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FEB 2010 Teeth, nosh and smelly bums - it's all go, six months on!!

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InmaculadaConcepcion · 05/08/2010 16:04

Where did the last half a year go??!

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BabyGiraffes · 16/08/2010 21:21

stoof rainbow feel for you and sending you good wishes... Smile

Tonight, my way of relaxing is a nice glass of wine, dh out for the night, and me watching Mamma Mia and cacking in an evil manner to myself Grin. Bliss.

BabyGiraffes · 16/08/2010 21:23

'cackling' (wine taking effect) Grin

bearcrumble · 16/08/2010 21:55

Sorry but cacking made me laugh. Just the image of a mad woman with a bottle of wine crouching in the corner of the living room while "Chiquitita" blares from the telly.

Anyway....

Stoof - poor you! Period and cold and boils! OW! I'm sorry things are tough financially and you're having to put DS in nursery 5 days a week. It must be a real wrench but you have to do what you have to do. As for regretting emigrating - I think it's great that you had the guts to give it a go and were also honest enough to say "no more" when it wasn't working. If you'd never done it you might always be thinking "what if..."

Rainbow We went to have dim sum last Sunday up in chinatown. It was really nice. My favourite is the suckling pig with crispy crackling but I like prawns in paper and those little triangular pastries with sesame seeds on top too. Oh and the turnip cake.

mamaloco My mum swears that I didn't sleep a wink at night for the first 2 years. I'm not sure I trust her memory though. If it's true though I am getting paid back for it now.

We started on solids yesterday. He had a little bit of steamed sweet potato and squash mixed together yesterday evening. He would not go to sleep until about 11!!! It was a nightmare but then he did sleep until 3.30 and then 5.30 and then 6 and then 8! So I got a bit of a lie in and he napped well today.

Today he had 2 helpings of baby cereal (a mix of organic rice, quinoa, amaranth and millett - the Plum brand one) mixed with my milk. I was only going to give him one meal a day to start off with but he wouldn't take the bottle of expressed milk that I'd done to mix his iron medicine with this evening so I chucked some cereal into it and fed him it with a spoon.

I didn't realise how messy it was. So much just dribbles out even if they obviously want it - he was leaning towards the spoon.

He's been a bit out of sorts - got a cold and his teeth are obviously hurting. Both DS and I are sure the teeth nearer the back of his mouth are closer to the surface and when he chomps stuff he always chomps at the back. I guess it is not unheard of for molars to come through first? I know it's not the normal thing though.

He is rolling both ways and commando crawling a bit. It is kind of annoying that I can't leave him on his own on the rug or the bed any more but obviously great that he's coming on as he should.

He's been asleep since about 8.

Today I have felt like I've been chasing my tail and not getting anything done/finished.

I cleared out some stuff and put some bits on freecycle and the woman who was meant to collect some sheets didn't bother to turn up or leave a message. I managed to list some stuff on ebay and DH loaded some things into the car to take to the charity shop but the road was apparently gridlocked so he just bought some teabags and came home.

Most of the time it's great to have him around as he works from home but it can be really irritating as well. He always turns the radio on when he comes into the kitchen and then leaves it on when he leaves. He always leaves a teaspoon next to the kettle after stirring his tea rather than putting it in the sink and he is always buying records from charity shops when I am trying to clear space. He says he'll always drop anything and look after the baby if I need him and he did - for about 5 mins but then he needed to make a phonecall so I had to just leave the washing up I was doing. Anyway he is annoying me today and he beat me at university challenge.

bethylou · 16/08/2010 22:04

BG Cacking would be a whole different thing!! I'm most amused at that!!

Stoof I'm with you on the period-front. Can't see the point in them any more as not intending to have any more children and in so much pain today - hadn't really contemplated trying to look after two children with really bad period pain but it wasn't easy. (+the dizziness, nausea etc.. that goes with it). Luckily I found some of my drugs from pre-pregnancy that are still in date and took them fast!

