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Hands together and eyes closed: a new Christian prayer thread (May 2015)

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Tuo · 19/05/2015 10:32

Welcome to a new prayer thread to take us into the summer. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS through his mental health problems and self-harm;

... AnxiousKeziah, following the loss of her baby DS;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; for good support for her DD and DS; and for her mum;

... BlueTinkerbell, thanking God for the safe arrival of her beautiful DD4;

... Bsshbosh, who has terminal cancer, for the best possible quality of life for her for as long as possible; also for her DH and DD as they travel this road with her;

... DizzyDaffodil, who is struggling, asking God to be with her and for her to find RL support at this time;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here;

... FaithLoveandHope, for her mental health; for decisions about her academic work; for her STB-FIL who has been diagnosed with cancer; and for her relationship with her DP;

... fakenamefornow, thanking God that things have taken a turn for the better for her;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... HydrochloricTulip, for stresses at home and at work;

... innerstrength100, for strength to decide what to do in the aftermath of the break-up of her relationship last year and the unexpected coming back into her life of her ex;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process;

... LegallyBlonde77, as she goes through the adoption process - praying for a match very soon and for her family to be complete;

... LifeofBriony, for problems in her relationship with her DH;

... littlehouseinthebigwoods, for problems in her relationship with her controlling DH;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues;

... PositiveAttitude, especially for her mum who has dementia and for her dad, who finds it hard to accept help; for her DD2 recovering from a scary reaction to a dog-bite overseas, and for her whole family; for her studies and her role within her church; and for her and her DH as they plan new and exciting ways of working with the people of Cambodia;

... QuestionofFaith, as she tries to rebuild her life with her DH following his mental health problems and withdrawal from her;

... SESthebrave, for problems at work; also for her MIL who has had a cancer diagnosis;

... TooBusyByHalf, as she explores and hopefully rediscovers her faith;

... weegiemum, for her continued recovery from her very scary infection and septicaemia, and also for her DD's continued progress in overcoming her anorexia;

... ZipadiSoozi, for her dad who has dementia and for her mum and the whole family as they find ways to support him in this; also for her BIL who has cancer;

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, BlueSkies80, CaulkheadUpNorth, CharlotteCollins, chocolateteapot, cloutiedumpling, CocoaBean, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, FlabbyMummy, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, legohurtswhenyoustandonit, LollipopViolet, LostinChilli, MaryBS, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, ninetynineonehundred, PandaG, Pipbin, RoomForALittleOne, ScarletDancer, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, WobblyRainbow, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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ZipadiSoozi · 22/05/2015 23:46

PA yes think we are in a similar position, although your mum sounds as if she is further down the line, dad so far hasnt fallen too badly apart from a couple of times splitting his head open, due to low blood pressure. Had a good day, my brother took him out to Southwell Minster then to Lincoln Cathedral, poor dad was shattered but happy, my brother is the only one that can take him out further than a coffee shop that us sisters do because of the toilet situation. Had a lovely morning with mum destressing although didn't tackle any important issues that need to be dealt with after yesterday's upset, need to sort out power of attorney, day centres and emergency chord, one new thing a week is all mum can manage, it's a lot for her to take in bearing in mind they are both in their 80's.

BIL has his catheter out tomorrow, his body already rejecting it very painful for him after prostate cancer operation, prayers it is all clear, after the bad news they had to take lymph glands out because it had spread to them.

Prayers for all on journeys for the Whitsun Holidays, keep safe and enjoy, hope the weather stays warm!

Oops seem to have been rambling on again, (trying to distract myself from indigestion from a chocolate pop tart, no Gaviscon in house) Grin

ZipadiSoozi · 22/05/2015 23:49

Just noticed the time, got carried away knitting!

BOING!

wirrinboffin · 23/05/2015 00:09

Just found this thread, and please forgive me for being so brazen! But my big sis is having major surgery next week to remove cancerous cells from the lining of her brain.

Would appreciate if you would remember her In your prayers.

QofF · 23/05/2015 06:38

wirrin not brazen at all, welcome and of course I'll pray.
Welcome too to elizabethsmum.
FLaH prayers for the thing that is worrying you.
mhd prayers for health
Praying particularly this morning for those with elderly and ill parents.

