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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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madhairday · 16/02/2015 15:21

Oh niminy - dear one. That's so so tough. :( I don't know what to say, except to assure you of my prayers. Praying that this half term will be more peace filled than you can imagine at present. Praying for your ds, that he will know God's hand on him in his turmoil, and praying for you as your heart breaks at his words and actions. Being a parent can be so very hard. With love.

Flowers
DontstepontheMomeRaths · 16/02/2015 16:11

Hello all
I'm off this week but the kids are still booked into a Playscheme so I can catch my breath. I've been suffering from panic attacks and chest pains. I think working, being a lp for 5 years and not much sleep are taking their toll. I'm feeling very shivery today and my muscles ache. So I've slept a lot. It's been lovely.

DS has had the Autism Advisory Service in school (finally) and their report has been so helpful. I just hope the school take on her suggestions.

Need to collect DCs now but prayers for all on here.

BlackeyedSusan · 16/02/2015 18:08

I am feeling a little better since I pout off going up to my mothers until tomorrow. she is no well and it is going to take a lot of endurance to not havea massive melt down.

praying for calm niminy

praying for rest mome.

niminypiminy · 16/02/2015 18:55

Things calmer here! Tears from DS1 and he did say he was sorry. But I feel completely shattered.

It means so much to have people's prayers. Thinking of Psalm 73: Neverthless I am continually with you; you hold me in your right hand. Your prayers make that a reality.

howtoapproachthis · 16/02/2015 19:00

hey mome - so sorry to hear you are getting panic attacks i hope you are ok - good that the kids are booked in.

nim - that is terrible praying for rest, peace and for help for you

thank you for your kind words Tuo as always. I know me getting upset about text was my issue, not my friends fault so i never said anything - its just when she keeps saying how are you and the answer never changes i get annoyed because the answer hasn't changed for me - i am annoyed with the situation, not with her, and i realise that. i actually just needed to break the isolation. i hadn't had much adult company at all this past month apart from a phone conversation. when mum and dad come i have to rest while they help with dd so i don't spend quality time with them. anyway, i saw my friend today and we had a great conversation about many different things and she is very understanding, and that feeling of being so alone isn't as strong.

many needs here. God has a many millions of ways to answer one prayer - i pray he answers every hearts cry

PositiveAttitude · 16/02/2015 20:03

Good evening everyone. I have just had a catch up and pray as I read through.

Howto Prayers for you to feel God's peace in your illness. Be easy on yourself. (((((hugs)))))

MHD Prayers for the Abs to do their work. I am glad to read that you are on the mend. I pray it is a quicker mend than you are anticipating.

Niminy prayers for you and DS. I know it is hard, just hang on in there. It is good that DS was sorry after the incident. Even if he cannot control himself when he gets like it at least he is realising that his actions are not acceptable and are hurting you. Prayers continuing for you. ((((hugs))))

Faith I don't believe that God changes his mind, BUT sometimes we can travel down a road with God that we believe is going somewhere, or for a specific time and I do believe that God can have a different plan for us and we might need to change direction, or change path when we had not expected to. When we went off to be missionaries in Cambodia it was a 2 year plan. Everything was set for 2 years. After 1 year I needed to return to this country to live while DH stayed in Cambodia for another year. I knew it was right to go in the first place, but when the path seemed to change I felt as if I had failed and had let God down because I was not good enough, but over time I can see that it really was all God's plan and He was in control of it all. I don't know if that makes sense to you........

Tuo It's good to recognise the small answers to prayer and blessing along the way.

Mome - sorry to read that you are finding life a little difficult. You are a strong lady, but be easy on yourself, too.

Big waves to DO and BES, Anjelica and Punk, be assured of prayers from me for your situations.

Life is still looking quite good for DD1. She has felt able to go to uni for the first time for months - she had been keeping up with her uni work by doing it from home. We are so grateful to God for this answer to prayers. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, but I can now see a light at the end of the tunnel.

It is our grandsons first birthday today. I feel so blessed. DD3 and DS-IL are fabulous parents to him. He is toddling around and so content with life. DD3 is so well physically now after so many years of being unwell. He is the scrummiest grandson ever!!!

Life for my dad is becoming unbearable. Please remember him and my mum in your prayers. Dad does not want to put mum in a home as he is worried that she will forget who he is, but she doesn't know who he is anyway!!! He just says he would be heartbroken every day if he went to visit her and she did not know who he was. I can understand his devotion and love for the person my mum was, but she does not know who anyone is any longer, is aggressive towards my dad and I feel that he could really do with some breathing space away from her to recharge his batteries. It's very difficult - and he is also a stubborn bugger very strong willed man who will not accept advice or help in any way.

PositiveAttitude · 16/02/2015 20:06

Goodness, that was a bit of an epic. Blush

BlackeyedSusan · 16/02/2015 22:36

It is hardto let go, but at some point going into a home is necessary. it feels so final though, abit like admitting defeat. hopefully, he won't get to the point of collapse before he does so.

I have had a late burst of energy and managed to put more washing away.

innerstrength100 · 16/02/2015 23:39

Got something to tell you all.

