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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

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OP posts:
QofF · 23/01/2015 22:24

so sorry to hear about your friend faith
Inner I love that, thanks so much for sharing. I will have to get a copy to refer back to I think.
Angelica still praying for you and your ds.
Praying through the thread. Have peaceful nights all of you.

ALittleFaith · 23/01/2015 22:45

Sorry it hear that Faith. Praying for you, his family and friends.

Praying for the future Mary.

madhairday · 24/01/2015 09:10

I'm so sorry faith Flowers

Praying for you Mary. How exciting! :)

Thanks for the story innerstrength, and continuing to pray for you and also for Kaykat.

Praying also for Tuos dd2 And for Anjelicas ds.

Praying that you will all know being held in the father's arms today and for always.

Went to my consultant yesterday. Things not so bad with chest which is good but got to have another reflux examination which is no fun and also looking at poss of CFS which often goes with chronic illness. Sigh. Feeling a bit pathetic about it all - like I'm a fraud or something. Like I should get up and ignore it all and be more useful. I don't know. Having a downer.

Dutchoma · 24/01/2015 09:21

You're plenty useful as you are MHD. Don't spoil it by wanting more 'getupandgo'. Blessings for all today.

FaithLoveandGrace · 24/01/2015 09:41

Thanks all.

mhd you're not pathetic or a fraud. When you're ill you can't just ignore it all and it's bound to be tiring. Whenever I feel overwhelmed by things / exhausted I try to remember this passage:

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

BlackeyedSusan · 24/01/2015 10:53

sorry faith.

Dutchoma · 24/01/2015 12:03

How did the meeting go BES

BlackeyedSusan · 24/01/2015 14:01

got to find child benefit number and fill it in.

found the bank details when the postman handed me the post this morning.

madhairday · 24/01/2015 17:14

Thank you faith and oma for your kind words.

Hope you've found the number bes!

Anjelica27 · 24/01/2015 21:11

I'm struggling to find a purpose in all of this, had to take ds to a and e to put him back together yesterday. There seems to be nowhere to go because he refuses to talk to anyone.

Today he is fine and he will be for a few days now. Praying so hard for strength and guidance but feeling very lost at the moment. Thank you

Dutchoma · 24/01/2015 21:47

So very hard for you Anjelica, I don't know what to say. What mental health help is available in your area? Is there a possibility of you having some help with it all through your GP? It seems too much to bear it all alone.

FaithLoveandGrace · 24/01/2015 21:53

I'm sorry things are so hard Anjelica I wish there was something I could say that could make it all okay, but I know there's not. Praying for strength for you and for healing for your DS. Is there anybody you can talk to in real life? Helping someone with mental health issues can take it's toll on your own mental health and you deserve to be supported through all of this too. I know lifesigns is a pretty good site for self harm support and I think they have info for parents on there too, may potentially be worth a look.

QofF · 24/01/2015 22:13

Anjelica I feel desperately sad for you both and I wish there was something useful I could say. There is always hope though please remember that. Years ago I witnessed my DF come through a decade of horrendous depression, a lengthy period of which he was like a zombie, focused only on wanting to die. This last year I have seen my DH make massive progress after a nervous breakdown and depression. I know the forms of illness are different to what your son is suffering from but there is always hope and recovery is always possible. The key is getting the right support both for him but also for you. I am praying for you both.

Anjelica27 · 24/01/2015 22:14

Ds has been offered help from CAMHS and GP but refuses to talk to anyone at the moment. Am off work myself to look after him but can't have anyone here. family live away but would come up and when my sister brought mum up he hurts himself. Praying for guidance but failing at the moment. Thanks

Tuo · 24/01/2015 22:17

Anjelica - I agree with Oma... See if there is some support available to you to help you through all this. I am so sorry to hear about your DS and hope he will find the strength to talk to someone about this soon. My heart is aching for you, Anjelica, and I wish there was more I could do, or that I had some words of wisdom... I don't, but I am holding your hand, virtually, and praying with and for you.

