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September 2010: windy bums, weaning starts to loom!

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comixminx · 03/12/2010 14:59

A starter for 10 on our Sept 2010 babies as their first Christmas comes nearer! Can't believe we're there already; I was barely pregnant last Xmas!

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Chelle1986 · 05/12/2010 20:19

Finally got Olly down for a nap! He's barely slept in the day all weekend - little git.

Someone mentioned that they we're sledging this time last year and didn't know they were pregnant? Got me thinking about all the things I was doing because I didn't know!

I didn't find out about Olly until 24 weeks:

3 weeks pregnant: lifting crates filled with box files and reams of paper whilst completing an office move. Oh and moving furniture!

2 months pregnant: went fishing and stayed in a tent for the night - when we woke in the morning the inside of the tent was frozen!!! Xmas Shock

4 months pregnant: away to whitby for dp's b.day and drank all week..... Xmas Blush

Also playfighting with DP for the whole 5 months! And I mean literally rolling around on the floor and rugby tackling one another!

Hearing the hearbeat at that initial check was the biggest relief ever!!!!

How is everyone else tonight anyway - seems to have been quiet on here today. Have been at my mums all afternoon helping put the tree up and having a nice roast!

Olly - 10 weeks.

cinnamongreyhound · 05/12/2010 20:47

Been to my mums too chelle1986 and it was awful! Luke wouldn't sleep as we woke him to go out so he was grumpy most of the time. Ended up having a row over my birthday cake my mum made because she put nuts in it as she did last year when I don't like nuts. I didn't say a word but we were discussing my dislike of nuts before she bought the cake in so she got upset and then my stepdad told me I was ungrateful and my mum had put a lot of work into the cake. I then felt the need to defend myself and managed to upset my brothers girlfriend too. Great end to the weekend Xmas Sad.

On the plus side we did make up and I had some lovely birthday presents!

Chelle1986 · 05/12/2010 21:31

ooh i'm having a nice cold corona and lime!! just thought id share! hehe sorry to hear that cinamon - but glad you made up! what nice pressies did you get? x

cinnamongreyhound · 05/12/2010 21:42

Boots from my dad, jewellry and a book from my bro and chocolates, cd (yes I feel a bit old fashioned that I still like to have an actual cd!), gino's pasta book and a next gift card. Enjoy your corona, just had a slice of the madeira cake my boys made this afternoon Xmas Grin

Was wondering about your nappy problem are you using the right size? If I follow weight recommendations on the pack Luke should be in size 3's but they are way too big and wee comes out the leg holes every time! People often think about nappies being too small to cope but not too big, just a thought.

clumsymumsnowdriftbaby · 05/12/2010 22:26

hi guys,this has made me cry and cry into arlos hair tonight,maybe you could www.mumsnet.com/Talk/bereavement/1097467-37-weeks-pregnant-and-found-out-yesterday-that-our-baby-has-died light a candle]] too.

clumsymumsnowdriftbaby · 05/12/2010 22:30

sorry links are playing up,she has said she appreciates prayers and light,i have lit a candle,but atheists are notoriusly bad at praying,i know some of you are religious,i thought maybe you might offer her your prayers.i will be thinking of her tonight.

sorry if this is bad form.its just so sad.

bananastew · 06/12/2010 09:07

Not bad form at all. Its horrendously sad & just makes you realise how lucky we all are. We moan about lack of sleep, sick, poo, wee, not being able to go out, dh/dps not helping enough, but we're all happy and healthy & have a huge amount to be thankful for.

I shall light a candle. Not just for her but for everyone thats experiencing loss at this time of year!

beaditAli · 06/12/2010 09:13

Morning! Sounds like my folks cinnamon who still think I like coffee and mushrooms.... Xmas Shock
Glad you got your yummy madeira though!
clumsy I'll look another day as going to the vets to finalise everything with late poochy so I'll no doubt be weeping anyway today... won't add to it just yet.

Well, Jack slept a lot yesterday. Typical on his Dad's day! DH was boasting that he'd made 3 nights meals and a massive batch of soup whilst jack slept on his shoulder Xmas Shock How is that possible?? So I thought he'd not sleep at all but the little bear was asleep by 8.30pm. Dream feed at 11pm then up at 4 for more. Now he's snooooozing in his chair Xmas Smile
I was so proud of myself for doing 6 solid hours work yesterday but woke up to 4 more email orders Xmas Sad clumsy I need your help today! 14 necklaces and 12 bracelets... you think you can manage?? Xmas Hmm
Spose it means I'll have a little cash for sales shopping tho! Xmas Grin

On the topic of swimming.... I really can't decide what to do? Jack has a little dry skin so will wait til that clears for sure but my Mum was suggesting that their skin is just too delicate for all the chemicals in pool water...? DH is so keen to take tho....?
I did county swimming for years so he'll definitely be encouraged as I got so much fun from it and horribly big calf muscles Xmas Sad but just don't know what age is the right time to start???