Can anyone enlighten me as to what 100g etc.. is equivalent to in ice cubes, or are you all BLW? I'm giving DS2:
an ice cube of fruit and some porridge for breakfast,
chicken or fish with veg (only one big cube at the mo) for lunch
and then a fruit or veg cube for tea.

He is also having 29oz of formula milk too which I know I need to start reducing now he has reached the grand age of 26 weeks. I also recognise that we now need to begin introducing carbs - taking it a step at a time due to his dodgy tummy. Have already discovered that apple produces a lot of vomit for some unknown reason.

How do you know when he's had enough? DS1 was a skinny bean in comparison who made it clear he had finished. I think DS2 would eat until he inflated like a balloon! Got told off by the HV for having DS2 weighed too often Hmm so can't really go back and check via that route for a week or two. DS1 on the otherhand continues to lose weight despite eating like a horse. Back to doctor on Wednesday for the next installment on what might be wrong and how we might sort it out.

The chiropractor asked me what I am doing about DS2's sleep apnoea. I replied, "Drinking lots of red wine." My mum nearly died of shame. Clearly, I meant me consuming it, and it's actually not that regular, but maybe one should not be flippant around medical types when consulting about ones children!!

BabyGiraffes · 16/08/2010 22:40

I blame the small keys on a netbook and the wine... but glad I raised a few smiles with my typo!! Grin Really enjoyed the film second time round (watched it first with dh who really hated it). Just so nice to have a night to myself with the girls fast asleep and dh out... Probably shouldn't say that but he really does get on my nerves sometimes when he gets home from work in a foul mood. I just want to shout at him 'Yes, I had a hard day, too, you know!' Honestly, sometimes he seems to think I just sit on the sofa all day painting my toenails...
Anyway, rant over. Wink

AngelaCarleen · 16/08/2010 23:38

Hi everyone, I've not been on for that long we've moved threads!

BG I have the same problem with my DH, I wouldn't care if he just sat there quietly in a bad mood, but he insists on telling me all about it, including all the little three letter abbreviations he knows i don't have any idea about. It's as if he thinks I care about the ins and outs of his job. Grrr!

DD is crawling now and we have babygates up everywhere! She loves chasing the poor cat and trying to grab anything that isn't designed for her to play with.

Weaning is going really well, we're doing a bit of BLW and spoon feeding depending on what we're eating. DD mostly has whatever we're eating, she struggles sometimes with squishy or slimy food though, she's hasn't got a very gentle grip!

I got good news from work the other day, they refused my application for reduced hours and we're umming and ahhing about unpaid leave to cover DH being in afghan next year but they've now changed their mind. I'm back to work in april on 15 hours a week. I'm starting to look forward to going back now, I love being at home with DD but I feel like my brain is turning to mush!

Sorry, just realised that this is a very me me me postBlush

ClimberChick · 17/08/2010 01:21

Angela you've missed the new rules, me posts are a must. Great news about your work, would love to do 3 day weeks.

Forgot to say that LO managed to eat a strawberry despite having no teeth. Every other time she's had one, she's just licked it a bit, but this time she chomped straight through it.

Also, here's a shameless short (albeit low resoltion) clip of LO on her jumperoo on the day she turned five months.

stoof you know your doing the most stable thing for your family, so take comfort in that. It all sounds very stressful, am keeping fingers crossed for you guys

Am a bit scared of six months hitting and starting properly on BLW. Plan to do some detailed reading at some point regarding sizes of stuff etc.

We're having some lovely weather out here atm, which makes it very easy to enjoy yourself and be happpy. For some bizarre reason, you can't get decent nappy liners over here though, so when people visit in October I'm going to make sure they come well stocked (with some marmite and shampoo/conditioner as well, vegan shampoo is REALLY expensive)

Also not sure what LO has been doing, but my nipples are a bit sore again. tbh I'm so out of it when I feed her in the night, that I don't really pay attention to her latch. Just sit there wishing (with eyes closed normally Blush she'll finish and am probably guilty of cutting short some of her feeds.

two posts in one day, check me out

stoofadoof · 17/08/2010 06:43

aww cc? ace name btw! (same as my dd Wink!

bearcrumble · 17/08/2010 07:33

I'm glad I'm not the only one who is pissed off with their husband...

