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MN Christian Prayer Thread - Dippy's Back! Prayers for New Beginnings as a New Academic Year Commences ......

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CaptainDippy · 25/08/2011 08:27

Grin

I know I would appreciate prayers as I face the prospect that the Littlest Dippy starts school in a few short weeks (w/c 12th Sept to be precise). Feeling a little wobbly to say the least ......

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PositiveAttitude · 03/11/2011 06:58

Prayers for a smooth move Blue and special ((Hugs)) and prayers today on Sterre's due date.
I clicked to see your picture, but its not been made public Sad.

Bluetinkerbell · 03/11/2011 07:27

Thanks PA! Made the pics public now! :)

PositiveAttitude · 03/11/2011 07:49

Love the memorial stone! Lovely pictures thank you for sharing! Smile

ZipadiSoozi · 03/11/2011 11:01

Meditation was ok last night, a bit out of my depth, was" how do we see God as our father", apparently most people see God in a similar way we see our own father, then we discussed a Rembrant painting of a father and his two sons, one knelt down at his father asking forgiveness, the other picture was of the prodigal daughter being forgiven! it was actually quite emotional. Next week we are going to 'Southwell Minister' for our meeting, then we have a whole day at a local Holy Convent [eek] way out of my comfort zone.

I lead a christian way of life but still cannot fully commit, I get so far then back off, is it fear of my emotions being stripped bare? lack of faith? lack of knowledge? fear of the unknown? laziness? learning difficulties?

My friends have recommended the 'Street Bible'

I was brought up to have control of my feelings, never allowed to be angry upset or too over excited! so now as an adult I find communicating feelings quite tricky! but I wear my heart on my sleeve.

Sorry seem to have rambled again.

Please help me on my spiritual path not to be so much like crazy paving! Confused Smile

ZipadiSoozi · 03/11/2011 11:39

ooh just managed to get a Street bible from e-bay for £5 - thats a start

madhairday · 03/11/2011 14:01

Oooh Sooz the Street Bible is good.

I think that's a thing with Christianity, is is to a certain extent about relinquishing control, and saying actually God you're in control, not me. To get to that stage is hard (esp for control freaks Grin) but once you get to it it can bring so much peace and an amazing sense of things falling into place.

I'm reading an old battered 70's book by a pastor from Argentina at the moment, it's incredible, he basically turns everything around, saying it's not actually about us but about glorifying God in all we do, and if we do that we will find somehow things work together. I've experienced this personally, and certainly don't always get it right, most of the time I'm pretty self absorbed really like most of us probably, but there is a freedom in surrender.

Come on the chat thread, it's good to talk out stuff like this.

Meanwhile I will pray that you find your path and feel more at peace with it all :) The meditations sound a good start - and you may be really blown away in a good way by your day at the convent.

Have started a new thread about a possible meet up if anyone interested.

thejaffacakesareonme · 03/11/2011 14:34

Lurking and praying for everyone.

Sooz - I'm an absolute control freak and remember vividly reaching a point where I believed in God but wasn't ready to give up control of my life. It was as though I believed in him but didn't want him in all aspects of my life. I wanted to retain control of some things. The prospect of giving that up was really scary to me. I got there in the end, but I still find trusting God difficult at times. I keep trying to remind myself that his timing is perfect and that although things may seem like they are not always going well that I am only seeing part of the whole picture.

ZipadiSoozi · 03/11/2011 20:16

How is it possible for God to control your life? he can't put food on the table for us or do the washing, I am mis-understanding your meaning of putting your life in Gods hands xx

this is all so confusing, sorry I'm on the wrong thread again, i'm supposed to be on graham gloria and chat!

DutchOma · 03/11/2011 21:57

Soozi, I think you should take a step back and relax before the Lord: "Be still and know that I am God" Feel His love for you, just let it sink in that He has given His life for you, that He has done absolutely everything for you, that he loves you with all His heart. If you let that sink in really, I bet that you would want to do anything for Him in return, out of the sheer love He has given for you. And even if you do not feel that (and emotions can be funny things), then it is still true that every good gift comes from above. There is a balance to be struck between allowing God to rule in your life and being active in leading your own life.
So, sweetheart, don't worry about anything, if people accept you as you are, God does so even more and he loves you.

blackeyedsusan · 03/11/2011 22:45

... and don't worry about posting over here or in ggc..

