a problem, but can i say to everyone, if your kids do take something they shouldn't always call your GP or NHS direct as it's better to be sure. I think in this case it is fine Beans and I'm not smacking yoir wrist, ESP as your not sure if she took it, but if you knew she took it it is better to contact someone for advice.

LadyThompson · 06/07/2012 14:19

Ooh, what a lot of lovely posts. I haven?t been reading for a few days. How can it be Friday again?

Urbs ? DD1 is better thanks (well, from that particular vom virus anyway). She has another awful cough now though and DD2 has a cold. We?ve never had such a bad run with viruses. It?s lovely that you are so positive about work. It?s good when it all works out. I?ve been watching ancient (1986) BBC classic drama, Edge of Darkness ? lots of political intrigue. I thought about you (and my dear pal in the Foreign Office)

Kayz ? So glad it?s all settled down with R?s feeding, good for you. Hope DH gets home asap. Lovely birth story. Can?t believe we have such a long wait until our next one......

Earlier in the week, I decided definitively that I wouldn?t be having another kid. Then promptly changed my mind yesterday Grin Expect this to pattern to continue until my self-imposed deadline at the end of the year.

Vag ? we made £227 profit on the Pimms and cakes. Not bad but not brilliant. I will be available to meet up from 31st July onwards - so ho?ping to see you! When does DD1 break up from school

To which end, Invis, when are you in Brussels? I am there from 26-29 July, do we coincide?

Indith ? do you feel better since your appt? I am pretty sure Spot used those rods so might be worth contacting her (unless you are lurking, Spot)

Rubes ? so sorry but totally unsurprised your poor DH is being flayed into the ground. You must both be shattered (one person parenting takes its toll, I know). Truth is, you both need a proper hol. Looking forward to catching up next week.

KP ? your sister sounds unreasonable on both points. Erm, I can quite see why you don?t feel like making the first move. I know your parents don?t want to intercede but do you think your Mum might say something to her in time? About both things? I am sure there?s a way to do it tactfully. Oh, and your DD1?s report thing was very sweet. How lovely to hear that.

I must say, my two are my little pals. I was thinking this particularly when I took them away. Sure, they can be exasperating sometimes but I take such pleasure in their company and that?s why it?s tempting to have another. Two v different personalities, though.

Beans, thanks for asking about Dad. I feel sad every day, though it is a manageable sadness. Like an ache, really. And I wish I?d seen him more, stuff like that. And I know I will have those feelings forever, but losing precious people is a horrible, inevitable part of life for all of us and the only positive things to say about that is that I think other people?s love stays with us forever. Also it?s a reminder to live better. How are you settling into your new area now? And did your DH like the local husbands?

I am out on my monthly ?First Friday Fling? (night in the pub) with local mothers tonight. It?s my pre-school gang plus some Class 1 mothers, who I don?t know very well. I get invited for coffee and things quite a bit and DD1 has started going on playdates and things ? all very nice. But sometimes (often) I feel too busy for coffee but it?s hard to say no.

Hey, all you runners, I am still only doing my country walking. But it?s up hill and down dale and with a buggy, and I do 2 x 6 miles a week but we walk fast. And 6 miles is nearly 10 km so that?s pushing 20kn a week! And I LOVE it.

Fifty Shades ? nah, can?t face it. Should I fancy a bit of titillation, I won?t be looking there. I?m not sniffy about racy reads or potboilers ? I read the Twilight books, thought they were daft but enjoyable ? but put The Da Vinci Code down very fast as the writing made me want to weep and there was no compensation in other areas (as I felt there was with Twilight). I read this critique about why 50 Shades is a pile of crud ? so no need to read the book now. DP is reading it Hmm He quite likes an occasional bit of badly written semi-erotic literature.

JB ? How are you? Actually there?s no follow up with DD1 but she is still a dreadful eater. But we were given all the current thinking on tools and tricks to help the situation and it was made clear we are in it for the long haul. No pressure to eat food but to sniff/touch/taste tiny amounts is good, to break down barriers. It makes me sad when people force kids to eat. I know it?s frustrating when kids have this problem but forcing/shaming is just going to lead to an EVEN more disordered relationship with food - at the least. However, DD1 eats fruit and veggies (veg has never been a prob except she will usually only eat it raw ? apart from chips and peas), wholemeal bread, Cheerios, nuts, eggs and some Quorn. As well as drinking loads of milk and eating yoghurts. It?s really not so bad. But no ?square meals? and no meat/fish/rice/pasta etc. Sorry ? didn?t mean to rant there! I?m glad I didn?t see that thread. I?d have got myself in all sorts of trouble.