If I say I'm tired he says he's tired. If I say I feel under the weather he says he does too. If I reply, he then says "It's not a competition".

ARRGH.

mamaloco · 17/08/2010 08:31

bethylou 100 g is a tad less than those smaller baby jars. one ice cubes I would say is about 10/15 g. (a bit less than a dessert spoon)
To make a meal I mix 4 ice cubes of veg, with 2/3 tea spoon of couscous and 2 tea spoon of yogurt/meat. she will munch through 1 apricot or one plum for dessert.
she can also eat a lot (much more than DD1) but if she is still hungry she will cry. I pause during the meal to offer water and if she is still hungry she will kick her legs then cry. when she stop that i usually stop feeding (even if she can take more)
For your DS1 have they checked for parasites? eating a lot and loosing weight is often a sign of threadworm.
hope you find what is wrong soon.

watercress · 17/08/2010 11:39

I'm using ice cubes as well (but then ice cube trays relaly vary in size, so that's not very helpful). DD2 is on three cubes plus cereal for breakfast, three cubes of veg (including potato) then three cubes of fruit mixed with baby rice for lunch, a yogurt mid-afternoon, and the same as lunch for dinner. She has sips of water with all her meals (and finger food whenever we eat), and manages about 20oz of milk a day in four or five bottles.

Feeling very grumpy today as I'm at my parents without DH for a week and DD1 is being a nightmare. I think she;s making up for missing the terrible twos, and is tantruming, throwing things, hitting me... it's exhausting and I'm starting to feel abused. I'm staying relatively calm and just battling through as best I can, but my dad keeps making comments and I can tell my mum is appalled (though she'd never say so). Can someone give me my lovely DD1 back please?

Think I need a glass of wine and a cack, BG stylie...

bethylou · 17/08/2010 22:18

Quick flyby for tonight after a short night last night but poor Watercress - sounds like very hard work.

Thanks for the ice cube clarification. Guess I need to start upping DS2's food intake then!! The poor child is probably starving, though I am quietly confident that he would let me know if he was!! Today he has had more lunch and tea than yesterday so we're on the way. Have enough ouree in the freezer now to feed all our DCs so it's time to start getting him munching on through the supplies!!

Sorry no time to reply individually tonight to the others of you who really merit a 'poor you' etc.. - I'm thinking it for all of you in need and hope things are on the up again soon.

AbsB · 17/08/2010 22:44

Ha! Ha! Bearcrumble my DP was using my computer to transfer photos of DD from his camera. Later this evening he asked me if my pseudonym on mumsnet was 'Bearcrumble'... he'd read your post about being pissed off with your husband and the "it's not a competition" comment! Grin He was convinced it was me!

Like the 'cack', very good one!

Watercress I feel for you with your DD1. We're finding it challenging with just one LO, can't imagine having anyone else throwing a spanner in the works.

Just read everyone's posts and can't remember who's written what... welcome back AngelaCarleen!

Oh and CC my DD bit down on my nipple with her back gum OUCH! I screamed really loudly and she thought it was hilarious and then kept on doing it to see if I would yell... my nipples are now SO SORE Hmm She also keeps getting distracted and pulling off to laugh and look at stuff. She also doesn't latch on with an open mouth anymore, she sucks it in until she's latched on which is painful now that she's bitten them! Your DD is dead cute in her jumparoo! Grin

Here is wishing everyone a good night with lots of sleep Wink

ClimberChick · 18/08/2010 03:53

watercress I read in a parenting magazine (disclaimer: they're in the pumping room and its something to do) that terrible twos are a misnomer and they actually normally start of 3 years instead.

LO has gone from going to sleep in her cot to just crying for a few hours instead. I don't understand it. Waking more often yes I get that, but changing how you go sleep arrrrghh. I'm on the verge of CC (though with me right there) as don't/can't really hold her and she cries anyway (even in our bed). Resorted yesterday to coming in the living room, turning on the TV and just bouncing LO in her chair for 45mins until she drifted off (after two hours of crying).

