Ooooh have just been busy all day and come back to great convo here. Now I'm going to come and say my bit and revolt annoy nickel some more
But it's all OK cos we all love each other and all that
Well, here's how I see - and experience it all. A lot of the psalms use the kind of language that some of the songs you refer to do, saying things like 'I yearn for you, my body longs for you...' ...'As the dear pants for the water so my soul thirsts for you...' 'Because your love is better than life my lips will glorify you...' Hardly restrained language - pretty full on and some might see sexual imagery involved. Now tbh, I don't have a problem with sexual comparisons here, because for me how I see and experience God is that full on, is that deep, is that awesome and huge. And look at Song of Songs - this is often used to talk about God's love for us and our love for God - and that's as close to hardcore porn as you get in the bible
It's not in any way a new thing. I guess it's humans trying to express the depth of what they experience in God, the depth of his love, and the depth of what God has done for us - expressing our sincere thanks and praise, our gratefulness, our adoration. I can't find words to express it really - it just goes too deep I guess. But for me it's a natural expression of worship, and somehow when I am worshipping in this way I feel the most fully whole I ever feel, there can be an incredible sense of peace and joy and just rightness with everything.
As for experiences of the Holy Spirit, I realise they can look weird and to some may seem irreverent and wrong, but I have found them to empower me and increase my faith. The 'shaking like an orgasm' thing
is just the power of God. It's something amazing. You can't explain it. It doesn't feel horrible. Just like waves of love, of power. Not in a sexual way. It involves your deepest soul, but it is physical too. It's just gloriously lovely. Honestly. Speaking in tongues - just a love language. Sometimes I can't find words to pray, esp if it's for a difficult situation. With tongues it's just like you're expressing deep feelings and words you can't get on a human level. It's liberating. it's not woo, not made up. I can't speak gibberish for the life of me. It's something utterly natural. My friend had an experience where she was in a part of south America where they spoke a remote spanish dialect. She was praying with someone in tongues as she didn't know how to pray. The person turned in shock saying 'how do you know my language and how do you know my situation?' There is loads of stuff like that.
Nickel I know it seems horrible to you. But it's something incredible, freeing, making everything somehow make sense. Not saying I've got the answers or indeed that I've got it right and you haven't - far, far from it. I just suppose I want to stand up for this kind of thing, because I believe it's what God gave us as a gift. I understand your reservations and thoughts about it being like a concert where girls lust, because it can look like that i guess, but for me it's about worship going to a place I can't on other levels, on trying to express the deep truths of who God is, on being who I am created to be.
Oh yes and I heart Delirious. If you diss them I will be Angry. So There. They cannot be compared to Sir Graham 
Sorry about the essay!