Dutchoma · 23/05/2015 07:30

wirrinboffin you are very welcome here and of corse I will pray for your sister, What a very scary thing to happen, please tell us how she is getting on.
Soozi what a lot to cope with for your family, no wonder you sit up late knitting.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/05/2015 14:54

prayers wirren.

I have been hoovering under ds's bed and the wardrobe. progress is being made. another two loads of cuddly toys have been washed. a whole heap of washing needs to be removed and rewashed. on the short cycle thankfully.

if I crack on with it they may be back in their beds tonight. I will still be sleeping on the floor though for a nother week or two few days yet.

got the joyof sorting out the mouldy conkers in the sand tray that ex caused and was supposed to sort out. not looking forward to taking the lid off that mess.

not heard from him yet either about arranging to see the children other than establishing which city we will be in.

ZipadiSoozi · 23/05/2015 16:38

Sorry I seem to be a nuisance of late, please pray my dad (in mums words) jumped out of his bedroom window, he must have climbed/lowered himself 8 foot drop out onto the conservatory roof then lowered himself down a 12 foot drop, he doesn't appear injured apart from his hand, I want to take him to NHS to be checked over but they won't go, I don't know if he can feel pain, all the Dementia helplines are now closed, my brother has checked him over he said dad fine, but I don't know. Maybe I am just fussing. It's everyday now, this can't go on.

Sorry off loading again, so worried.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/05/2015 18:06

oh sooz. he really needs to go into a home doesn't he. praying that he will get safe accomodation.

elizabethsmum · 23/05/2015 19:25

many thanks to everyone for the warm welcome. soozi if you dad is not seemingly in any pain but you are worried, maybe it might be worth going to a & e first thing in the morning as inevitably always quiet first thing Sun (Sat eve on bank hol weekend will be awful- used to work in a & e xray many moons ago). sorry not to be of much help- dh is a nurse specialist in dementia if you ever need any specific advice I could ask him for you?? xx

ZipadiSoozi · 23/05/2015 20:20

Thank you Elizabeth, I was trying to phone the Dementia helpline, because my dad doesn't seem to feel pain, was wondering if that's normal, although he was very disturbed by his bleeding hand, he said he jumped to stop the bleeding, bless him, he seems to be walking alright, his arms are ok, goodness knows how he didn't hurt himself more than he did. Such a long way down, mum now locked all upstairs windows and hidden keys, I will see if he is in any pain tomorrow, think all the uni balls are tonight, my ds has gone out booted and suited, so will avoid hospital tonight, thank you for the tip. My brother is a carer so I trust he looked at dad thoroughly, hope he comes on board with us now to accept dad needs more care.

PositiveAttitude · 23/05/2015 20:57

Oh Sooz, sorry that you are having to deal with daily crisis' too. I am in that place, too. We have phoned 101 before - the number for the NHS helpline. They have access to a 24/7 crisis team who can come and assess and give advice. Ours have been absolutely brilliant and it was a back door into all sorts of help which dad then turned down but it was reassuring for us to know that they are there.

I have had to be quite firm with dad today. First he did his normal trick of emotional blackmail to get me to go and sit with mum so that he could go and do his shopping which he could not possibly have thought about yesterday when the carer came in to allow him time to go shopping alone. Hmm then he announced that he was going to take mum out in the car this afternoon. She falls just going to the toilet, has 5 steps outside their bungalow and cannot be safe. According to dad, because she managed it yesterday when mum went for a wander she just needs to do as she is told and she can "sort herself out" enough to be able to go out safely. Apparently everyone saying it is not safe to do it is expecting too much of him and we just don't understand that he cannot stay in the house all day. I know its hard, but he has to think of mum and we have now put things in place to help him as much as possible or for a s long as he doesn't tell them where to go He wont leave the carer for more than 20 minutes, then moans he doesn't have any time to himself. Anyway, a little success and they didnt go out this afternoon - but announce he would not back down on Tuesday when the next outing is planned.

Dutchoma · 23/05/2015 21:20

Tuesday is a little way PA Sufficient unto the day...

Now I need to be a little vague about he next thing: I have had a prayer request from a MN friend who does (at the moment) not want to come onto the thread herself. She has asked if we can pray for her dd, in the middle of her GCSE exams. She had terrible pains in her back, had a lumbar punction, all results show she doesn't have a brain tumour, but she has raised pressure in her spinal fluid. (I hope I got that right). She is still doing GCSE exams, in spite of everything.