So not looking forward to the feeding with teeth/biting action, hope yours feel better soon abs

AC forgot to say that sounds like your doing really well and your post was full of love. Can't believe you LO was proper crawling already

mamaloco · 18/08/2010 11:59

Just a quick note, to say that I am officially loosing my mind! Hmm. Just went around the house looking for DD2 like a mad woman, and not find her. Wondering were I could have forgotten her (shopping, down stairs....). She is peacefully having a nap in her cot Grin Confused

Also DD1 (LOL) after being told no for a snack 1h after lunch "mum, don't you know that those born in england need more food" Grin How could I forget! Grin

BabyGiraffes · 18/08/2010 13:03

mamaloco Grin Grin Grin Glad I am not the only one........

fiziwizzle · 18/08/2010 15:48

Grin at mamaloco's DD1!

Far too much to catch up on individually, so commiserations to all those with sleeping difficulties/illnesses/annoying DPs (leaving a teaspoon on the side: check. Oh, don't get me started). And chinook how is your mum?

I believe there is a 6 month sleep regression, after last's night effort of waking at 1, 3, 5, 6, and 7. In fact I think she needs solids (she is a few days off being 6m old) and I've started trying to feed her purees, but she clearly doesn't know what to do with them. It all just falls back out. Am I doing it wrong?! How long does it take before they 'get' it? Confused

Must go and check my emails after being away for a few days .

bearcrumble · 18/08/2010 18:54

I'm in the same boat fizi - been doing it 3 days and most of it comes out again. I think it just takes a while for them to work out how to get it from the front to the back of their mouths.

In the meantime my kitchen looks like someone's chucked a bucket of wallpaper paste all over it.

ClimberChick · 18/08/2010 18:57

beth did you ever go to the docs regarding your problem?

stoof thanks for the heads up regarding DCs not sleeping until over 4. I'm just looking forward to when she doesn't want to feed in the night, because at least then we can take it in turns.

Last nite (after giving up and just getting her to sleep in our bed) she did one 3 hour stretch and then every 90mins, and wanted food as well.

How do you know when they don't need food in the night, is it when they're properly on solids?

Just under three weeks until 6 months, hopefully she'll have doubled her birth weight by then.

mamaloco I did something very similar last week

GuernseyFrench · 18/08/2010 19:44

Nights for us are all different! After the events of the start of the week, DS slept without waking from 11pm til 6am one night, but as I wasn't counting my chicken, he woke up a few time the following night but resettle quite quickly.

I am now adding some finely chopped ham to his purees in order to get him use to another sensation with food. Tonight it was courgettes, red pepper and pasta with ham.

mamaloco I'm also loosing it, so don't worry if we all act insane nobody will notice {grin]

We haven't spoke with the nursery as the manager was out and we thought that will wait and see. His wheezing is actually much better, the best it has been for weeks! Probably the new inhaler is to thank for this, it only took 10 appointments and 3 GPs to find a solution Hmm

ClimberChick · 19/08/2010 01:55

We're in a growth spurt. She ate greater than 50% more in the day today as well.

mamaloco · 19/08/2010 06:36

Fizi bear Mine always took everything without spitting, real [buiscuit] monsters.
Do you use a baby spoon? in that case the amount is about 1 quater of it to start with (very small). If using a tea spoon just put a bit of food on the tip. And let them play with the (empty, I can't bear to much mess Wink) spoon. When they start eating correctly the very small amount then you can increase the quantity in the spoon.
The mums I have seen having mess problem with their DCs usually put too much in the spoon (like an adult size bite). Of course there is some very messy eaters out there Grin.
Your DCs might also still have the thrust reflex, if so, try again in a week it makes a huge difference at that age.
Good luck.

bearcrumble · 19/08/2010 08:29

Ah thanks mamaloco - I think I was overloading the spoon.

fiziwizzle · 19/08/2010 09:01

Yep, I've been overloading the spoon too! Will try again momentarily with just a little bit.... Thanks Smile

bearcrumble · 19/08/2010 12:51

It works! Thank you so much. x