What's everyone up to today? Wish some of you lived up here so we could pop put for a lovely cuppa and cake! [fbear]

beaditAli · 06/12/2010 09:16

Oh poo...... always forget my tax bill in January so no sales shopping! Xmas Sad

Oh Jack 11 weeks today!

beaditAli · 06/12/2010 09:28

Had to read the post clumsy
so, so so sad. Will light a candle for her and be thinking of her. Sad Sad

cinnamongreyhound · 06/12/2010 09:28

I don't think the chemicals are a problem, you won't have him in for more than half an hour and it's not like you are going to take him every day. We took ds1 at 5 weeks and never had any problems with chemicals. Think I was more inclined to take him as he was a late april baby and I wasn't taking him out into the freezing cold afterwards!

It's really sad clumsymumsnowdriftbaby, I can't imagine how she feels at all. Thankfully not something I have ever had experience of and bananastew is right, we complain about things but we all have our little bundles and are very lucky!

I am waiting for my first mindee to arrive, ds1 is at preschool and Luke is asleep so I'm relaxing for 5 mins. Will then have to go and get ds1 and will be playing with them all.

beaditAli · 06/12/2010 09:39

That's what I thought cinnamon just that one of the gym pools near us can NEVER get the chlorine mix right and we've all come out with really bad red blotchy skin on different occasions. Will go to a popular baby used pool I guess.
Hope you enjoyed your peaceful 5 mins!

sassy34264 · 06/12/2010 09:41

Oh clumsy it is awful. She was due in 17 days i think. I don't know how people get through it, I'd want sedating.

beaditali I was a county swimmer too. I think i started swimming at 3/4 years old. I would love to take babies with DP (they don't let you in with 2 babies and 1 adult) but not got the time and i think i'll wait until it's a bit warmer.

saoirse86 · 06/12/2010 11:23

WOWSA!!!! Our internet's been off again so just caught up on 10 pages. Cue mahoosive post......

DP's 2 sisters want to take Orlaith swimming. I kind of want her first time swimming to be with me but don't really like swimming. Birmingham council gyms are really good. You get a free card that entitles you to free swims and gym entry off peak and discount on classes and peak times. Their mum and baby classes are £2.20! For some reason DP doesn't want her to go yet. I think it's because he was made to do competitive swimming until he stopped at 16 because he hated. Although he started teaching when he started uni, mainly because it paid £10ph I think.

DP has thursdays off now so we went to get our (real) tree and it started snowing there. Xmas Grin I've been buying charity shop baubles in pink and silver for 2 years because DP's a bit of a scrooge and didn't have any. Then, while I was out yesterday, he went and bought some horrible blue lights and put them on it. I'm thinking of accidentally smashing the bulbs so I need to buy new lights Xmas Grin

DP's been so busy recently with work. He's a jeweller too beadit but he makes gold and platinum type jewellery. He used to spend 6 days at work, then started having thursdays off. I thought it was to spend time with us but instead he just works on his website. As if doing that 7 nights a week wasn't enough. It is good though look .

We finally had a conversation the other day that we should've had a long time ago. About 14 months we had a fabulous holiday to Cuba. Spent the whole time drinking cuba libres and getting some sun, had lots of fun Xmas Wink and we even got engaged while we were there. But after a week of being there, I woke up at 5am in incredible pain and spent a few hours on the toilet bleeding like mad while DP held me up because I kept fainting from the pain. It almost didn't seem too strange because I'd been bleeding every day for 2 years and 4 months. We finally talked about how we knew now that that was a miscarriage and how lucky we are to have had a healthy baby now. But talking about it has really made me feel grief for that baby, even though I din't know I was pregnant and will never know how far gone I was. Xmas Sad

I was bleeding until I was 7 weeks pregnant with Orlaith so did some silly things too. Drank like a fish over christmas and new year. When I was about 4 weeks pg, I was in DP's car which is stupidly heavy with a big glass roof, and got stuck on ice. My sister (who was 5 weeks pg but didn't know it) and I pushed the car up the road while a passing taxi driver sat inside steering. Orlaith really is our little miracle, especially as 4 weeks before we conceived I was told I'd probably never have children!

