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A Christian prayer thread for Autumn/Winter

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Tuo · 30/10/2014 01:17

Welcome to our new prayer thread for autumn/winter. This is a safe and supportive place of prayer, where regulars, occasional visitors and lurkers, committed Christians and those just dipping a toe into the water are all equally welcome. Come and leave a prayer, tell us what's going on in your life, bring your worries, hopes, fears and joys to God, and know that you will be prayed for.

We pray, in particular, for...

... amberlight, for her work raising awareness of the ways in which we can work to make life easier for our autistic friends, and for her to know love and acceptance wherever she goes; also thanking God for her recent 'all-clear' at her annual cancer check-up;

... BlackEyedSusan, for all the many things which she has to juggle in her life as a single parent; in particular, for her DS to get adequate support so that he is less stressed at school; also for her DD and for her mum, and for BES to find the RL support that she needs;

... BlessedAssurance, for life with her two LOs, and for her family who are far away;

... DontstepontheMomeRaths, for her life as a single mum, for God to provide if her XH is successful in training for a new role, and for the wonderful work she does through her church supporting people going through separation and divorce;

... DutchOma, as she continues to miss Bob; thanking God for the wonderful support that she provides for so many on here; and praying for her relationship with her DD, in particular;

... Gingercurl, for her work situation; and for the relationship between her brother and sister to improve;

... howtoapproachthis for physical and emotional healing; and for a good bond between her and her DD;

... Kaykat, continuing to pray for her as she goes through the stressful and painful process of divorce; praying, in particular, that she is able to find good ways of supporting her DS, and for him to find renewed happiness in the coming weeks;

... MadHairDay, for her health; for peace of mind about the choice of secondary school for her DS; and for her DD to find friendship and acceptance;

... MrsPixieMoo, thanking God for her baby DD; and praying for a new home where the family can be really happy;

... Pipbin, for her IVF treatment - for her to find support and a positive way forward, whatever the outcome;

... PositiveAttitude, for her new studies and her work as a Deacon in her church; for her mum, who has dementia; and for her DD1 to find one or more special friends;

... PurplePidjin, for a more peaceful life;

... QuestionofFaith, for her and for her DH - for his depression to lift and for them to find ways to rebuild their lives;

... and for a poster we won't name but whose situation is known to God, praying that she is safe and supported.

We pray also for all regular and occasional visitors including: ALittleFaith, Badvoc, BlueTinkerbell, CharlotteCollins, cloutiedumpling, JugglingFromHereToThere, ktef, MaryBS, niminypiminy, PandaG, RoomForALittleOne, SEStheBrave, thegreenheartofmanyroundabouts, tunnocksteacake, weegiemum, and for anyone I've forgotten to name-check (don't take it personally, please!). And we pray for those who read and pray but don't post, for those who need our prayers but are afraid or too uncertain to post them, and for all those known to us in our own lives who need God's love.

Keep Your people, Lord,
in the arms of Your embrace.
Shelter them under Your wings.
Be their light in darkness.
Be their hope in distress.
Be their calm in anxiety.
Be strength in their weakness.
Be their comfort in pain.
Be their song in the night. Amen

[post edited by MNHQ]

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Dutchoma · 16/01/2015 15:25

Prayers for your friend FLaG for healing and for peace of mind.
BES sorry to hear about the jumpers, did they both (all) go missing at the same time? At home or at schoold? Does ds know where they are? If so can he be bribed to tell you?

I had a marvellous choir practice at our RC cathedral last night. We learned to Taize choruses and practised the Hallelujah chorus which sounded magnificent with a large contingent of men. Even better was that there was a letter to say we will do Stainer's Crucifixion for Good Friday with six practices scheduled throughout Lent. Very pleased.

