mhd you know me so well :) that's exactly me, always thinking of the others first! always there to help someone... and most of the time forgetting myself...
I hope your friends DS and DIL had a gentle day with lots of love and support to ease them through this difficult time. I hope they had the chance, if they wanted to, to meet their darling baby and say goodbye.
thank you bes I'm doing fine actually, and that's meant to be as in actually yes I am doing fine, not the one where people say they're fine and they're not. I still have days where I am sad or have a cry, but most of the time, I can look back to what happened and feel ok about it. I know that my darling Sterre was given to me for a purpose and although I miss her dearly and would have loved her here with me, I know she is in a good place.
I had an interesting conversation with DD this morning. She asked if she could have another baby, one that she could play with and help change nappies and help feed. So I promised her that yes one day she will have another baby but that it might take a while because it needs to grow in me first :) She talks about Sterre all the time and will always remember her. But she will be such a good big sister for a baby to keep in our arms. She is excellent with little ones. :)
This morning as well DD noticed my poppy on my coat and she said oh Mummy you'r wearing a poppy. So I asked her if she knew why people wear them. She looked at me and said yes, to remember the people who died, like Sterre. She is so clever :) makes me very proud. I did explain that it was mostly to remember people who died in wars, but think concept of war is a bit difficult to understand, so said people who fight.
jently good to see you again! been following your blog and on FB!
right, that's enough waffling!
will pray for everyone!