OK, I give up and need help! My DD (age 2.6) has chicken pox. Most spots on her face and PRIVATES (poor mite). So, I thought that it would be better for her spots if she ran around with no nappy for a few days rather than sitting in wee. Trouble is, she's potty and toilet phobic. Day 1 - 2 accidents am, nothing pm. Day 2 - accident am, nothing pm. Day 3 - nothing, Day 4 am - nothing. Big tantrum (both of us, DH refereed). pm - nappy on. Have tried special knickers, bribes (she's seen big bag of cheap crap from Tesco), chocolate etc. She has perfect bladder control - she waits until lunchtime nap and then it's like Niagra Falls. She now won't even go to the bathroom to wash her hands for meals. Whaddya reckon? She's stroppy, stubborn and stressy - not like me at all !