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The Christian Prayer Thread Prays Again...

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Tuo · 31/01/2015 22:31

Welcome to our new prayer thread as winter turns (not quickly enough for some of us...) to spring 2015. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... ALittleFaith, especially for her dad, who has been diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, praying that his medication continues to keep him as well as possible for as long as possible;

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes;

... Anjelica27, as she tries to find ways to support her DS who has been self-harming;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for Operation Flat Tidy;

... BlueTinkerbell, for a problem-free pregnancy with DC4 and a happy outcome;

... CaulkheadUpNorth, who is struggling with MH problems which are affecting her faith, and by extension her job in a church environment; prayer for her access the support she needs, inside and outside the workplace, and for her to find her way back to God, in her own time, if need be;

... ChocolateTeacake, for work and financial worries; and for her health;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths , for her busy life as a single mum, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; praying for her relationship with her DD; and continuing to think of her in her life without her beloved Bob;

... FaithLoveandGrace, for her mental health as she undergoes painful, but hopefully helpful, counselling; for her relationship with her DSS; and for her work on her PhD;

... howtoapproachthis, for her health, following her diagnosis with CFS and for her to find support for herself and her DD;

... innerstrength100, for strength, hope and joy in her life as she rebuilds her life following the unexpected break-up of her relationship;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find continue to support her DS through this process; and praying that her ex is able to see how damaging his current behaviour is for his DS so that, in this at least, he is able to change his ways;

... MadHairDay, for her ongoing health issues and for the strength to deal with them;

... MaryBS, in the discernment and selection process for ordination to the priesthood;

... ninetynineonehundred, for her relationship with her DH from whom she is separated but with whom she is still living , praying for healing, trust, love and forgivement for them both;

... Pipbin, following the loss of a desperately-wanted pregnancy, praying for strength, for hope, and for lots of support;

... PositiveAttitude, for her studies, her work situation, and her role within her church; for her and her DH as they consider where their engagement with their faith will take them next; for her mum, who has dementia and her dad who has finally accepted he needs help, but finds it hard to accept it; for her DD1, who has been depressed; and for the whole family;

... RoomForALittleOne, for her health in her new pregnancy;

... QuestionofFaith, thanking God that her DH has found a new job, and praying that this will be the turning-point that he needs to overcome his depression and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and me, Tuo, for my DD2 who has been self-harming, but seems much happier at the moment - please pray for that to continue.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: Badvoc, BlessedAssurance, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, DeladionInch, EilisCitron, Gingercurl, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, LollipopViolet, MrsPixieMoo, niminypiminy, PandaG, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, weegiemum, Zing and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). We pray for our muslim sisters over in the tea-room, at a time when many feel afraid in a world which seems suspicious of their faith, praying for peace and understanding between all faiths. And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

OP posts:
BlackeyedSusan · 18/02/2015 14:21

I am doing pancakes tonight for mum and the children. we prefer sugar and vinegar. there was someone on mn last night who also recomended which is a first.

nochocolateforlentteacake · 18/02/2015 14:26

Vinegar? Never thought of that. I usually put it in pizza though.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/02/2015 14:59

DLA claim has come through. Smile

Dutchoma · 18/02/2015 16:04

That is brilliant.

Anjelica27 · 18/02/2015 18:03

Evening all, well that's that! Ds was discharged from CAMHS yesterday and is now refusing to see GP too and has apparently stopped all his medication two weeks ago. I thought we were in a relatively calm place (we really had been in a better place) and feeling very brave went to meet my eldest ds for a couple of hours (first time I'd left the house for any length of time in months). Needless to say came home and he'd cut himself again - first time in a couple of weeks. I'm beginning to feel a bit like a prisoner, you know if you do this I'm going to do this. Sorry a bit of a ramble but logically I know that I can't shut myself off from everyone but it's not quite that easy is it. He did the same thing when my mum and sister came up, I used to see them all the time and only once since October. Time for a rethink - praying for guidance and strength.
Please would you think of my eldest son in your prayers tonight too. He has really struggled to support me and his brother through this (has mh issues of his own, depression and anxiety) and found out tonight his beloved cat has cancer. He is distraught. Yet another ds who is terribly sad.
This was a bit long, sorry. Please include us in your prayers tonight - as I will you xx

Dutchoma · 18/02/2015 18:24

Did you manage to get in touch with the crisis team? Certainly praying for you and both your sons. Losing a pet is devastating, especially at such a crucial time.