QofF · 16/01/2015 21:09

Think Faith is right BES, probably need to take a break if you are feeling overwhelmed. PA praying for dd and that depression will lift and Faith praying for improvements for your friend.
Had a flick through the Pope threads earlier and there is just so much anger out there. So much distrust. So much twisting of things to suit personal agendas. As a fluent Italian speaker I heard his comments in italian and there is no way they translate as they have been portrayed in the British press. But people don't want to hear that I guess....
DO sounds like you had a wonderful evening Smile

BlackeyedSusan · 16/01/2015 23:02

all is quiet. ds is just reading. he fell asleep after school... and they know what you say about letting sleeping dogs lie... anyway, he had a melt down. i had to leap inbetween him and dd as he was about to send her flying and there was lots of shouting and stamping. food improves his mood.

while the children were in the bath, I get bored supervising, could not face clearing up so sanded and filled a small portion of the wall, and got the last of the badly applied filler out of the architrave on the bathroom door and then cleaned the basin and swept up the floor where I had made a mess.

I have not washed up but have put the previous lot away, and the children have been fed watered and bathed. I also managed to put a little of the shopping away.

Dutchoma · 17/01/2015 08:07

Hope you got some sleep at the end of all that BES

BlackeyedSusan · 17/01/2015 11:28

slept yes. woke up with backache as slept funny but that seems to be wearing off a bit now I have got moving.

FaithLoveandGrace · 17/01/2015 14:18

Thanks for prayers for friend. Still no improvement and won't know prognosis for another day or so.

Have counselling this afternoon, feeling very anxious. Please pray for God's calming presence and that I'll be able to be as open and honest with her as possible.

Tuo · 17/01/2015 14:20

[off-topic, sorry] QoF - Ma come mai non lo sapevo che parli l'italiano? Hai famiglia in Italia? O l'hai studiato solo per interesse? [Have been away, but will read back now and shall return...]

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Tuo · 17/01/2015 14:28

Hello... normal service is now resumed.

Prayers for jumpers to turn up, BES, but more generally for the camel's back to be lightened somewhat, so that life gets generally easier all round.

Prayers for your decision about the future, PA, and also for DD1... I know she has struggled before, and I pray that she will quickly find the resources to pull herself around this time too. Praying for support for her in the process.

Also praying for you, FLaG, as you approach your counselling. I know it'll be hard, but also, I hope and pray, a way for you to feel better about yourself in the future. Also praying for your friend.

And thanking God for Oma's joy in singing and for PA's exam results.

Please pray for DD2. Noticed a tiny cut on her arm last night. She says it was 'an accident' but I am not wholly convinced... She seems fine in herself, though, and has [faints] tidied her bedroom today.

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FaithLoveandGrace · 17/01/2015 16:26

Thanks tuo Counselling didn't go so well. I couldn't relate to her at all and she does CBT whereas I prefer person centred which I hadn't realised before going. Once DSS is in bed tonight I'll be getting straight on to our local Christian counselling centre which work on a donations basis. I'm glad I went though as the thoughts and feelings leading up to the session as well as during the session has highlighted just how much I need one.

Sending love and prayers to your DD. I'd be dubious too about it being an "accident". I hope it's just a one off and she doesn't revert back to it. Praying for you too. It sounds like you're doing a wonderful job of supporting her. Coming from someone who has very little in the way of parental support re self harm, I can honestly say your support to her probably means more than you'll ever know.

QofF · 17/01/2015 19:24

Ti ho mandato un messaggio Tuo. Smile
Faith am glad you went. Even though it wasnt what you wanted at least its shows you the way you want to go.
Tuo paying for dd, hopefully it was nothing but at least you are know now so you know what to look out for.
bes have been channelling you today. Bedroom wardrobes in our room completely gutted and reorganized. I am humiliated by the amount of dust I have encountered Blush.

Kaykat · 18/01/2015 08:52

Oh Tuo teenagers are such a worry I feel I was rather naive about how difficult the teenage years would be I hope it was just a genuine accident. When DS was having problems I ended up hiding all sharp objects. You get hyper vigilant. He has been ok recently but I did some major life changes to reduce his stress.

I have some difficult things coming up especially with the divorce, Although I don't always post the details on here because I am worried about being outed I still feel the benefit of your prayers for me. Sometimes things just seem to get sorted out in a surprising way.

amberlight · 18/01/2015 09:07

Reading through everything and praying as I go...

BlackeyedSusan · 18/01/2015 09:48

forgot to say I prayed for the counselling and dd, tuo.

going to try for church if I can get motivated.