(oh and what she^^ said) Grin

madhairday · 04/11/2011 15:53

Sitting here crying, dd's having problems again with bullying little sods because of her exzema/psoriasis. It has got awful recently and we can't control it with the creams etc, keep trying different ones. It has spread all over her face this week. Latest thing is her table refuse to touch anything she has touched and deliberately turn away if she is there and call her dirty and scabby and infectious etc. :( She has talked to her teacher today who is brilliant and told her she is disgusted and dissappointed with them and will sort it out on monday. I just feel so sad for her, she has had to deal with such a lot and done so well with the move etc. I'm so angry too. Please pray for her and for me that I can find forgiveness and the best way to help her :(

Bluetinkerbell · 04/11/2011 16:18

oooh mhd :( feel so sad for your DD! my DH has psoriasis as well and I completely understand how she must feel! and of course the problem is with being bullied about it, that it makes it even worse :(

TotallyUnheardOf · 04/11/2011 17:37

Oh, MHD, that is so very sad. Your poor dd. I'm glad that her teacher has been good and I hope that she will manage to turn things around a bit in the class for your dd. Praying for her and also for the other kids, that they will see the harm that their unkind words can do, and learn to be more understanding. Oh, and for you too... it's so hard to be so powerless to make things OK for your children. But I know that she will be safe and secure in your love.

Praying for a smooth move for you, Blue. Sterre's stone is beautiful.

Soozi -does it help to pray 'Not my will, but yours be done'? I don't know if it does, but (as some people know because I've wittered on about it at length!) I turned to God because I was desperate to do something to help some friends who were battling with infertility. But I felt so unworthy to ask God to give them the baby that they so desired... I wasn't even sure if I believed in God at that point Confused. So I prayed that God's will be done, and that if it was not his will that they have their baby that he find a way to make that OK for them. That's how I'd understand the idea of relinquishing control, I suppose. I hope that your day at the convent goes well.

I'd give anything for a day at a convent at the moment (or at the bottom of a deep dark well, or anywhere where other people - and their annoying emails - are not...). Very stressed by work. I do have quite a lot of stress in my work, but normally I kind of thrive on it in a strange sort of way, but this week things have piled up and got a bit out of control and I've been finding it very hard. I have a permanent knot in my stomach and stress headache. I am laughing at myself now, though, because I realise that I should take my own advice and relinquish control a bit shouldn't I? Work does bring out the control freak in me though! Prayers for a bit of inner calm would be welcome.

Oh... and I hate fireworks [wuss] and there are kids throwing them about on the playing fields outside my house. [Hides under bed...]

blackeyedsusan · 04/11/2011 21:53

(((mhd))) poor dd. prayers.

blackeyedsusan · 05/11/2011 09:49

off out up the motorway again

blackeyedsusan · 05/11/2011 09:55

meeting their dad and he may be a bit fed up because he is not seeing them a lot this weekend. sometimes I want to do our own stuff without the pressure. it is odd, because he does not text dd or always talk much to ds on the phone. can't make it out. he wanted to take them out to a bonfire night thing, but I am not sure they are big enough to enjoy it yet and whether they are still scared of the bangs. dd is very sensative.

amberlight · 06/11/2011 16:25

Quick prayer request....another nosebleed and if it doesn't stop soon it will be another lond stay in casualty...lots of consultant appointments tomorrow to try to find the cause Sad

thejaffacakesareonme · 06/11/2011 19:27

MHD - your poor DD. She sounds very mature to have the confidence to raise it with the teacher. Prayers for her (and you) that the school will deal with it effectively.

BES - how did the fireworks go? My DSs were so scared of the noise that we ended up watching the fireworks from quite a bit away.

Amber - praying the nosebleeds get better quickly.

blackeyedsusan · 06/11/2011 21:31

amber how are you now?

jaffa. we watched the fireworks from my mum and dads house. ds liked watching them and was extremely excited. he stood for ages after in the kitchen watching more and looked out the window from the bedroom til late. we had an afternoon at the park and tea out with their dad. most displays owuld have been far too late and probably a little too crowded/noisy for them. (and me)

blackeyedsusan · 06/11/2011 23:00

how old are your ds?

Teaandcakeplease · 07/11/2011 07:19

I went to one lot of fireworks at a friends on Saturday, where we watched them from inside. Yesterday we saw another lot a church plant of my church ran specifically for children with less loud bangs, although some of them were a tad loud imo [Hmm] DD loved them all. DS has never liked loud noises, so he was rather agitated. The adults oh's and ah's and other shouts upset him too Confused

blackeyedsusan · 07/11/2011 07:38

going to try and get ds to the drs today/tomorro as he still has bad diarrhoea and he seems a bit "off colour"

madhairday · 07/11/2011 12:34

Oh BES hope he is OK.

Praying, Amber.

Thanks for prayers for dd. She has gone into school fairly positive so that's good. Hopefully today the teacher will sort things out for her.

Wouldn't mind continued prayers that I just start to feel a bit better....bored now!!

amberlight · 07/11/2011 17:01

Hurrah! Docs have fixed nose!

Much prayer for everyone else

DutchOma · 07/11/2011 17:16

Hurray for fixed nose, Amber
How did dd come out of school MHD?
Any luck at the docs BES
And prayers for Dippy and her stubbed toe "blood everywhere"