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Angry at scrapping of 2 child limit

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BearBuggy · 04/12/2024 15:42

I know there are a few families that find themselves in rotten circumstances and this isn’t aimed at them . However I live in an area where having children to continue to receive benefits was the norm and only now the cap is in place has that stopped.

The Scottish government has now announced it will be scrapped. I am so angry I’m paying towards people breeding children they can’t afford. I didn’t vote SNp this time because of this, as did many of my friends. They lost heavily in my area but still seem to not care what the tax payer is saying.

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Babyname2025 · 04/12/2024 16:41

RandomWordsThrownTogether · 04/12/2024 16:28

Maybe replacing the child benefits with vouchers that can only be spent on groceries and children’s items would be a compromise. The problem is the cap did hurl a lot of children into food poverty and they should not be penalised for their parents decisions.

I honestly don’t think anyone, rich or poor, should have more than two children as our world is literally catching fire in places - the planet can not survive if we don’t curb population growth and reduce consumption. In the same light punishing children is not the answer. Maybe financial incentives for getting a coil fitted after your second child and replace child benefits with food vouchers that can not be spent on alcohol.

Our fertility rate is already below replacement. We have a record number of people with fertility issues and a record number of people opting not to have children. I think the odd family having 3 kids is meant to balance that out.

User135644 · 04/12/2024 16:41

It shouldn't be lifted past 3.

Sadly it's the feckless layabouts who play the system who ruin it for everyone else.

Most working professionals aren't having lots of kids

User135644 · 04/12/2024 16:42

Babyname2025 · 04/12/2024 16:41

Our fertility rate is already below replacement. We have a record number of people with fertility issues and a record number of people opting not to have children. I think the odd family having 3 kids is meant to balance that out.

And the millions of people we import every year.

Babyname2025 · 04/12/2024 16:44

User135644 · 04/12/2024 16:42

And the millions of people we import every year.

There would be even more if our birth rate drops further.

Bromptotoo · 04/12/2024 16:44

AndSoFinally · 04/12/2024 16:38

The problem is the cap did hurl a lot of children into food poverty and they should not be penalised for their parents decisions.

It shouldn't have hurled anyone into food poverty. Children already born/conceived weren't affected by it. Only children born after it was already announced, at which point you've had hoped their parents would have made an informed decision whether to have another child, knowing it wouldn't attract any further benefits

Are you really so lacking in vision that you cannot see how children born when an informed decision was that they could be afforded all changed when, eg, the Father was suddenly permanently incapacitated.

It's because of people who think like you that Osborne thought this was a winner.

Bornnotbourne · 04/12/2024 16:45

In Alaska they reversed child obesity by introducing a universal basic income so there is real evidence that equality improves the health and lives of children. They’re always the ones to suffer.

Drivingoverlemons · 04/12/2024 16:45

mitogoshigg · 04/12/2024 16:30

@Wobblecushion

Not absolute poverty, it's relative poverty - poverty in the U.K. is defined as a percentage of average income therefore it's relative. I'm not saying some kids aren't in bad situations, just you cannot compare to countries where there's no benefits, no housing support etc - that's absolute poverty.

Yes, it is relative poverty that is 30%.

In 2022/23 the number of children living in absolute poverty rose from 23% to 25%, the highest increase since 2018 due to soaring inflation.

mumda · 04/12/2024 16:46

BearBuggy · 04/12/2024 15:51

@Littlemissgobby SNP hold majority in Scotland?

What's the Barnet formula?

DrZaraCarmichael · 04/12/2024 16:46

Littlemissgobby · 04/12/2024 15:46

Labour in charge though in socotland so is this actually happening or a want that the snp want if they get elected again

Labour are NOT in charge in Scotland.

SNP are. For the next 18 months until the next Scottish parliament election. This is just grandstanding by the SNP, you'd think someone has crunched the numbers and worked out that actually getting rid of the cap won't cost as much as people think it will, and it's a good "look" for them. Headline grabbing. And it won't be implemented for X months and the budget still has to be voted through and so on and so on.

But by making headlines talking about the 2 child cap, we're not talking about the ongoing fraud investigation and charges against Sturgeon's husband, or motorhomes, or ferries which are 8 years late into service and millions over budget, or schools falling to bits, or overcrowded prisons, or slipping education standards etc etc etc.