BlackeyedSusan · 18/01/2015 22:28

Are you ok Amber? Praying.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/01/2015 15:39

found ds's diagnosis letter. need to find their ot schedule as well asap. just having a coffee before collecting the children.

need to sort the bundle of stuff that I picked up from the sensory OT session.

BlackeyedSusan · 19/01/2015 22:02

praise God I have found quite a lot of the paperwork ready for the dla session.

FaithLoveandGrace · 19/01/2015 22:44

Praise God indeed BES. When is the session? Will be praying for you. Did you make it to church yesterday? I haven't been since midnight mass. Things have been very up and down since Christmas and I had very little sleep Saturday night so really couldn't bring myself to go. Really hoping I can make the midweek Eucharist on Wednesday!

FaithLoveandGrace · 19/01/2015 22:45

Sorry meant to say praying for you Kay. Thankfully God knows what you need so you don't have to worry about sharing more than you're comfortable with :)

Dutchoma · 20/01/2015 08:00

I have just seen a FB message of Canon Andrew White: I am simply asking for your prayers. You may not hear from me for a little while.

QofF · 20/01/2015 08:21

Kay praying that things will continue to sort out for you. DO just seen that. Amazing man, God keep him safe. Faith hope you feel ok to go to the midweek Eucharist. I keep meaning to go to an additional mass without ds and never do. I love going with ds but we tend to be rushing last minute to get there and I am always aware he is sat at the front with his friends and is usually gassing away. I am always waiting for the Priest to finally explode with them so it rarely is that peaceful, regenerating experience I want it to be!

FaithLoveandGrace · 20/01/2015 18:59

Thanks QofF I know what you mean about it not being a regenerating experience. I find the same when DSS is with us.

Tuo you mentioned before a few of you here have PhDs, please tell me it's all worth it? I feel like I work non-stop but it's never enough, there's always loads more to do. I was up until 3am the other night working and then back up at 7am. I obviously don't do as much when DSS is here but otherwise it's virtually non stop. I think I'm finding it harder than usual atm because of the counselling issue hanging over my head / opening things up. Just finding it all overwhelming atm.

Kaykat · 20/01/2015 21:12

Thanks for your prayers. No PhD here I'm afraid. Struggling with ex. I try to maintain a friendship with him to try to stop him alienating DS from me and messing with his head but its becoming clear that he has begun doing this again and also that DS has been fuelling it by telling lies about his life with me. Ex can be lovely at times but also very nasty and I'm trying to decide whether to go no contact with him again. I'm fed up with him being nasty to me especially if it doesn't benefit DS any more. DS is old enough to sort out his own contact with him but I do worry as he struggled so much with his emotions in the past and he always sides with his dad over everything and finds it hard to say no to him. I probably need to let them get on with it and stop worrying. But how to stop worrying??

Dutchoma · 20/01/2015 22:34

I think it would be very difficult to stop worrying KAY as the situation is a worrying one. You mentioned earlier that you have some help with ds from your dad and your brother, what do they say about it all? Maybe a male perspective would be useful. For my self I think I would want to minimise contact with ex as much as possible and wait until it comes to court,because I don't think he will ever be 'nice' long enough for you to get a fair deal

Kaykat · 21/01/2015 00:06

My brother thinks DS will recognise what his dad is like soon enough and want nothing much to do with him. He thinks he will remember that his dad was a bully to him and as an adult he will be resentful about it. Actually that has begun to happen at times. My dad thinks I shouldn't be putting my life on hold for a teenage boy all of whom are obnoxious in his opinion and tell him to go live with his dad if he thinks he's so great.

I've been thinking about recent conversations with ex. He is a bully trying to force me to do what he wants and trying to draw DS into it. Trying to make me look bad in front of DS. Lying about things he claims I have said and done. I guess I knew things would escalate because he has a lot to lose in the divorce and probably the only things left that he can do is try to bully me into dropping it. I think the best thing is to stop talking to him. I need to somehow not worry about what he is saying to DS and let them sort themselves out.

Anjelica27 · 21/01/2015 00:23

Hope it's ok to ask. Ds is in a desperate, self harming place at the moment. Never prayed as hard as I am at the moment to keep him safe. Thank you