This is probably INSANE and RIDICULOUS bearing in mind what I have been through not very long ago, and who knows what kind of disaster it may lead to BUT

I am having a little romance. With someone totally new. Very recent development. Eeeeek!!!!!!!!

ShockShockGrinGrinGrin

madhairday · 17/02/2015 08:47

Ooh innerstrength...Prayers! Take it slowly now :) be careful and loving to yourself.

PA so pleased dd is doing better and able to get back to uni. That's so great. Can't believe dgs is one already! Praying for your dad and for you. It must be such a time of grieving for you all Flowers

Praying this morning for niminy and anjelica, and praying for healing and rest

for Mome. Praying for howtoapproachthis

  • praying for peace for you and God's presence in your loneliness. So pleased your friend came over for a good talk.

Bes praying for a good positive day for you going to your mums.

Both my dc are away. It's very quiet! Dh is decorating dds room today. I will sit and command.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 17/02/2015 10:37

Thanks MHD.

I had this week all planned out. The kids would be in Playscheme and I'd rest but also sort out their clothes, maybe decorate the hall. God had other plans! I'm in bed again with a headache feeling washed out. I'm supposed to be going out tonight but I can't see how if I continue like this. A bit unfair really as I never go out to gigs. I was so looking forward to it.

This post is a bit me me me. Sorry.

madhairday · 17/02/2015 10:47

Mome I know it's so disappointing and frustrating isn't it. You have to just sit back and be in it all somehow, let it wash over you and try to find God's presence in it all. He's there. But I know how you feel. Flowers Prayers that you feel much better soon.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/02/2015 11:53

"Which one of you stole it? there is definitely a lot missing!"

definitely only seems a couple of months ago when we were praying for morning sickness to abate and the decision to go to cambodia...

who stole my time?

BlackeyedSusan · 17/02/2015 12:02

Mome, sorry you are feeling so tired. sounds like a typical reaction to every school holiday when I was a teacherad probably brought on by exhaustion. praying you feel well enough to go tonight. might do you good.

PA congratualtions on dgc being 1

If oversleeping is a good positive start... there were several interuptions... small boy related but I have slept for nearly 12 hours! It is slightly messy down here with a few toys out

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 17/02/2015 13:39

Sleeping all of yesterday did do me good. I threw up this morning as my headache was so bad on waking. But it's easing now. Just trying to eat something as I need to.

I can't believe PAs GC is a year either!

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 17/02/2015 13:40

12 hours sleep is good. Bet you feel so much better for it.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/02/2015 14:13

well... feel a little better but I am exhausted. Mum is very sleep deprived and crying... I can not cope with it as I am struggling. a bit headachey and dizzy myself. takes several days to recover. she is begging for help but really she needs to lie down and relax, no-one can do anything unless she sleeps. the tablets make her too ill, so there is not a lot anyone else can do. she has been told to lie on the sofa with the tv on to distract herself. hoping it will work.

if I go feeling like this it will make it worse as I am lacking in patience. need to gather myself to not shout.

off to do some more packing.

BlackeyedSusan · 17/02/2015 17:37

just rung mum and she is a little better. she has rested on the sofa and has a plan for tea (more than me then)

I have been avoiding packing ( i did a bit but when I cried getting the bag out of the cupboard I decided that perhaps I am not quite up to going to mums just yet) and have been working on tidying up upstairs. this is making me feel like I have not spent the whole holiday sorting out everybody elses needs and not my own. anyway, I have emptied most of exes cupboard. I have cleaned up some toys that have been trampled in the bottom of the car and washing the second hand lego.

just given the children a snack (less stuff to pack from the fridge to take to mums if we have eaten it all! )

Dutchoma · 17/02/2015 22:49

Keep going BES you're doing great. Hope your mum is lots better when you get there eventually. Better not to rush it as the chances that you'll lose your patience, either with her or with the children are so much greater when you are not in a trong place yourself

QofF · 18/02/2015 08:00

Praying for health improvements and rest for you poorly ones. How are you doing today BES?

QofF · 18/02/2015 08:02

Oooh Inner sounds interesting.....take it slow and enjoy!

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 18/02/2015 08:33

Oh BES. Can you stay at home one more day to recuperate?

I went last night but I had a standing ticket and ended up perching on a step as I felt tired and achey. I suspect it's put my full recovery back. I've woken today with my headache back with a vengeance. It was so nice to get out but there's no denying I'm run down.

Dutchoma · 18/02/2015 08:44

So many people poorly. Amber has the flu as well. Praying for you all, while being thankful for the many blessings in my life. Had pancakes with darling grandaughter yesterday, she managed as many pancakes as I did! It wasn't a race!

nochocolateforlentteacake · 18/02/2015 11:53

Pancakes are the best medicine, especially with sugar and butter.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/02/2015 11:56

slept in again. though going to bed quite late as I was not very tired and washed up at 11.30 and was looking for a bit of bloomin' star wars lego which got shot across the room at 90mph. i also had a nocturnal visitor and several visitors this morning.

chances that you'll lose your patience, this is what I told her. She is not going to get any better if I am so poorly I only shout, and ds comes rampaging round the house.

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