Am I lazy ??

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So basically DH has told me tonight I'm lazy and that I take him for granted he says he loves me but wants to change a few things in the relationship , its come as a bit of a shock to be honest but these are basically his issues

• I am at home on maternity leave with 7 month old , I dont really make his tea for when he finishes mainly because I find it difficult with the little one , he thinks meals should be ready for his return , he has asked that I start to do this

• night feeds- these are rarely now needed as little one is a good sleeper like her mum. Problem is I genuinely cant wake up in the night as I'm so tired so husband feeds little one despite being up for work at 6:30am. he has advised that he feels this is unfair. To be honest I never really give it much thought

Says I never make him a brew , also I wont change the bed and get him to do it as it hurts my arms changing the duvet

I do all the shopping, feed and look after baby in the day , put clothes in washing machine and also buy all the birthday cards we need for the year ,I sometimes go off to bed for an hour at night ( can often turn into 3 hours ) as I feel tired all the time * was bad anemic after the pregnancy)
Iv been crying all night about this and hubby now feels bad he says
Who is right ? Should I do more ??
I entertain our child all day and buy all her clothes , take her baby groups act

Where's the OP gone?
For a nap?

You sound tired more than anything so I'd echo what pps have said about getting bloods done to check for anemia and underactive thyroid. And make sure you are eating healthily and drinking enough water.

Where's the OP gone?
For a nap?

Maybe a gnap?

She’s probably straining at a gnat 😂 (my third and final gnat saying)

Morning everybody just getting up now
Hope you all have a blessed day

Hi OP! Did you have a well deserved rest after all that card buying? .
Must be time for your afternoon nap (or gnap - tee hee @SillyBub )
Have a blessed day too

sorry much too invested in this thread - I shall go and put my duvet cover on

UK based or elsewhere, OP?

If this is true (don't believe a word of it), you are extremely lazy. What will you do if you have another child?? I've got a 3 year old, a 2 year old and a 5 month old. And when I'm not on maternity leave, I work 20 hours in the evenings!
If you're that tired, you should see a gp. If not, get a grip.

This is fake 😂