"The role I see of all people is that we spread peace not war."
Yes. And we have to ask ourselves, every time we do anything, is that leading to peace or war?
I think on the other thread I said I have no doubt there are Palestinians who want to wipe anyone Jewish off the face of the earth. This is an ugly view and how do we tackle it? By teaching both groups to see each other as human beings first, by peace initiatives, by outreaches, and stopping the state sponsored violence. Not by bombing an entire population. That's going to have the opposite effect.
Topbanana1: in answer to the that sad question, "'Why do they hate us? Why do they want to kill us?" The answer is: "Because they are not getting a fair deal. Our government has allowed (and indeed supported) settlers to take much of the West Bank and literally throw them out of their own houses and because we have bombed them many times and continue to bomb them."
All of these things have to change.
In apartheid SA, the government tried at one point to do everything it could to uplift the black middle class and yet the anti-apartheid protests and attacks by the ANC continued. The government yelled, "See! They are impossible to deal with. We do all this for them and they continue to attack us."
The attacks continued until they got equal rights with white people. Black people weren't interested in a few scraps thrown at them and they couldn't be bought off by building a few nicer schools and clinics. They wanted a proper democracy.