Hey ? I forgot ? we took both DDs to the pictures for the first time ever on Sunday! To see Ice Age 4! (That was the only kid film. It was passable. I don?t think I?ve seen ANYTHING ?4? before). DD1 was good as gold but DD2 was getting a bit restless past the hour mark.

DB ? that sounds positive about DS. Glad you stuck up for him ? his pre-school staff sound a bit fusspotty. Sharing is hard to learn and some take longer ? so what, that means nothing!

ZJ ? how was the wedding?

Welcome back, Summer! Gosh, that sounds rather good about DH?s plans. I want a house husband. Get you, with your hard training! I bet you have a six pack ?n? all sorts.

Has anyone been watching that Gordon Ramsay thing about him teaching prisoners to cook? I can?t stand the bloke, but I?ve been enjoying it.

In other news ? the car has packed up today again, sounds terminal. Big bummer. I am probably starting Italian lessons in Sept ? no burning desire to learn that language, in fact I?d rather do Spanish or improve my French, but that?s what?s being offered and it?s in the village so I am going for it.

It is hammering down here. I need to get the bus into town and I had promised the girls a trip to the library. This weather is a massive bore.

Right ? waaaaaay behind today, must go! Have a lovely weekend, ladies.

LadyThompson · 06/07/2012 14:28

And here's the link to the 50 annoying things about Fifty Shades so you don't have to read the book: here

KiwiPanda · 06/07/2012 15:17

LadyT that blog is brilliant. I am snorting into my cuppa reading it now. DD2 is giving me exceedingly baffled looks in the way only an 8 month old can.

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DeidreBarlow · 06/07/2012 16:00

Hello everyone!

Kiwi I really enjoyed your running tips . You lot are so much faster than me! My 5K PB is about 28 mins, but it left me for dead! I just love running, I try to push myself but for me its just about getting out there really and helping me lose weight/tone up. But I do think if I joined a running club it would encourage me to go faster/further.

Lady Yes we are watching the GR program. DH makes me what with it being his line of work Grin. We both quite like GR, but his attitude in this irritates the pants off me! But then I am watching it with DH ranting in my ear about procedures/rules etc.

I have a super busy weekend, and I feel like I am coming down with something. We have a christening/vow renewal & reception tomorrow. Then another christening party on Sunday. My throat is hurting and I've had a headache all day.

Oh and I lost another 2lb this week! That is despite me drinking shed loads of wine/vodka/tequila/jagerbombs (how old am I 15??Hmm) at a wedding last weekend. And a curry Monday night! Hoorah

DeidreBarlow · 06/07/2012 16:03

Oh LadyT That blog is brilliant! I may share it on FB with my 50 shades obsessed friends!!

VagolaJahooli · 06/07/2012 16:23

Thank yiu so much for that link Lady, I am literally in tears reading it. I'm now happy the book exists, as this lady's blog about it is definitely life enhancing.

Not a bad return on the pimms & cake. We once ran a sausage sizzle beside the London marathon for the NSPCC, we broke even. May have been because we asked for a donation rather than setting a price.

Come on Murray!

McKayz · 06/07/2012 16:29

LadyT that blog is brilliant!!

LadyThompson · 06/07/2012 16:33

I am glad you both liked the blog Grin I feel like I know what everyone's going on about now, and at the same time it confirmed all my worst suspicions...

DB, I KNEW you'd be watching it Grin If only there was a way of locking your DH and my DP in a room so they could watch it together. DP has this really irritating habit (same with Silk) of PAUSING the programme so he can launch into yet another anecdote about the time he had to have a conference with Johnny Slityerthroat in HMP Blahblah. His stories are usually quite good actually but I just want to watch in peace. I can't imagine what it must be like to watch it with your DH Grin He must be glued to the screen. I do find prisons absolutely fascinating, though. I've never liked Gordon that much, I just find him really chippy and pathetically macho and also he is hostile to vegetarians Grin He's quite damped down in this, though. Well - you'd have to be, wouldn't you?

Well done on the weightloss! Woo! Mmmm, curry.... I was like that when I used to walk to work every day. I didn't need to lose any weight then, but an hour and a half of fast walking every day and the weight just slid off, even when I didn't particularly want it to! (Those were the days!) Hope you feel better soon. I am just off to grab some ibuprofen, I have had a problem with my sinuses ever since I got back from the trip with the girls and it is giving me headaches.

