Thanks both - trying the sticker chart and choc buttons line but doesn't seem to be working although if only she could get one on target (had one yesterday) she would see the reward etc but however many times I tell her if she gets it in the potty she can go and buy an ice cream it doesn't seem to work.
THis afternoon 2 wee accidents - 1 she did and then wouldn't talk or listen to me so she knew she had 'done wrong' (I know its not wrong but YKWIM) and the second one I hadn't realise she'd done it as it was out in the conservatory and she came and told me (I'm not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing).
My mum has advised I don't do the trying to get her to sit on the potty regularly as this seems to be making her more determined not to use it and getting me worked up so am trying just gently reminding her ever so often and then letitng her have accidents and seeing if she twigs of her own accord....
So, no successes today....and a v. frazzled wheely. Will give it this week as think I need to give it a proper try and if no better by weekend will give up. It makes me feel so sad though cos she really wants to have ballet lessons and she can't really do that in a nappy which I keep telling her ...... sigh sigh sigh.