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Prayer thread for summer 2009 - My grace is sufficient

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DutchOma · 18/06/2009 13:24

My grace is sufficient for you 2Cor 12:9
and
When I am weak then I am strong 2Cor 12:10

Reading through last month's prayer request I came across the first text quoted by M44 and it brought the second one to mind.
When I am weak.....when I cry out to the Lord to my sisters to please pray for me, when life is hard....then I am strong.
I counted more than 20 names in last month's prayerlist, more than 30 when I counted the names Dippy had mentioned at the beginning of her update, so I will only mention a few names here.

We pray for Anna and Findlay, where real miracles of the Lord are needed.
For M44's mother-in-law in hospital
For Weegiemum that the Lord may uphold her as only He can. For Marc and Suzanne on their wedding day.
For Boilerwoman that she may take her strength from the Lord.
For Jentlydoesit and her DP that God may bring good into a difficult situation. Giving thanks for the new job.
For Swaliswan and dd2.
For Onlyjoking in this season of remembrances and for the children who are suffering more now than a year ago.
For Clockface with exciting changes to come.

And at this stage, sisters, I call you together to prayer for one another.
You know who you are - beloved of the Lord.

OP posts:
ZipadiSoozi · 15/07/2009 23:06

Thank you for your prayers, really needed and appreciated.

Not in a good place atm, don't know what to do, prayers for guidance is good.

Don't want to leave, but don't know how to move on and live different lives together, without affecting the dc.

dh has special needs that affect his communication, compromise and understanding in daily life, which result in major hard work on my part, but what happened to "in sickness and in health" (on my part, although dh not sick, just different)

Feel at the end of the road with it all

Sorry to sound selfish!

LovingtheSilverFox · 15/07/2009 23:12

Praying hard for you Soozi. Things sound but you have friends here. I am not really sure what to type except please accept our support, allow God to guide you, hand it over to Him.

A bit trite and easy to say but I am thinking of you x

ZipadiSoozi · 15/07/2009 23:37

Just feel very alone with it all, and tired.

Want to change name so can go on relationships on mn but don't know how to name change

LovingtheSilverFox · 15/07/2009 23:49

Go up to the top bar where is says mymumsnet, and then its in the registration bit, it says your nickname, and you can just type in a new one. It won't automatically link to your profile. Hope that helps if you want to talk about it.

LovingtheSilverFox · 15/07/2009 23:50

Sorry, meant to add you can always CAT me if you like, I have no experience, but I can listen (read) if you want to vent x

MaryBS · 16/07/2009 08:40

I'm here for you too Sooz, you've still got my email address {hugs}

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 11:25

Goodness!! Anyone available to pray right now?! It's all a little complicated, He knows, but it's to do with our house move, we need loads of guidance. Please pray hard ladies

MaryBS · 16/07/2009 11:36

Praying, Lovingthesilverfox. I pray that God helps you discern what his will is for you, regarding this house, and helps and supports you all through the twists and turns...

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 12:09

Thanks Mary - (I have probably posted about this before) basically we were originally interested in two houses.

House A was cheaper, larger (ideal size), very nice area, but needs an horrendous amount of work, and I mean huge amount, new windows, new bathrooms, new kitchen, without basic decor work, and the layout is very odd, so that would also need sorting. That said we could move in and never have to move again, even if we had triplets next time!

House B was more expensive, smaller (we would need to put in loft conversion), but initially in perfect condition, move in and do nothing. We would probably have to move again after about 5 or so years.

Schools in both areas are good. We lost out on house A due to a bidding war.

Purchase of house B has been going through nicely, (were told house A had become available again, but prayed hard, and decided we were not going to offer a second time) apart from the issue arisen recently with this extra cash we are going to have to lay down due to the drop in mortgage offer.

I phoned our mortgage man (very nice bloke) this morning to say that we would still go ahead on house B, when he drops into conversation that house A is still available, and due to quibbling on the part of the current purchaser, we should be able to get it for less than house B, and less than our initial offer on house A to begin with!

DH really wanted house A, house B was always a compromise to him. I love either house.

My point is this, if He didn't want us to have house A, why is this the third time it has come onto our radar? It keeps being thrown at us, and we keep turning it down. OTOH, it might be one of those obstacles we are supposed to climb over, rather than a road block to send us in another direction....help!

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 12:11

Sorry if that's garbled. It's hard to explain quickly, without leaving out too much, or putting in too much either!

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 12:12

Also it's our 9th wedding anniversary today, we have bith forgotten, as there is too much else going on at the moment. Is this a sign?

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 12:13

Sorry Soozi, of course you don't need to CAT me, if you want my email address then let me know x

Those last posts have been so self-absorbed I feel really bad.