LadyThompson · 06/07/2012 16:34

X-posted with Kayz and Vag. Two more people who don't have to read the blasted book!

McKayz · 06/07/2012 16:38

I have to say I love GR's programs. I love Kitchen Nightmares and Hell's Kitchen. So I'm really enjoying his latest one. Despite being terrible at cooking I love cooking programs.

Rubena · 06/07/2012 16:48

Haven't watched it but I do like Gordon. Am heavily involved in Big bro tho Blush unsurprisingly.
I'm calling this my rest day from running (despite yesterday being only day 1) But I've just cracked a bottle of wine in light of new revelations - We may have to move again, within 4 months, I'm so tired of moving. It will be 6th move in 7 years. Kill me now.
Deids, bloody well done on the weight loss. Your FB pic is stunning.

LadyThompson · 06/07/2012 17:05

I haven't got into Big Bro since it's been on C5. Dunno why....

Rubes, what on earth has happened with the house? Shock It seemed lovely! Poor you - wine is definitely called for. Wine

DeidreBarlow · 06/07/2012 17:10

Yes lady DH pauses it several times each episode to explain what he would/does do in that situation. I give him my best "YAWN - SHOOT ME NOW!" phase. But generally he ignores me and carries on.

Rubes Another move? I am exhausted on your behalf! Really hope that you don't have to move again. And thanks for the compliment on the pic...I was hammered by that point, you can tell I troweled the make up on good and properWink

DeidreBarlow · 06/07/2012 17:11

'phase' Confused...face...no wonder he ignores me and carries on!

Rubena · 06/07/2012 17:44

Landlord may be selling this house from under us despite knowing we were interested in buying and wanted first refusal. Has sneakily done a viewing (which he can't do) palming off as a friend wanting idea's but I suspect it was idea's to buy this house. I tweaked when she asked how much sun we get - who would care if it's just the layout they were looking at not the actual house. Then found a listing and called the agent as an off the streeter. Worst timing ever as would have to move mid Nov between part 1 & 2 of dh exams, not to mention ds's school etc. We can't rustle up enough deposit that fast with dh cutting back n work and don't want to get into bidding war.
Oh and this bloody hayfever doing my nut. Have just tried to explain to dh that you can always double the dosage on over the counter stuff. he's not coming to my party though. Piriteze does effing nothing with just one tab. my eye is red raw and the size of Texas and have also had to get ds at noon from nursery with sticky eye and proper tired / sick / temperature, asking to go home etc... Now dd looks like eye issue starting. Brilliant.
Right will come back more positive later!

Oh and Lady, dh was wondering if dp was up with any property law type stuff - tis his brother-in-laws area I know, but he's in effing Portugal and not answering phone. I love Brian Dowling, so had to continue watching, and although I did love Davina, I think Brian is even better.

LadyThompson · 06/07/2012 18:22

Hayfever is so vile. Never been a sufferer but know people who have. Worth going to the GP and getting him to script you something with more oomph?

Sadly DP only knows general principles about property law and doesn't want to give you a bum steer. We are both sorry to hear about this, though, it is a MAJOR pain and how sneaky of the the landlord Angry DP found this website not sure if it helps Also, I think Pingu may work in this area is she is lurking or you can FB her? Though I think she is commercial stuff.

VagolaJahooli · 06/07/2012 18:27

Friday afternoon G&T anyone?

Rubena · 06/07/2012 18:48

Red wine here Vag. Cheers!

Thanks Lady, actually we all have our health so I'm not taking it too hard.... Plus It's just advice on whether to let him know that we know etc, or whether to play ignorant, but you know me.... I've covered all area's and I can't see the benefit of not discussing it with the LL. I'm about to return the LL's calls about the husband wanting to view it tomorrow, and I'm going to straight out ask.
Thing is, it doesn't benefit us to refuse him showing it based on our tenancy rights etc as at least we'd know sooner that we are def having to move, and the date iycwim. They can't kick us out before mid Nov anyway so it's just more preparation I guess if we know they have a buyer. Otherwise it would go to formal marketing at the 2 months before end of tenancy mark, and we'd have less time to move if that makes sense. Anyway, I will bore you with an update over a boozy lunch shortly. Might even get the train and treat myself Grin

Ive never suffered Hayfever until now, but also never understood how annoying it is! Apparently there's a rare? form of grass pollen about.... Weird that ds has conjunctivitis at the same time but mine's def hay fever as my eyes are itchy, swollen, and i'm totally runny nosed and bunged up.