MHD - I'm sorry to hear you feeling so low. Please don't feel bad. What you achieve, despite your constant battle with illness, is amazing, and you have always been such a source of strength and inspiration. I am praying for peace of mind for you, and also for health and strength, and for happiness in your life.

Faith - love love love those verses. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. IME university chaplains are very good at dealing with sudden bereavement, grief, stress and 101 other sources of stress and unhappiness. They have supported me through some very difficult things over the years.

innerstrength - thank you for sharing that. It's so good to see you sounding more positive. I am continuing to pray for you - that this year may bring you much happiness.

Mary - that is hugely exciting; I'm so pleased for you. Prayers for you.

Oma - continuing to pray for you and hoping all's well with you. Have you heard from Room? Was wondering how she's getting on.

May the light of God surround us;
the love of God enfold us;
the power of God protect us;
and the presence of God watch over us. Amen.

OP posts:
QofF · 24/01/2015 22:26

Anjelica what do the professionals say you should do as your son doesn't want to see anyone?

Anjelica27 · 24/01/2015 22:47

If we don't go to the next appointment which of course we won't because ds refused then they will discharge him and we will be on our own. Have asked him how he sees himself getting better or things improving and they don't need to because he is fine. If we don't go next week we are alone.

Anjelica27 · 24/01/2015 22:48

Sorry think I was rambling a bit.

Dutchoma · 25/01/2015 07:29

Is there no communication between A&E and the mental health services so that they know that all is far from 'fine'? If there isn't then can you put that connection in place?
Come and ramble on here as much as you like, I have very little experience of these issues, but others have. Have you also posted on the mental health board, there are people with lots of experience on there and maybe you could share with someone in your area if you were willing to disclose that in a private message.
Meanwhile I will go on praying for a breakthrough for you, of course.

FaithLoveandGrace · 25/01/2015 09:10

Thank you Tuo Both of the Anglican Chaplains are fantastic and have sat with me through many difficult times. They are fantastic dealing with a multitude of stresses / worries as well as of course sharing in the good times.

Anjelica I agree with Oma's suggestion of popping over to the mental health boards. The village thread is a great place for support although starting your own thread is just as good too. Many of us over there have experience of self harm. I don't know what things are like where you live but in my experience A&E are not the best at dealing with self harm. Could you go to the meeting yourself and explain how things have been? It seems unfair to dismiss you because your DS is currently refusing to talk to anyone. The problem is there's not a lot you can do until he accepts there's a problem and accepts the help :( it's really hard helping someone through this, especially when they're reluctant to accept help and I'm praying for you at this time. Sorry, I would say more but my head is a bit fudged at the moment and I'm struggling to express myself. I didn't sleep much again last night.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/01/2015 09:26

so sorry Anjelica.

operation flat tidy: little progress but going back over things that need doing:clean bath, basin, under sink, sweep part of the kitchen floor, sweep hall and stairs. fold some laundry, pick up toys several times... not that it shows, wash up, do a load of washing. I have also managed to sort through som eof the carrier bags in the kitchen to find stuff that needs putting away. fiddled about in the cupboard to make more space

Dutchoma · 25/01/2015 09:45

Actually I see that you've alread 'been there, done that' Anjelica and you don't seem much further forward than you were at the beginning of January. Can you try contacting the most useful people again and say how much harder things have become since you last spoke?

cloutiedumpling · 25/01/2015 10:08

Lurking and praying.

innerstrength100 · 25/01/2015 12:14

Faith very sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you.

Anjelica yes you need support too - I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling.

MHD How are you feeling today?

innerstrength100 · 25/01/2015 12:18

Over the past couple of weeks I have FINALLY had some anger come out towards my ex partner about how he treated my in those three months of hideous limbo when I had no idea WHAT was going on and it made me ILL. I can't actually remember much of the Autumn, I was in such a state.

I actually want to hit him over the head with a frying pan. A really heavy cast iron Le Creuset one. Shock