Anjelica27 · 18/02/2015 19:20

It was very calculated, you went out and met my brother and this is what I've done. No crisis as long as I don't go anywhere. I would understand if ds wanted to have any connection to me when I was here but he doesn't. Just seems to want to totally disconnect us both from everybody. Not sure what to do next. Looking for guidance please

innerstrength100 · 18/02/2015 21:55

So sorry Anjelica. Praying for you.

innerstrength100 · 18/02/2015 22:39

Anjelica you must feel so isolated, not having left the house much for that long. I'm not surprised you feel like a prisoner. So sorry. Do you have a plan for tomorrow? Is there anyone at all, friend or family, who you could visit or who could visit you. You need support, love and care. Shoulders to cry on, hands to hold, maybe a watery smile to share, through gritted teeth. Am praying for God to send you strength, and also comfort.

Tuo · 18/02/2015 23:58

Prayer for Lent: Day 1

So, I am going to undertake to post a prayer a day for Lent again this year (though I'm travelling to the US again in March and may not have wifi for a few days, so I may miss a couple then for practical reasons).

I am praying tonight, above all, for Anjelica - what a difficult situation. I wish I knew how to advise you... in the absence of any useful experience or knowledge, though, I am praying for you and for both your DSs - asking God to bring His healing to them both, to give you the strength to deal with this situation and the wisdom to know what to do, and to bless you all with His love.

Praying, too, for BES and for BES's mum - for your visit to go well and to be as unstressful as it can be in the circumstances.

Praying for innerstrength with joy at her exciting news and hope for a happier future.

Praying for MHD's continued recovery and for Momey to feel better soon, too. Also for amber and for anyone else who's under the weather at the moment.

Praying for howto, too, for rest and strength, and giving thanks for a good meet-up with your friend.

Praying for PA's mum and dad, and for PA as she works to support them, and giving thanks for a happier DD1 and for a joyful year with DGS.

And praying for calm in the niminypiminy household and for niminy to find the support she needs in order to help her DS. What did CAMHS day, niminy?

A prayer for Ash Wednesday:

Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing you have made and forgive the sins of all who are penitent: Create and make in us new and contrite hearts, that we, worthily lamenting our sins and acknowledging our wretchedness, may obtain of you, the God of all mercy, perfect remission and forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

OP posts:
Anjelica27 · 19/02/2015 06:03

Thanks you for your support and prayers. Been up all night thinking and praying, looking for a way forward. Ds came down about two hours ago and asked for his medication so he could start taking it again and for me to phone for re referral to CAMHS in the morning (they had said if I phoned at any time he could be re referred). Completely out of the blue but so so thankful. I know it's only a first step and not a guarantee of anything, he might change his mind tomorrow but if I wasn't so tired I'd be doing a happy dance!!! Including you all in the prayers in the morning xx

Anjelica27 · 19/02/2015 06:10

Been up all night thinking and praying for some help in what to do next. Ds came downstairs about two hours ago and asked for his medication to start taking it again and for me to phone CAMHS in the morning to re refer him (they had said all I needed to do was phone and they would do that). Where did that come from, it was completely out of the blue. I know it's only a first step and there is still a massive struggle ahead and he might change his mind again but it's a start. If I wasn't so tired I'd be doing a happy dance. Thank you for your prayers and support, thinking of you all this morning xx

Dutchoma · 19/02/2015 07:05

If that isn't an answer to prayer, I don't know what is, Anjelica. Thanks be to God. Would it be at all possible for your son to phone CAHMS himself, rather than you doing it? I'm thinking that it would be best if he accepted responsibility for the management of his illness himself. When all is said and done it is his illness and his responsibility. Might not be possible of course as you have done so much over so many years. See what CAHMS say, anyway.
Sorry if I'm way out of line. Prayers ongoing.

innerstrength100 · 19/02/2015 07:59

That is such good news Anjelica.You must be exhausted. Good idea Dutch for him to make the phone call himself. Continuing to pray for you, and wishing you a positive day.