Sunshine1500 · 04/12/2024 16:47

Child benefit should be available for every child, no one knows anyone’s full circumstances. Many children/mothers need it.

TinklySnail · 04/12/2024 16:47

I’m happy to see the 2 child limit remain in England.
Let’s see the effect it has before lobbying for the same.
I don’t agree with the 2 child limit but it’s there for a reason.
It’s horrendous that honest people who find themselves on benefit, through no fault of their own, are suffering because some people just don’t want to work.
The past government has been pathetic at enforcing their own rules when it comes to work and I very much doubt this government will be any better.
People can’t main about immigration if they can’t be bothered to fill the vacancies available.

HeadNorth · 04/12/2024 16:48

With that and partially reinstating the WFP, I am fed up. Where is the money for this? Yes that is right, even relatively low to middle income earners pay more tax and with fiscal drag it is getting so much worse. It makes me sick my daughter who is a nurse pays more tax in Scotland than she would in England, so her wealthy granny can add another £100 to her bulging coffers. The SNP & Greens are shite.

RandomWordsThrownTogether · 04/12/2024 16:48

Babyname2025 · 04/12/2024 16:41

Our fertility rate is already below replacement. We have a record number of people with fertility issues and a record number of people opting not to have children. I think the odd family having 3 kids is meant to balance that out.

But the world is over populated - the UK consumes much more than it produces so we import a lot of our food using planes, ships etc… Our carbon footprint is huge, loads of people died in flooding in Spain and some in the UK too - they explained this will increase in the years to come. We need to lower populations not try to maintain it.

oakleaffy · 04/12/2024 16:48

User135644 · 04/12/2024 16:41

It shouldn't be lifted past 3.

Sadly it's the feckless layabouts who play the system who ruin it for everyone else.

Most working professionals aren't having lots of kids

This. ☝️

NeedToChangeName · 04/12/2024 16:48

MSPs in Scottish Parliament https://www.parliament.scot/msps/current-party-balance
SNP 62
Labour 22

MPs in UK Parliament https://members.parliament.uk/region/country/scotland
Labour 37
SNP 9

DrZaraCarmichael · 04/12/2024 16:50

The SNP & Greens are shite.

Oh, totally agree on that. Utterly useless bunch of second rate councillors who couldn't run a raffle, never mind the country. You know what to do at the next election...

ThereIsALifeOutThere · 04/12/2024 16:50

albapunk · 04/12/2024 16:21

I've never understood why people fail to see that there IS many who absolutely relish being on benefits, and many children will not see the extra money as their parents will continue to use it to make poor choices.

I come from a very deprived Scottish town. The roots of poverty run far deeper than any money thrown at it would ever reach. Massive changes in attitude are required, generations of families on benefits needs to be stopped, I know MANY people who have 0 intentions of work and some how find loopholes. Including by having children.

I've been on benefits twice, it was utterly hellish and the hoops I jumped through were ridiculous just to receive a pittance.

We need a robust welfare state as anyone could fall on hard times, but we also need intervention to ensure we have people who want to grow and break these moulds.

Those in genuine need, should always get what they need and I don't think this is what tbe OP was talking about.

So you’re telling me that some people really love going through hell to get benefits to receive a pittance then?

It can’t be both.
A really hard experience to receive fuck all.
Or one that is actually pretty easy because ‘you find the loophole’.
Because if that loophole was so easy, then surely everyone would be doing that. You included no?

As for the generations on benefit, yes there are some.
And the answer is NOT to tighten things etc… it’s not working. We know that. The only thing it does is to put children in poverty.

MumblesParty · 04/12/2024 16:50

Babyname2025 · 04/12/2024 16:28

I used to have views on other people's Reproductive choices. But then I suffered from infertility (9 years of unprotected sex and no baby; I married at 22). So I was 32 with a mortgage, husband, 121k household income (doesn't go that far in London but our mortgage for a 2 bed flat is 1282) but getting negative pregnancy tests every month and doing fertility investigations.