I promise not to do a post like that again!! Xmas Blush

Chelle1986 · 06/12/2010 12:06

Saoirse - am really sorry to hear that. Oliver is our miracle too. A few months before I conceived we were also told that we would struggle due to my PCOS.

clumsy I daren't read that story. Stuff like that affects me too much. I spent the last month of pregnancy petrified that would happen. I can't begin to imagine what that must be like. I will light a candle tonight in any case.

cinnamon - not sure re the nappy size. Olly is 13lb 7oz now and even though the size 2 nappies say "up to 13lb" I am still using them as, like you say, the size threes are massive. Nearly as big as him in fact!

dixie - I will look in to the swimming as soon as I can. I do really really want to take LO but as cinnamon said - the thought of taking him out in to the freezing cold afterwards seems silly!

beadit - have the shelves come yet? I wish we all lived closer too. Seems a shame that we are unlikely to ever meet!

Olly 10+1

beaditAli · 06/12/2010 12:30

saoirse that's awful and on hols too Shock and so pleased that you proved the experts wrong chelle
Shelf man is busy with backed up deliveries and orders now until next weekend which suits me as I'm forking out for final chemo treatment at vets today so that will drain me. We had insurance for him but doesn't cover everything Sad Stupidly expensive! About £600 for each weeks worth! Shock doesn't deserve a Santa hat!!!!
I think we should all find a middle point and arrange a big lovely mumsnetty meet up! It will take some planning tho! Can't have it at some random service centre just coz it's equal distance between us all! Xmas Grin

Anyone else have DHs who have the most absurd nicknames for LOs? He calls Jack 'Douche' and 'Douche Bag'.....? So flipping weird especially as it translate to shower WTF?
He also gets Jack Attack, The Jackington, The J Dog and Toots mostly from me! Xmas Smile

JodeyLea · 06/12/2010 12:45

I think all babies born are little miracles especially when you hear/read stories like that. The whole process from start to finish is an amazing journey.

I had an awful dream that woke me up 2 nights ago where I was carrying Harlyn's dead body (won't go into details of the content of the dream as it was v.disturbing). When I woke up I was crying and had to pick him up (fortunatly it didn't wake him) and hold him close to me. DH thought I had gone a little mad but have never been so relieved to hear him breathing and feeling warm. I could cry just thinking about it! I just can't imagine what it must be like for those who do lose a child either during pregnancy, birth or after. Nothing could be worse.

On a brighter note, I have had my crimbo tree up for a week now! Harlyn just loves the flashing lights. I am sooooo excited for Christmas. We took him out to the German Market yesterday but he just slept the whole time! Feeling very Christmassy at the mo! Even got my Crimbo cd on in the background.
"Snow is falling, all around, children playing, having fun........"

Chelle1986 · 06/12/2010 12:46

Gosh beadit - thats a lot of pennies! we have pet insurance but (touch wood) luckily haven't had to use it for Charlie dog yet.

My friend however doesn't have any insurance at all and has just been stung for £600 for a simple tummy bug that her staffie had! Xmas Shock

DP calls Oliver "Monkey socks".... Xmas Confused and "sausage"....lol

He gets "muffin" and "mush" from me....lol. Poor bugger.

Maybe the J dog will grow up with a love of being "dans la salle de bain"!!

JodeyLea · 06/12/2010 12:47

and Harlyn has just gulped 8ounces, and still cried at the end for more!! Greedy boy Xmas Grin

Chelle1986 · 06/12/2010 12:47

Ooh and can we all list our locations again to see if there might be a mid point?

I am Chester.

cinnamongreyhound · 06/12/2010 12:48

It would be lovely to meet up, I'm sure we can find somewhere and some time that is suitable for all of us!

DH calls Luke Lucozade most of the time or skywalker for obvious reasons. I usually call him bubba, which is what I often call ds1 too Xmas Grin

I feel for everyone who has lost a baby at any point, I cannot imagine how devastating it must be. My mil lost a baby between dh and his sister when she was 24 weeks and had several early miscarriages after dh, at which point she was told to be happy with the children she had or she would loose more than just her baby next time Sad

We have so much fog thoday!

JodeyLea · 06/12/2010 12:50

My DH calls Harlyn poobagMcGinty Monkeyboy and chubs and he calls the dog titboy ???????????????

Chelle1986 · 06/12/2010 12:51

Cinnamon, Jodi whats your locations?

We have loads of fog too! Don't want to go out!!!

Chelle1986 · 06/12/2010 12:51

titboy.....hahaha. I just choked on my cuppa!