Anjelica27 · 19/02/2015 08:16

Thank you Dutchoma and Inner. That is a very valid point about ds making the referral for himself, he took his tablet last night and is sleeping peacefully for the first time in months. I'll talk to him about that when he wakes. I'm not being unrealistic and imagining that we are out of the woods by any means but mental illness is nasty and vicious and I'm ridiculously happy that we have had one small victory. Not sure exactly what I said to him last night but found the right words from somewhere. Believe me, I'm thanking God every minute. Take care, have a good day xx

QofF · 19/02/2015 08:32

Fantastic Anjelica. I think the thing that is so important here is that he has come to the conclusion by himself that at this moment he wants help. So I think DO's advice is spot on, get him to phone, to take ownership of the situation so he can really feel as if this is a decision he is making himself, not that he is being coerced into. Am giving prayers of thanks for you and will be continuing those prayers.

QofF · 19/02/2015 08:33

And Anjelica good news it is but you must feel emotionally and physically wrung out so be good to yourself!

FaithLoveandGrace · 19/02/2015 11:38

Anjelica that's fantastic news and a real answer to prayer. Keeping you in prayer that he does actually phone the CAMHS. Praying also for you and your eldest DS.

Praying through the thread. Apologies for not posting much but am reading and praying when I can. Tuo I love your prayer for last night. I first heard it at the Eucharist service in the afternoon and the first bit really struck a chord "Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing you have made."

How overwhelming is that, that no matter what we do, how many times we feel like we mess up, however unworthy we feel, God still does not hate us. He loves us more than we mere humans can ever possible comprehend.

I pray that we can all just think about that for a few moments today. That we can all just come together and take comfort in God's loving presence. Lord strengthen us and uphold us in all the challenges we are facing this day. Whether big challenges or small, we thank you that we can come to you. We thank you that because of your sacrifice on the cross, we can always know your deep and unwavering love for us. Amen.

madhairday · 19/02/2015 12:56

Amen, Faith :) Needed that today.

Praying for you Anjelica - so glad things seemed to turn around a bit and praying for a good way forward now. It sounds so tough for you right now. Praying for peace for you and that you'll know the joy of the Lord being your strength.

niminy continuing to pray for you.

Praying for amber mome bes and all other poorly peeps. Thanks for your prayers for me. It's ongoing and slow but I am getting there.

love to all..

Anjelica27 · 19/02/2015 13:06

Sorry, just realised I'd posted twice - blame lack of sleep!!! Ds still sleeping so went and sat in church for a bit of quiet time and to say a prayer of thanks. Sending love, gratitude and including you all in my prayers xx

PositiveAttitude · 19/02/2015 13:40

Rejoice in the little steps Anjelica. That sounds like quite a large step for DS to me. Have a restful day.

Just flying by to dump this on here. The charity office where I work (yes, my lovely lovely new office that I posted about recently) and the coffee shop/Christian bookshop were broken into last night. My lovely lovely office has been trashed!! I am gutted. All my work is thrown around the room. Furniture, including filing cabinet, table, drawers literally ripped apart. I have now got days of work to do to get it in any way shape or form useable again. Huge kick in the teeth for the charity, who are struggling a bit anyway. The most frustrating thing is that it is very likely to be one of the people who we are trying to help who did this. It is not done by a random passer-by as there is too much coincidence in what has been left untouched and what has really been trashed.

Anjelica27 · 19/02/2015 14:34

I'm so sorry - don't know what words of comfort to offer you but wanted you to know that I am thinking of you xx

FaithLoveandGrace · 19/02/2015 15:20

Oh no, PA that's awful :( This happened to my local Christian coffee / book shop recently too. Thinking of you and praying things get sorted as quickly as possible xx

Kaykat · 19/02/2015 16:15

Can I ask for prayers please for my ongoing dental saga? I had a bad experience back in the autumn where I endured an hour and a half of agony in the dentist chair and the tooth is still not fixed. It was left with a temporary filling that has fallen out twice and I have turned into a complete quivering wreck stupidly ignoring problems because I am too scared to go back. Never had a dentist phobia before until that bad experience. I think I have been talked into letting a different dentist have a go at it, am still terrified but I know I have to do something if I leave it it will just get worse. Anyway tomorrow I have decided to speak to the practice manager and hoping she we be supportive about it all and help me.

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 19/02/2015 16:44

Oh I'm not surprised Kaykat. Yes you need a dentist you can trust and who is more than capable of good pain relief and quick fillings if possible! You poor thing. Praying.

Anjelica I tried to post this morning but mn kept crashing on my phone. It sounds really positive. Praying that he'll get the help he needs.

PA I can't believe someone has done that. So sad. I hope the order will be restored soon and it won't cost the charity too much to replace important items and make it more secure.