I got made redundant in october with a 9300 quid pay out. Thankfully we still had dh's income (75k per annum) and around 54k in savings (though only 27k is instantly accessible). But it is terribly terribly irresponsible to ttc while unemployed, isn't it. But I wasn't getting younger or more fertile, I had been referred to uclh fertility clinic. I conceived 10 days after I was made redundant. I am nearly 8 weeks pregnant and interviewing frantically, hoping to secure a few months of work before I go on maternity leave. I plan to work after baby so my new role needs to be able to pay for childcare too.

Dh says we would never have conceived if I wasn't off work. I don't know about that but I do know that I have been trying for years and nothing ever happened. This is my last chance to be a mother possibly. Dh is getting a vasectomy after this as we don't plan on anymore (dont want to go through the whole ttc heartbreak), so there are times I feel sad that my only pregnancy would be one where I feel stressed about jobs. But the point is you don't know anyone's story. Most people would probably say I am very irresponsible but I don't care as my child is a miracle. Not sure why some woman's third child is any different.

@Babyname2025 I think you may be missing the point. Having one child, with a house in London, a household income of £75k, and £50k+ savings does not put you in the “irresponsible” category. The situations people general mean are single parent, rental property, no job, multiple kids by several fathers (none of whom help) , already living in poverty. Given that contraception and pregnancy terminations are free, I would say that bringing more children into that situation is irresponsible. Bringing one much-awaited child into an affluent London home is not irresponsible!

teatoast8 · 04/12/2024 16:51

Sunshine1500 · 04/12/2024 16:47

Child benefit should be available for every child, no one knows anyone’s full circumstances. Many children/mothers need it.

You can get child benefit for 3rd child

Ladamesansmerci · 04/12/2024 16:52

The cap isn't the answer. Yes, people make poor choices, but it is not the child's fault. No child should grow up hungry and without basics.

The solution is more support and better education. Also, redistribution of wealth. Social inequality is the driving factor.

PrincessofWells · 04/12/2024 16:53

Littlemissgobby · 04/12/2024 15:52

Oh OK thought labour did thanks for correcting me

Not quite right. In the Scottish Parliament SNPs hold the majority of seats. They are Members of Scottish Parliament.

In Westminster, Labour hold the majority of Scottish seats. These are MPs. It's easy to conflate the two systems.

BanditsWife · 04/12/2024 16:54

The two child limit has not reduced the birth rate.

It has increased the number of children living in poverty. That’s children living in poverty. Children who made no choice to be in that situation and have virtually no power to pull themselves out of it.

I’m glad to live in a country that recognises this injustice and does something about it.

DrZaraCarmichael · 04/12/2024 16:54

The solution is more support and better education. Also, redistribution of wealth. Social inequality is the driving factor

But resolving that would involve the SNP actually doing some hard work to try to resolve the problems which have been affecting parts of Scotland for generations. There are no quick fixes here but they are not up for making the committment to tackling the root causes of the inequality, they want a quick fix soundbite to keep them in the press and keep their wee pals in the Greens happy so they get their budget through parliament.

Patterncarmen · 04/12/2024 16:57

BearBuggy · 04/12/2024 15:42

I know there are a few families that find themselves in rotten circumstances and this isn’t aimed at them . However I live in an area where having children to continue to receive benefits was the norm and only now the cap is in place has that stopped.

The Scottish government has now announced it will be scrapped. I am so angry I’m paying towards people breeding children they can’t afford. I didn’t vote SNp this time because of this, as did many of my friends. They lost heavily in my area but still seem to not care what the tax payer is saying.

In the 17th century in England there was a debate about the obligations to the poor. The idea of predestination (a Calvinist Protestant belief) was used to justify it; basically, if you were well off, you were favoured by God and one of the elect who would go to heaven; and vice versa. God had predestined some souls to be saved and others to be condemned. So, the poor generally were not going to be saved….then there was another discussion about deserving and undeserving poor. Conduct determined if they would eat or starve, and sometimes location. As poor relief during the time of Elizabeth I was determined by your parish, really poor people were sometimes whipped beyond the parish boundary so the parish didn’t have to take care of them. In the 1590s during a famine, people starved to death.

I hope we have moved beyond the deserving and undeserving poor debate by now.

Sunshine1500 · 04/12/2024 16:57

teatoast8 · 04/12/2024 16:51

You can get child benefit for 3rd child

Oh okay thank you.
I don’t agree with cutting financial help towards children. There must better ways to deal with benefit cuts and not putting children in poverty.