Notquitegrownup · 16/07/2009 13:21

Having an horrendously busy week, so in haste - Sooz big hugs. Wishing we were nearer so that we could meet up over coffee and share real hugs. Praying for you and yours.

LTSF - will pray too. (Sounds to me as if you will regret it if you don't give house A another shot, though I do remember the nightmare of trying to redecorate throughout with small people in tow.) What a nice position to be in, though, being able to choose from 2 houses which you like!

God bless all.

Heathcliffscathy · 16/07/2009 13:24

ahem...is it very rude to ask to be prayed for? if it is ok, would you please pray for me to be pregnant (am due on saturday) this month. Failing that would you pray for me to stop obsessing (obsessing has gone into hyperdrive since miscarriage in March) and relax and appreciate what I have? I need grace and help so badly thank you.

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 13:40

sophable - it isn't rude at all! I found this thread by asking for prayer, and have found loads of support. Am praying that you are pregnant, and praying that your worries are eased. Also praying that His grace rests upon you to calm you and that the worries that may surround this pregnancy (from your past experience) clear, and you find the help you ask for.

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 13:41

Forgot to add - Good luck x

positiveattitudeonly · 16/07/2009 14:11

LTSF - Praying that you will make the right decision about the house. Reading through your account I would say that maybe house A is the one for you (totally my opinion, so please ignore) Housebuying is such a huge thing and God won't let you make a mistake, so ask for His guidance. Does the house all have to be amde perfect straightaway, or can it be done over time? Really praying for your guidance.

Sophable - Will be praying for you. Been down that rollercoaster myself. My life went in 2 week cycles, 2 weeks depressed after period and 2 weeks hopeful. Miscarriages seem to heighten the urgency,too. I know it is really hard!!! Prayers for you and that you will know God's peace.

Soozi - You are so not selfish. Praying that you will get some time and relaxation to youself. It sounds as if everyone else comes first and you need some tinme for YOU. I am praying that God will surround you with His love and protection and pour love into your marriage.

Love to you all in your very busy lives

Heathcliffscathy · 16/07/2009 14:14

oh thank you. i'm in tears am so moved.

LovingtheSilverFox · 16/07/2009 15:35

pao - We have put our offer on the table, so let's see....there are major works that need to be done as soon as, new fence (as it borders an alleyway to a rugby club and is falling down), new windows (some are broken), kitchen doesn't look functional, but I am hoping(!) and definately at least one of the bathrooms needs to be done. Other things, like the layout would be nice to sort out, but not sure we have the money to deal with that at once, also not too sure how easy it will all be with the kids (DTs have started crawling in the last few weeks, and have instantly tried pulling themselves up - what joy!)

Notquitegrownup - yep, if we let this go I think we will regret it, DH fell in love with it, and I like it too! Not too often we can agree on stuff like that!

sophable - this thread is here to help! I too had a miscarriage, my first pregnancy, but never had the tension that you are going through. If you want to talk this thread is here, and we just listen, and support each other. I will uphold you in my prayers x

positiveattitudeonly · 16/07/2009 17:08

LTSF - WOW how exciting. Don't fret. If your offer is accepted, just thank God and be excited about the future. Now is probably not the time to say that we moved into a big house, intending to do it all up 9 years ago. We prioritised a 5 year plan. I think we are about year 2 BUT the space is brilliant! 5 dcs - space is essential. Believe me!!!! Keep posting how its going.

Heathcliffscathy · 16/07/2009 18:44

LSF, I'm praying that your offer is accepted and that this will be a peaceful happy laughter filled home for you.

myjobismum · 16/07/2009 18:49

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frAKKINPannikin · 16/07/2009 19:52

LTSF - praying that God's Will becomes clear and the path is smoothed for you (literally if necessary!)

sophable - praying for your health and happiness and for a positive outcome.Prayers will be offered for you whenever you need.

Soozi - praying that the Lord gives you the strength, wisdom, protection and help that you need

CaptainDippy · 16/07/2009 20:42

Any more news LTSF? Praying. xx

REALLY praying that you are PG sop - do keep us inofrmed

My dearest lovely friend Sooooz Praying that God wraps you up in His infinite love and care right now sweetheart and that a miracle might happen for both you and DH. You know where I am if you need me. xx (BTW, in case you hadn't realised, my wee nephew was born dead at 22 weeks )

My MIL has been down to spend the day with SIL and DH and niece, I expect she will bring more news with her. Continuing prayers appreciated

out4now · 16/07/2009 21:29

CD - I'm so sorry, mis-understood, prayers for your family in their such sad time.

Thank you for all your prayers of support, and your offers to e-mail.