Also prayers for everyone (on or off this thread) who may not have posted for a little while: Anjelica, Dizzy and maybe others who my find it too painful post at the moment.
I am sure that this thread is a great comfort to quite a few people and I think we need to go on praying for those who dont post as well as for the people who come and ask for prayer.

BlackeyedSusan · 23/05/2015 22:00
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FaithLoveandHope · 23/05/2015 23:29

There seems to be quite a few people with ill / struggling parents. Praying for you all. Oma praying for your mumsnet friend and her DD too. Thanks for mentioning those who haven't posted for a while. Apologies if I've missed it but I'm on my phone and finding it hard to look back, has inner been back? I do hope & pray she's okay.

TooBusyByHalf · 24/05/2015 14:40

Prayers for you all.

Please could I ask for you to pray for me and my DP as we find a way together to accept each other's beliefs. I went to church today - which necessitated telling her that I'm not an atheist anymore. She kept asking why and the only thing I could think of to explain is that I just don't think it's all an accident anymore. She said that if this world is planned then god must be a complete sh*t. Though on the bright side she didn't mind me going and was pretty good humoured about it all. I think we have a long way to go.

FaithLoveandHope · 24/05/2015 15:51

toobusy that sounds really difficult. I'm glad you're exploring your faith and I pray God will help you in your journey and help your DP be more supportive of you too.

Tuo · 24/05/2015 21:59

Prayers for all tonight, but especially for those whose parents are struggling with dementia and caring responsibilities. Particularly praying for those who find it hard to ask for or accept help, that they find a way to accept the help that is offered with good grace and not see it as a sign of weakness.

Praying, with FLaH for innerstrength. If you're reading, innerstrength, know that we are thinking of you and wishing you well.

Also praying for you, FLaH, for the thing that is worrying you, for your STB-FIL, and for your DP.

Praying for Oma's friend and her DD, asking God to be with them so that they can draw on His peace at a time when they must be feeling scared and stressed.

Welcome to the thread wirrinboffin. Praying for your sister and for all those charged with her care at this time. Please stick around and let us know how she goes on.

And for you, TooBusy - I've left a longer reply on your other thread, but I wanted you to know that I have prayed for you and lit a candle for you tonight at the monthly silent/contemplative service that I go to (I hope you don't mind - you popped into my head in the peace of that place...). Remember that you don't have to have all the answers: it's OK to admit to not really knowing what is drawing you to faith and simply to ask your DP to respect your desire to find out more. That may be less threatening for her, and also easier for you than feeling you have to have all the answers suddenly. And Pentecost is a great time for you to have taken this step - I'm really happy for you.

On this Pentecost Sunday, I pray that the Holy Spirit may be upon each and every person who reads this thread, as comforter, inspiration and guide; as source of love, joy and hope.

Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and kindle in them the fire of your love. Amen.

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Dutchoma · 24/05/2015 22:07

One of the people on the Israel trip asked us to pray for a young woman (I think the daughter-in-law of one of her churchwardens) who was quite ill in hospital and waiting for a heart/lung transplant. I heard today that she had it and is doing well, although of course a long way to go. She is 26.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2015 00:06

TooBusy.

also following your threads and posts and yes praying too. you are a lot further on in the journey than I expected. hoping taht it all goes well with the course and with your partner.

we saw ex out of the flat today. he did not turn up at the ducks as early as expected then had a bit of a wobble about not seeing the children as much as he would have liked. well you should not have been so fecking intimidating then

rather annoyed as ds seems to think it is all my fault as I am the person saying no.

It also meant that I have done very little to their room tidying.

however, we did get to see two broods of ducklings, (some of which seemed turbo charged when getting out of the way of cranky coots) two broods of goslings, of different sorts, and a brood of coot chicks.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2015 10:45

ouch ouch ouch, got a very sore neck. dd trod on my head when I was lying on the floor. worried that she has done some proper damage.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2015 11:07

Flowers oo look. for alzheimers.

Dutchoma · 25/05/2015 11:08

Need to get it checked out, however much of a bind it is. Necks are precious.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/05/2015 11:30

it is feeling a lot better now. thankfully.

Italiangreyhound · 25/05/2015 19:20

Well done too for telling her.

BlackeyedSusan · 26/05/2015 12:42

I am really pissed off and have no idea why.

should be improving hormones wise. been fed, slept, children are playing nicely.