good grief mlic, 2yos can be horribly violent little things at times but deliberately kicking a baby's tummy is a new low. no wonder you were angry.
re the house - don't you want to live back in the same area as your mam or would that be too pricey right now?
my friend's garden backs onto a railway line at a similar distance to you're describing and it isn't a problem at all. you only really notice the trains because the toddlers get so excited about them (they'd prob pay extra to live there
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my thinking re cruise and children vs a hotel room is that my preferred alternative would really be a villa in the middle of Italian countryside, so we could sit downstairs/on the terrace and eat/drink/chat when they're in bed.
the fact that you'd (ie more overprotective than even me) be willing to use the babysitting service on a cruise has made me think perhaps that's an option after all tho!
dh there are lots of things to do but the ages the children are makes it harder to leave them (not that i'd want to do that all the time) as most stuff is for +3years. Also the pools are only for potty-trained children (ie not ok for A)
Maybe, it's something that would be better when at least 1 of them is old enough to go in the children's clubs at least some of the time?
sorry, about all this holiday talk, hadn't meant to take over the thread with it
. off to change Ms Smelly Pants. What you all up to today?