Thanks for the thoughts, it was very tough yesterday, harder than I was expecting, but I got through it. Couldn't sleep at all last night and tbh think I needed today off work to process everything but couldn't substantiate calling in sick when I felt able to work [too hard working for my own good] . Have Alices cold as well now ( so nearly lost my voice and generally feeling miserable.
needto please expand your special patented method for getting Ben in her pc is it just shove him in and ignore screams?
Had to leave Alice with MIL when I went to work today and she was screaming her head off and didn't want to go to mil. That's never happened before as usually she is still napping when I leave for work so it could happen every week for all I know it's just I don't see it . It was so hard to leave her
. Just ran out of the room quickly thinking I'll make it worse if I stay around. On the plus side though after our amazing session at gymboree last week Alice has turned herself around and now loves Tumble Tots 
drdeb poor you and Bean. How did the trip to GP go?
Merci to those of you on my mess free breakfast ideas thread, I'm going to try making muffins at the week end, I'm so fed up of the mess and time to clean up afterwards and just don't have the time
robin can't help with tummy flashing I'm afraid - think Alice knows better than to scare everyone off by doing that with me 
ledkr keep meaning to ask how are you blacking out Dillys window? We are trying to do Alices but not sure how to do it.